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United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

.GEEZIf you have a crazy ex wife who was in jail, currently in jail, tried to murder you or just downright unstable..move on. If YOU were in jail, tried murdering someone or unstable..move on. Unfortunately I have encountered both and it is not pleasant. Seeking someone who is spontaneous, loves to travel and is willing to take a chance! A sense of humor is a must. Please have a stable job..I have met all kinds on here so I know what I want and don't want.It seems as we get older it becomes more difficult to find the one and I am starting to lose hope. Please restore my faith!I am a single mother of a little boy who is 10. He means the world to me and my match should understand that he comes first. Family is extremely important to me as it should to you. I have a pretty good sense of humor...which is needed in the world of online dating lol. I think I am a good person and try to treat people with respect. I am guilty of caring about everyone's feelings and not my own. Don't get me wrong, I am not a pushover or let people walk all over me. I guess what I am trying to say is I am a kind hearted person and I am seeking the same! I want someone who is not afraid to show or express their feelings. Wounded birds need not apply. PLEASE HAVE A PIC!!!!!!!!! Getting tired of getting *** people who don't have a pic and is not willing to share it OR their pic doesn't represent who they really are which makes for a very uncomfortable first meeting. Something low key like grabbing a beer. I prefer not sit through a 7 course meal, especially if you don't like the person!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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