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Elvira, 42
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

UPDATE: What I am looking for: a good honest man that likes me for who I am and doesn’t try to change me into something I am not, can support himself, has a vehicle, is not a liar and is not controlling.About Me: I am a single mother of two boys that come first in my life. I am back in school as a full time student and it is second in life. But after being single for over two years, I am looking for someone to spend time with and hopefully find that special man.Work: I am currently not working, I go to school full time working on my teaching degree. If this bothers you, please move on. I support myself and children, have my own place, and a nice vehicle.What I am not looking for: I am not here looking for multiple partners, one night stands or to chat nasty with any guy. I cannot stand liars, if you say you will meet me or want to take me out then please have the courtesy to do so. Sorry if this sounds ****y but I am tired of all the B.S. and games men seem to like to play. For a first date, dinner and drinks would be nice. It has been a long time since I have gone out to dinner and had an adult conversation, lol. Not a fancy restaurant, somewhere casual, although getting all dressed up is nice sometimes, I am a jeans kind of girl. Maybe a movie or bar afterwards, possibly dancing, if things are going well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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