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Clematis, 41

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About Me

Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kimberely

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm going to give this one more try - and please don't take it personally if I don't return your *** timely basis...Sometimes I just don't get around to it and/or I don't think we are good match but good luck to you all...So here goes...I am a well educated, slim, active, attractive, clever, quirky, capable, sassy and stylish female looking for an equal partner in life and someone who will be a good friend. I have great professional career, am financially and emotionally secure, in the flow in many areas of my life and not so in others - but I know my trigger points and I guess that's half the battle....- and I am not sure why - but that's been my soul's journey up until now and I have no regrets of who and where I am. In fact, I feel like I am getting better and better with age, and the best is still yet to come....and I can't wait!Often described as having an effervescent and engaging personality, I am fun, funny, and quite playful. I have, what I think, is a unique blend of personality traits & interests. I have an analytical, mathematical mind and use it for work, and yet I'm fascinated by the metaphysical world. I am warm, compassionate, sensitive, sensual, spiritual and feminine and yet, I have the inner strength and courage to slay Goliath. I have a sense of adventure -- and yet my tour members would all agree that if I was on Survivor, I would be the first one voted off! I lead a very active lifestyle - I cycle, I run, I dance - and yet there is always a cute dress and a pair of shoes in my bag. I am outgoing, social and at times, can work any room, and yet, I equally love spending time alone or at home.What I am looking for is an educated, intelligent, respectful and compassionate partner. Someone with whom we both bring out the best in each other; who believes in personal motion forward; who doesn't have strong dogmatic beliefs but is flexible and open to different thoughts and cultures; who is able to communicate and work through his feelings; and of course, someone who is available...If only I could pick the ones I connect with - it would be so easy.. But alas, who understands this elusive thing called chemistry? I guess that is why Pi is an irrational number... : )(and yes, I know Pi has nothing to do with chemistry but I thought it was funny!) drinks, dinner, a walk

  • Nataly

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Looking to share outdoor activities and to live life to the fullest. I don't want to settle down; however I am seeking companionship to enjoy the things in life that pass us by. "I want a pinata coloda and to dance in the rain. I am into yoga and drinking champagne." I am looking for someone who is real but not fake, or shallow. Being honest, and trust-worthy is the stepping stone to any kind of relation. Romantic candlelit homecooked dinner! Cooking is my passion and I am good at it; however nothing turns me on more is when man knows how to cook an epic meal! During this fanciful feast, the intrique of a great conversation would be the choice of what would take place next:)

  • Neoma

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Let's see...I guess I'm the average norm that is looking for her life's companion, buddy, lover all rolled into one. I'm not here ( or anywhere-lol) to play games or serial date just for the heck of it. I am a very committed, loyal, treat-you-as-a-king mate. If you are not comfortable with hugs and kisses, passion, laughter, adventures together as easily as snuggling on the sofa with a movie, probably best to move on. I love animals (ask me about "kill a Prius, save a cat!" LOL); have dogs and ponies (sea horses that is). I enjoy a very wide array of activities and music. Have you ever seen a meteor shower at 4am? Amazing! Make me laugh, have quirky conversations with me as well as intelligent ones...lay snuggled up saying nothing at all which speaks volumes. My 17 year old son is my light and love. But as many of you know, that means independence-one foot in and one foot out the door. Hense my ability & desire to find my mate to enjoy the middle and older years of life together. I'm sensitive, caring, heart of gold, heart on my sleeve....but don't take me for granted or disrespect me. Don't lie...if I ask and an outfit isn't flattering, then say so. (Nope, not kidding-honesty is huge with me.) Oh and no, you won't get passively-aggressively punished for it later. LoL COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION...get the point? I want the right man, not just any man...My mate will be cherished, pampered (like massages?) and loved as unconditionally as humanly possible . My mate will show me his love...kisses and hugs, be a rock of support in good times and more so the not too good times. He will understand the huge thing called commitment. He will challenge me. He will enjoy intimacy---regularly (not just in the beginning). He will accept me as a package deal...son, dogs, ponies... I'm rambling...but that would be ok too with the right man. Surprise me!

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