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United States, Illinois, Benton

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Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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