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About Me

Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Robbi

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have both driven and rode motorcycles my entire adult life and I miss it. So if you have a bike, you already have one up! (Real men know what I mean)...I want a gentleman-someone that is old school and knows how to treat a lady right. Although I do like the “good man, bad boy” theory…I can throw on jeans and a t-shirt and go casual or I can put on that little black dress and heels and feel just as comfortable. I don't sweat the small stuff. I want a man to treat me like a priority in his life and I will do the same. I am positive and upbeat. I love to laugh and experience new things. I have one son all grown up and I really don't want any more kids. Guys, if you are separated, please take care of your business before you try and date me or anyone. It's not fair to the parties involved. No new doors will open unless you close the ones to your past. And fair warning-I do not have sex outside of a committed or serious relationship, so if you are looking to get laid- just move on. i am an avid runner and i work out and eat right-I stay fit and expect no less from any man in my life. I really don't care to hear about your past relationships and baggage. We all have both, and I won't burden you with mine so I expect the same consideration. I love rock and country music, and the blues. I love to laugh and enjoy going to comedy clubs. Laughter can cure almost anything!!!!I do not date blacks. (It is what it is), nor am I attracted to a bald head. Covering it up with a ball cap isn’t fooling anyone. I am just as entitled to my likes and dislikes as you are so don't call me out on it, just move on. One last thing. A man only gets ONE chance to disrespect me. If I haven't scared you away or pissed you off, then by all means, contact me. All others just hit the "next" button and move on. Go for coffee. Or ice tea, lemonade. Always looking for good friends too! You never know where the road will lead you.

  • Lynne

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am going to try this ONE more time. Brief and to the point. "I want my best friend and soulmate!!!"****Please have a profile picture of yourself and not your vehicle, dog, or kid (you with the these, is quite alright)! Oh, I don't reply to, "hello." Now, if you are searching for someone to make you feel better? That would be me. I am a loving, caring, thoughtful, positive, empathetic person. However, this has caused some problems in recent history on here. I'm still persevering, however (a good characteristic - perseverance). I know, there is the right person out there. It may not be on here; as my mother always stated, "it will happen when you least expect it." Someone gave me good advise with his own profile. Look through the windshield and not the rear view mirror. Take a sad song, and make it better (aka, the Beatles). I am family oriented, although I do not have any children of my own (not by choice). I married and divorced my high school sweetheart. I have good qualities and some pretty awkward ones (hey, I'm not perfect)! I work hard, college educated, well-rounded, and grounded. My laughter tends to lift people's spirits. If, I can make one person smile a day, that makes my day.I have resided in big cities; therefore, I'm a city girl, and your typical free spirit. Friends often refer to me as the, "chameleon." I can be very professional, dress up, sophisticated, walk into any room and begin a conversation with anyone. I can also be very relaxed, put on my favorite team's sweatshirt, and sit at a dive bar. Awkward means, I really am a compulsive clutz.C.). I have already been there and done that with my career, and residing all over the country. I'm ready to settle down with the right person, who shares the same values my parents *** me. Work, be frugal, enjoy life. I take one day at a time now. My parents were the best people that gave me the values of integrity, respecting myself and other's, regardless of their race, religion, or financial background. Give me a chance, and I will "Change Your World," "I will be the Sunlight in Your Universe," courtesy of my favorite artist, Eric Clapton. I am a basketball fanatic (Dad was a basketball coach). I love all types of music (Journey, Eric, the Stones, Eagles, Foreigner), and any old R&Life is so short. Enjoy it. I'm not lonely or desperate. I may reside alone; however there is a difference. That displays security within oneself. Insecure, is when you are unable to be alone. Never mind...that wasn't so brief. I have worked in politics, public relations, and law firms. I write a lot, okay?By the way, this will most likely be revised tomorrow....... Lunch, an adult beverage, or coffee. I love fall and winter. A walk around a lake or park, would be great (bundle up)!

  • Amari

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Love life, family, & friends and strive to enjoy every moment, every opportunity life has to offer. Honesty is important to me. People say I'm a strong person but I think it would really be nice to have that one special person I could share all my hopes, dreams, fears with and he still love me for all that I am. Hate the whole dating thing it's like an interview, let's just find something to do we both enjoy and get to know each other. Looking for someone that would enjoy working together, playing together, family time, caring, sharing, respect, honesty, understanding, big hearted, and NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT. Don't get me wrong I know nobody is perfect but have goals, know what you want, and find your dream!If your interested send me a message. Dinner and some place intresting to enjoy sights and common intrests. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. I treat others with respect and expect to be treated ths same.

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