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Tiera, 45
United States, Illinois, Benton

Offline, last seen Thu, 19 Feb 2026 18:33:43

About Me

Hi! To make a long story short...divorced twice (first married my son's father, 2nd I married my best friend). I have a great 16 year old Son, a great job and am very good at what I do. I am intelligent, attractive, energetic, sometimes too outspoken and sometimes too set in my ways. I am NOT rich and don't own material things and don't really care (divorce and being a single parent will do that). I think I sometimes scare guys off with my who gives a crap attitude (dating), but I am ME and if you like me for who I am then great. I've kind of been a loner for awhile (never really had close girlfriends, didn't care to) and I have been kind of living in limbo since my divorce from my best friend and partner. Sure, I've dated and even got burned a couple of times, but I refuse to believe that I am going to grow old and alone, lolI am not a player, I don't like games. I am straight up and to the point and expect the same. I am looking for a great guy who can be my friend to start, lover and eventually my partner in life. But if you are just going through a separation, divorce, still hooked on your Ex or looking for an FWB, don't bother with me. I am definitely NOT interested in any of that. Like I said, I get right to the point.I'm fun to do things with, sports, beach, fishing, golfing, camping and watching Rider games (Huge Rider Fan). Many interests and try to enjoy life, but I sometimes stress about things that truly don't matter, but that is just an aspect of my personality and of me being ME. Take it or leave it. I am who I am...I should not have to change myself if someone truly cares about me, as I would not expect that of them.I want a best friend to start and hopefully my partner in life...Don't be afraid to message me. I am still optimistic that I will meet my equal on this disheartening dating site lolKat Something casual or something energetic!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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