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Joleen, 42
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I love to make the people in my life happy. I have a ton of acquaintences but a small handful of true friends. The friends in my life have been there for over 15 years. I am loyal.. even when my loyalty is not deserved. I will do. nything for the people I care about but expect them to do the same. I have been stabbed in the back by people who swore they never would and gave them all second chances. A couple of times forgiveness worked in my favor...a couple of times, not so much. I still want to believe the best in people. I'm clumsy, I talk in my sleep, I twirl my hair when I am sleepy or if something is on my mind.I am emotional. I cry at the drop of a hat. I laugh even faster. I don't see this as a bad thing and have no intention of ever changing. I am smart, sarcastic, quick witted. I can be sharp tongued but I will never intentionally hurt anyone's feelings. I always try to see all the sides to an issue...sometimes I like to play devil's advocate just to try to get others to see a side different than their own. I need to feel important in my partners life. I need to be heard even if you don't agree with me... just listening to me will get you very far with me.I am a little old fashioned.... I can take care of myself but I love being taken care of. I want to wake up and go to bed every night with my best friend. i dont know if its possible to find that but i am not ready to stop looking. If you are MARRIED or in any sort of a relationship, DO NOT waste your time or mine. If you are simply looking for a fast hookup or naked pics, again....do not bother. It won't happen. It would be a waste of time. You tell me.......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Gardening
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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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