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Jinny, 45
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

**REVISED**Completing the profile is quite a task. I've been asked what I am looking for. I can tell you I have no agenda. I'm not searching for a serious relationship. I think relationships are something that develop. If you click you know it. If something wonderful develops then a relationship is certainly not something I am opposed to. But at present I do not have a game plan. I am not on a mission to meet Mr.Right. While I appreciate the numerous messages please understand I am not interested in dating young men and while I respect peoples individual choices I am not interested in inter-racial dating. I'm a professional who works hard through the week and on the weekend I like to have fun or other times I like to unwind and relax. I enjoy cooking, live music, movies, new adventures. Enjoy live sporting events from time to time. And I love going out on a boat. Maybe that is the native Floridian in me. I have some wonderful friends and consider myself to be very fortunate. I like spending time with people who are positive and fun to be around. Bonus points for making me laugh. Who doesn't enjoy laughing?I am a curvey lady but I believe that's ok. I don't think I have to be skinny to be attractive but I do think its best to be in the healthy weight range. I am more attracted to big guys. Tall is great since I am 5'10" and I like some meat on the bones. Being attracted to you is the first step. But looks are second to personality and stability. I like the total package, someone who can laugh and cut up but be serious when the time is right.My adventurous past activities include sky diving, bungee jumping, zip lining and riding my own Harley for five years. Now I am not quite that bold these days but I don't want to just sit on the couch. Fun is important to me. You only go around once and I want to continue to make great memories.Good luck to all. I hope you find what you are looking for. Ah.... the first date. Simple, no big pressure or expectations is best. Meet for a drink or a meal. Truth is nobody knows if there will be chemistry until you meet. I think its best to have a short first date. If sparks fly make more plans. If nothing happens that's ok too. Just politely move on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Spanish Vietnamese Comedy Mystery Rodeo Volleyball
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