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Cressida
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Time to get some popcorn or M&Ms, and a bottle of wine! And, FYI: It'll get more than a "Hello, You're Cute" OR "How was your weekend?" to get my attention. And, I'm not into long distance relationships; nor interested if you have a significant gut on you. I"m looking for healthy and attractive, amongst all this. YOU: I'm hoping to find someone that is compassionate about the world around him....someone honest (okay, mostly...but, always when it's important), positive (or tries hard to be; I know, this is a tough life, eh?), sensitive (you know, has a heart, cares about the little things too), intelligent (used wisely and kindly), a good communicator (doesn't go into his man-cave every day; but, I will respect his need for down-time), healthy and fit (normal BMI: body mass index - So, what is yours? Mine is 19.9; If yours is over 25, we are not likely a match), respectful of others' opinions and beliefs, trusting, balanced, has no compulsive behaviors (such as gambling, alcoholism, lying, stealing, smoking anything including weed, or any other drug seeking activity, etc) ...Did I just lose the rest of you? Oh, and has no STDs, including cold sores. I know, STDs is a sore subject. I'm so sorry, But, it's just something I don't want, thank you. We don't talk about it; but, we should! This would include HPV (Warts), HIV/AIDS or HSV (Herpes). The incurables. The rest are mostly curable, so not too worried about the rest. Got all that? If not, there's Google...lol. He would be confident, but not arrogant; a hard worker, but not too much of a workaholic; loving, but not smothering; serious, but has a great sense of humor. Someone trustworthy (you know, does what he says he will do, have my back if I need). Someone that will exude a magical feeling when I hear his voice, or feel his touch, or just think about him. He will be outside the box on occasion, not an average man, nor an average build. He will be in incredible shape for his age, and magnificently adorable to me. His smile will make me melt. His eyes will penetrate to my soul. I want to feel one with him. His personality will sweep me off my feet, make me laugh, make me miss him when I'm gone. So, if you don't show some of your personality in your profile, it'll be hard for anyone to get excited about you....you'd blend in with the rest. He won't be deathly afraid of commitment; and commitment is something that he seeks with the right gal...but, yes, slow is good. He should not be afraid to fall in love or to say "I love you". He would not love his dogs more than me. Better if he has no dogs, lol. (I do love dogs...but, when they are competition, hmm.) Aaaaand, we would not live more than 1 hour away from each other. ** Intermission/potty break!ME: Overall, I am much of what I ask for in a man. I have no STDs, and am generally healthy and fit (can always improve, yes), with no psychiatric disorders (not bipolar, etc). I'm mostly bubbly, with a good sense of humor (usually people laughing at me), but serious about life in general. I'm a giver; but, hope to balance that out better. I am honest and loyal. I'm not a fighter; I'm a pleaser. Due to this, I've had short relationships in the past, being attracted to the wrong men...me being a codependent. But, I hope that I've passed that phase...though still working on it. I have lots of compassion, and integrity. I hope to explore more of who I am through my partner. I hope for more peace in this world, and in our relationships with others. I am pretty clean cut, but, at home, I'm willing to be your naughty girl. I have no kids or pets at home, or anywhere else. Activities: You can check out my starter list above; open to new ones...as long as my life is not in serious jeopardy. But, beneath all this, I'm simply wanting to share a life together, harmoniously, with good positive energy, and to be in love, and love life, having the trust, compassion, respect and loyalty between us. We have a short life left...Let's make the best of it.YOUR PROFILE: If your profile is lacking of who you really are, i.e. goals, your personality, recent quality pics of you smiling, then I'm not likely to respond. Pics of you, that you took, while in the bathroom? Ummmm...I think you can do better than that! And, then, if you just say "How's it going?" after a bare profile, "YIKES" is all I can say. If you respond to some of my profile, i.e. state how you are or are not a match, or say something of substance, then I know you are more serious, and thus more likely to evoke a response. Yep, I'm looking for a needle in a haystack...but, it's my life, right? Also, it would be nice if you could date your posted pics. And, for those that say it's hard to describe yourself, there is no one that knows you better than you, right? And, really, I'm much more lighthearted than this profile makes me sound. So, now that you likely drank 1.5 glasses of wine paired with your m&ms while reading my profile, I bid you Adieu, and Best Wishes. Something casual, calming, and gentle on the senses....something short and sweet.
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Tor
Online
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
***: I am putting this right up front so as not to waste your time: Please do not contact me if you do not have at least two pictures of yourself. Not one of you and your car or you and your motorcycle or you and a sunset. Although those types of pictures are quite nice to see, it is YOU that I am most interested in. With that said, please do not be offended if I do not answer you. And now onto the good stuff:Not that being alone sometimes is a bad thing, but I'm ready for more. I'm very careful about who I let into my life. It does take me a bit to warm up, so please don't take this as a sign of anything other than me taking in all that you are telling me and how I am feeling in that particular moment.As you can see by my pictures, I'm not exactly a girly girl. I like adventure and trying all types of new experiences. Some I'd do again...others, not so much. I like to think that I adjust quite well to most all situations. I'm a bit shy at first, maybe even insecure but that all changes pretty quickly.***was a big year for me. I graduated from college with a Bachelor of Science in Elementary Education with a 3.9 all while working fulltime and student teaching full time. I became a Grandma to a beautiful little girl. Shortly after her birth I turned 50. On a somewhat lesser note, I rented a Yurt and went camping. I took several trips on my scooter and didn't get lost. I volunteered for several organizations...giving back is important to me. See all the I's? Although my own company is pretty great, I would like to change the I's to We's and share all the good things, and even not so good things, that this amazing world has to offer. Although he is quite attentive, he doesn't hold a hug long enough.Not looking for a hook up. I do want to fall in love and stay put. If staying in shape ie :working out hard and heavy everyday is your ideal match because you say you do it, good luck with that but it's not me. I'm healthy enough, but gym's and green shakes are not my style. Matchmaker Millionaire Patti Stanger met her fiance on meetville...there's hope for me. A restaurant that has atmosphere where there is something to look at and talk about to ease into our own private conversation.
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Melaine
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
About me, ok, hate this part. Been divorced 10 years. Im looking for a new lease on life and happiness. I consider myself a generally happy person. Very loyal and honest. Im looking for my better half, not looking for perfection but someone that will complete me. Honesty, Loyalty, open communication, are very important to me. My kids and my family are very important to me. My biggest fault is that I give all of myself to my relationships. Im looking for someone that is able to give back what I have to offer. Problem is I seem to give more than I get in return. Relationships should be give and take and I love to give, just would love to know what its actually like to get some of it back. I have a huge heart and sometimes feel like I wear my heart on my sleeve. Absolutely mandatory to me is that your not a GAME PLAYER. Drama free and no head games are extremely important since Ive had enough of that to last 3 lifetimes. Definitely not looking for one night stands or only a physical relationship. If you need to have a full body photo, Im not for you or rather your not for me since im far from desperate and intimacy to me comes after getting to know someone, and not thru *** is most important to start with, and if the chemistry is there, the rest can follow.I guess Im a romantic at heart but have yet to find that in my partner. I enjoy cooking, but cooking for one is no fun. I love long walks on the beach or in the mountains, a good movie, dinner out, great conversation, laughing, fishing, kayaking, and a lot more. Beauty is only skin deep, weight can be taken off, it's what's inside that truly matters. Im no athlete and wish I had the time to exercise more. I have no problem trying new things, considering stand up paddle boarding and possibly jet skiing. Can do this alone but having a companion, friend to share in the adventure would be so much better. Ive been told Im a people person, and deserve the best because when I love, I love with my whole heart. Looking for my best friend, thought I found him but alas betrayal, cheating and lies were more important than I ever was. Took a long time to cut the ties, but finally did so and I will never get into that type of situation ever again.Drop me a line and introduce yourself, lets get to know each other and see what comes of it!!! coffee, drinks,walk on the beach or whatever we are both are comfortable with