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Abbigail, 47
United States, Georgia, Toccoa

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I'm quite a bit different from most gals-most people even. I'm an Avid gardener, outdoors woman (as in I have a serious 'relationship' with the outdoors. (( Pioneered in the BC wilds for 1 yr, built log cabin, no outside contact, -.)), smart (duo masters) , very very playful, & mostly sane! An accomplished artist, adore most kids (wish i could have had more), fun mom I'm told (by my very cool 10 yr old), traveler ***countries), 13 yrs as expat in Jpn, good dancer, democrat, am goofy often (not weird- just goofy like sing a little opera baritone when I cook Italian), bold and blunt as is needed, love good food -espec sauces and seafood, have chickens (for the glee of it - have some that lay blue eggs), bunnies, a tabby, goldfish. Just dug a swim pond on my farm. (hmm, now what..) Guess what I get to research this winter by the fire? I'm also learning golf as a meditation. Relationship wisened. I am very loyal. I am 100% committed when I do commit (I was married a lovely 13 yrs and the 2nd was a big oops of 2 yrs). Know the joy of 'service' ( yea I figured something important out!!). 2nd degree is Master of Social Work (service).-, Sail as a lifestyle: Cat, herbs, and geraniums aboard, and of course my wonderful mate... because all this is scary. (And it's so much better to be scared together. Just holding hands is soooo under-rated)...any good playoffs, any quality music - all grand! I am happy in my life (it's been a lot of dedication, work, and dug up faith***and am looking for someone who is also happy, believes in magic, what you think is what you get, good morals, practices Empathy, not lazy, brave, knows they are are going to die, accepts and is a bit gritty and a bit sweet as all possible parts of character. I've noticed that I grow by being the best wife, mother, woman (&). I am not a fixed type of person and am "mutable" by nature and love the challenges and growth (Adaptation!) of being that way. Intelligence reserves the right to change it's mind frequently. Curiosity, creativity, and a genuine sense of play are essential. Have learned life is mostly perception. I think, by nature, I am never too serious & always serious, all at once. Belly laughter and touches are the love-o-meter my home. I know I need a cheerful mate who is a good: communicator, physical lover, thinker, dreamer, self aware and a do-er. Just friendship and sharing hobby/brains/ aptitudes or that 'special ka-zingggg one' ....both scenarios are welcomed. If you have substance issues, are abusive in any way-on any level, have a temper, lazy, depressed, dull, or just want to meet me because it just might be cool to do so, well.. then please carry on without me. Thanks for reading all this- it's a lot- hopefully worth it on some level for you. I may or may not respond if you *** am sorry. Sometimes life calls. I am busy. or.. i sense you are not the one for me....or I am just not sure...and may rtn to your profile many times.. before I decide. My best gal pal said it best, that i should write..... "you have read a little here about me, and all I can really say (as she recommends) is.... 'Seeks Same". Be well. Ahh heck, i don't know! It's so often about the scent/ chemicals anyway.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Techno South American Mystery Sport Motorcycle Racing
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