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Bryana, 49

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About Me

One thing that's definitely true about me is that I'm pretty much crazy loyal, faithful. If I decide I'm your friend, then that's pretty much it. And if I decide that you are even more than that, well I guess that'd make you a pretty lucky man :). Because if you've had a bad day, you know I'm going to be there with an open ear, a backrub, probably a bad pun to make you smile. Or maybe I'll be there with a perspective that might challenge you into looking at something in a different way, because having your back may also mean calling you out on something some time. I am going to put in the effort, and do expect the same in return. But that, I hope, would be a natural, fun thing and not a grind or a chore, because everyone has at least one job (looking for a job is also a job), and if you're also a parent then that's a joy, but also another job. To me putting in the effort is more about being open to one another, really open even when it's hard and not some checklist of expectations we each have to look out for and check off (or not check off). Basically, when things go down, I want to know you're there for me, because I'm going to be there for you. And if it's not fun to be around one another then what's the point?Some other things that are important to me are my son (mostly a joy, only occasionally a job, other than all the food he consumes), all things artistic (theatre, visual art, absolutely music), nature (CO, what more needs to be said? that and any beach, any forest, any place where you can see the sky and feel the earth beneath your feet), kids in general (love volunteering with anything to do with kids, or just enjoy friend's or relative's children), and giving back somehow trying to make the planet a better place (it's a Ghandi thing --be the change you wish to see). Music is a big one, and my favorites are R&B, blues, some old jazz, hip hop, and yes, some rap --so if your go-to is country, you're probably going to be hating what's on my ipod and/or radio :).One thing I can't claim, I guess, is that I am a "simple person." If you want that, I'm probably not your girl, because I'm sort of full of contradictions. I'm girly (love the clothes and shoes, to cook and bake, plants, babies, kittens, puppies, the whole nine) and also a tomboy (crazy about basketball, and like several other sports, am very independent, etc.) I'm artistic and creative but also intellectual and nerdy and outdoorsy and sporty. I can be very open and out-going, and can talk to almost anybody one-on-one, but can also be shy, especially in large groups. I may be one of the sweetest people you've ever met, but I'm also sassy and definitely no push-over. I'm definitely worth it, but you may be up for a challenge :).So good luck out there with your fishing --hope you reel in the best catch for you. The best first date depends upon how the other person and I mesh, and compliment one another. Setting to me is not nearly so important as both people feeling comfortable and happy, having a chance to relax with one another and really talk. That could happen outside on the beach, seeing a play and having coffee afterward, dancing to live music, watching a live sports event...you tell me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a simple kinda girl with a thirst to learn, explore and live each day to the fullest. I am down to earth, honest, loyal to those I let in close and trust is everything with me. I love the outdoors, nature, animals, music, laughing, being silly at times and most of all, being real. I am still learning on this journey and now I am open and able to explore the second half of my journey and wanting to play in the ocean, hike in the mountains, hold on tight riding on a motorcycle and to watch a movie with the lights down, sit on the porch and listen to the wind, relax in the jacuzzi looking up at the stars...basically, just enjoy everything around me and be with people of the same mindset. I like to think of myself as philanthropic, I always root for the "underdog" and believe in fairness for all and am definetly non judgmental, we all have made mistakes and I try to learn from mine and consider myself understanding and open hearted. My idea of a "great" first date is meeting at a local place, a cafe or restaurant, yogurt shop and sitting & talking for awhile. With the right guy the conversation would just flow, listening to each other & learning about each other and geniunely being interested in what the other has to say. Seeing if their is any humor, intellect and sincerity without phoniness. Then after an hour or three, lol maybe going to a light movie or comedy club. If I can't have a good conversation with a guy, feel comfortable and enjoy his company like a friend then it's not worth it for me.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    !. My 4 legged kids, they are truly a gift and a huge source of joy in my life! I am a firm believer in doing "little things" to show someone I am thinking about them. Even if there is no romantic spark between us, you can never have too many friends. You must enjoy a good laugh or a serious heart to heart. You must love dogs and cats (my cats are cool) and possess a good sense of humor. You must have the ability to hang out at home with a pizza/beer or going out and tearing up the town. I am secure enough to give you your "male bonding time" as I am expecting the same from you. Oh, and did I say you must love dogs and cats??? And Good Beer! Something laid back... fun and light

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