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Bryana, 49

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About Me

One thing that's definitely true about me is that I'm pretty much crazy loyal, faithful. If I decide I'm your friend, then that's pretty much it. And if I decide that you are even more than that, well I guess that'd make you a pretty lucky man :). Because if you've had a bad day, you know I'm going to be there with an open ear, a backrub, probably a bad pun to make you smile. Or maybe I'll be there with a perspective that might challenge you into looking at something in a different way, because having your back may also mean calling you out on something some time. I am going to put in the effort, and do expect the same in return. But that, I hope, would be a natural, fun thing and not a grind or a chore, because everyone has at least one job (looking for a job is also a job), and if you're also a parent then that's a joy, but also another job. To me putting in the effort is more about being open to one another, really open even when it's hard and not some checklist of expectations we each have to look out for and check off (or not check off). Basically, when things go down, I want to know you're there for me, because I'm going to be there for you. And if it's not fun to be around one another then what's the point?Some other things that are important to me are my son (mostly a joy, only occasionally a job, other than all the food he consumes), all things artistic (theatre, visual art, absolutely music), nature (CO, what more needs to be said? that and any beach, any forest, any place where you can see the sky and feel the earth beneath your feet), kids in general (love volunteering with anything to do with kids, or just enjoy friend's or relative's children), and giving back somehow trying to make the planet a better place (it's a Ghandi thing --be the change you wish to see). Music is a big one, and my favorites are R&B, blues, some old jazz, hip hop, and yes, some rap --so if your go-to is country, you're probably going to be hating what's on my ipod and/or radio :).One thing I can't claim, I guess, is that I am a "simple person." If you want that, I'm probably not your girl, because I'm sort of full of contradictions. I'm girly (love the clothes and shoes, to cook and bake, plants, babies, kittens, puppies, the whole nine) and also a tomboy (crazy about basketball, and like several other sports, am very independent, etc.) I'm artistic and creative but also intellectual and nerdy and outdoorsy and sporty. I can be very open and out-going, and can talk to almost anybody one-on-one, but can also be shy, especially in large groups. I may be one of the sweetest people you've ever met, but I'm also sassy and definitely no push-over. I'm definitely worth it, but you may be up for a challenge :).So good luck out there with your fishing --hope you reel in the best catch for you. The best first date depends upon how the other person and I mesh, and compliment one another. Setting to me is not nearly so important as both people feeling comfortable and happy, having a chance to relax with one another and really talk. That could happen outside on the beach, seeing a play and having coffee afterward, dancing to live music, watching a live sports event...you tell me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    What are you looking for? That is the question I've been asked a few times.I have a 10 yr old daughter that I have on the weekends.-9 months for a job offer I couldn't turn down. I'm very laid back, and down to earth. I don't watch much tv, but love the Broncos. I love to get dressed and go out, but I'm not high maintenance, and consider myself both sexy and classy. Drinks, let's get to know each other first, then see where it goes from there.

  • Ellen

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My daughter says I act more like I'm in my twenties. Guess I'll take that as a compliment. I'm young at heart, but know when to be serious. In terms of maintenance, I'm on the low end of the spectrum. Outside of working and being a mom to 2 amazing girls, you'll find me doing anything from yard work to sewing Halloween costumes, hanging out with friends, hiking, reading, watching movies or chilling at home...all over the board. I would like to meet someone who has a good sense of humor, is physically active, educated and wants to have a healthy relationship. An ideal first date would be with someone I'm attracted to intellectually and physically. I'm pretty easy-going and am as comfortable wearing jeans as I am dressing up. Whatever setting we mutually agree upon, would be fun except going to a movie. You can't talk in a movie and I want to spend time getting to know you, as a person. We can go to movies later :-)

  • Malika

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am an artist...creative, cooking, music, gardening. I'm a female. I am EVE looking for ADAM.I love my dog. She's my kid. Sorry, cat lovers. I'm open, though. I love animals.I'm a homebody but enjoy going out, having adventures and traveling. Very ying/yang.I enjoy doing home projects, jumping in the pool, having a great dinner and looking at what we accomplished, so, I like a helpful/ skilled man.Cruising is one of my favorite ways to vacation, but I'm into flying or driving anywhere. Mini-vacations....just getting out of town for the day works. Second hand shopping, yard sales, flea markets are fun destinations for me, too..Work hard/play hard. I want to have fun. I like to laugh. Don't want a lot of drama. Trust is everything. I'm simply complex. I am honest, have integrity, am loyal and dependable. I would love to meet someone with the same principles that wants to share their life and also believes in God. Is there such a man....an honest man???........an authentic man who can be real with me.....Maybe I'm kind of new at this.....but........Guys, it's pretty easy to connect with a women on here. The right one.....????? Who knows. Better chance here than a chance meeting out there, right?Do you know how to pursue a woman?What's stopping you from asking for a meeting for ***minutes with us?I'm kind of old fashioned. I won't chase you. Catch me if you can.As a hairstylist, I talk to strangers a lot. Don't be shy.Oh yeah! My hair color changes.... (Re: Hairstylist) Today***, I'm a red head ! If you into blondes, stop back in a couple months....LOL! I'd love to meet somewhere safe, fun and public. It doesn't have to cost a lot of money. LOL.Maybe a street fair, coffee shop, happy hour or art walk. It would be nice to have a glass of wine but not necessary. Even if we don't hit it off, we could still get to know each other. It is a small town, so let's not be weird about it. Think about it as Networking.If it doesn't work for us, maybe, I'll know a girlfriend better suited for you.Or maybe we'll do biz. Need a haircut? LOLLet's just plan an hour for our first meeting. Let's see how it goes.

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