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Joya, 49

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About Me

Im a very warm sincere woman looking for something I feel should be so simple. Where is a man that knows how to have fun and isnt so serious about life except the things you need to be serious about? Life has many changes and is so short that to find someone who enjoys the little things would be great. I am loving, sexy, sensual, dependable, inteligent ,witty, spontaneous, stable, and most of all honest! It would be great to find someone who can be serious when need be but for the most part can relax and have fun.I am very active love the outdoors and traveling. I decorate homes on the market for real estate companies and absolutley love it . Making a house feel like a home is my passion , well one of them.I love to cook and can make some bbq that will knock your socks off! Kicking back on the deck listening to some good music during the summer is one of my favorite things to do...they say the way to a mans heart is through his stomache...I can do that.Walks holding hands at dusk or hikes in the mountains. I have a large family and some great friends who I enjoy spending time with. Im a pretty simple very independent woman simply looking for a kind hearted man whom I can cheerish and respect and always let him know he is also someone special and never let him forget the man he is.Keeping the spark alive is what its all about.Romantic....yes absolutley!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nieves

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    What are you looking for? That is the question I've been asked a few times.I have a 10 yr old daughter that I have on the weekends.-9 months for a job offer I couldn't turn down. I'm very laid back, and down to earth. I don't watch much tv, but love the Broncos. I love to get dressed and go out, but I'm not high maintenance, and consider myself both sexy and classy. Drinks, let's get to know each other first, then see where it goes from there.

  • Gwen

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    UPDATE:I dislike focusing on negatives but based on the experiences I have had on here, I have to say....I am looking for someone local (looking for relationship, not pen palI do not give out my phone number until after meeting someone.I delete *** any sexual content, vast age differences, and out of state. I take this site with a grain of salt, but am looking for someone to get to know and not into wasting anyones time. Now, onto my real profile:I want to be the girl he's scared to lose; the one where he can't walk away from knowing she's mad at him, The one who can't fall asleep without her voice being the last one he hears. the one he can't live without. I am a grounded person with good character and enjoy a happy, secure life.I want someone who takes pride in themselves and in their actions. Someone who is not afraid to share their thoughts, time and life with another. I have my life together and am stable and secure. I am not perfect but always try to be fair and see another person's point of view.I value people that are able to communicate in a positive, understanding way. I dont need a man to complete me but still believe in being part of a couple and the compromise , effort and excitement that entails. I enjoy meeting people that introduce me to new things or ways of thinking but need them to be open enough to listen to and respect my ways of thinking or doing things as well even if it means we agree to disagree. I want someone that makes me excited to come home after work, and that I can be proud of and that values me the same.I am ready to not take life so seriously and have some fun. Sharing good times with friends, wine tasting, weekend getaways trying new things and fun times at a cabin in Tahoe are things I am looking forward to.Are you game?

  • Bryana

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    One thing that's definitely true about me is that I'm pretty much crazy loyal, faithful. If I decide I'm your friend, then that's pretty much it. And if I decide that you are even more than that, well I guess that'd make you a pretty lucky man :). Because if you've had a bad day, you know I'm going to be there with an open ear, a backrub, probably a bad pun to make you smile. Or maybe I'll be there with a perspective that might challenge you into looking at something in a different way, because having your back may also mean calling you out on something some time. I am going to put in the effort, and do expect the same in return. But that, I hope, would be a natural, fun thing and not a grind or a chore, because everyone has at least one job (looking for a job is also a job), and if you're also a parent then that's a joy, but also another job. To me putting in the effort is more about being open to one another, really open even when it's hard and not some checklist of expectations we each have to look out for and check off (or not check off). Basically, when things go down, I want to know you're there for me, because I'm going to be there for you. And if it's not fun to be around one another then what's the point?Some other things that are important to me are my son (mostly a joy, only occasionally a job, other than all the food he consumes), all things artistic (theatre, visual art, absolutely music), nature (CO, what more needs to be said? that and any beach, any forest, any place where you can see the sky and feel the earth beneath your feet), kids in general (love volunteering with anything to do with kids, or just enjoy friend's or relative's children), and giving back somehow trying to make the planet a better place (it's a Ghandi thing --be the change you wish to see). Music is a big one, and my favorites are R&B, blues, some old jazz, hip hop, and yes, some rap --so if your go-to is country, you're probably going to be hating what's on my ipod and/or radio :).One thing I can't claim, I guess, is that I am a "simple person." If you want that, I'm probably not your girl, because I'm sort of full of contradictions. I'm girly (love the clothes and shoes, to cook and bake, plants, babies, kittens, puppies, the whole nine) and also a tomboy (crazy about basketball, and like several other sports, am very independent, etc.) I'm artistic and creative but also intellectual and nerdy and outdoorsy and sporty. I can be very open and out-going, and can talk to almost anybody one-on-one, but can also be shy, especially in large groups. I may be one of the sweetest people you've ever met, but I'm also sassy and definitely no push-over. I'm definitely worth it, but you may be up for a challenge :).So good luck out there with your fishing --hope you reel in the best catch for you. The best first date depends upon how the other person and I mesh, and compliment one another. Setting to me is not nearly so important as both people feeling comfortable and happy, having a chance to relax with one another and really talk. That could happen outside on the beach, seeing a play and having coffee afterward, dancing to live music, watching a live sports event...you tell me!

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