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Arvilla, 47

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About Me

FORWARDAt work recently, I met a 90 year old couple...they were so in love. They touched each other and said sweet things about each other...it was so cute.They told me they met and married at 50...I'm 47, and it showed me there is still a hope to find that amazing kind of love still...this is what I want..CatThink I've finally figured out what I'm looking for..only took 47 years.. I am dating after a 12 year relationship. I have been single now for 6 years now. I would just like to meet someone kind and caring, someone to share some of my spare time. If something serious found me, than that's just what was meant to be, I do want to find the right person. And yes I do have quite a few furry kids, but just one real boy 24 years old. I have decided that I don't want to be alone anymore but have enjoyed my time alone if that makes sense. Additionally, what you see is what you get. I have no hidden agenda and I'm not playing. I'm sincere in my search for the right one.I am really looking for an intellectual type, someone that can hold a conversation on many topics..someone cool, different, quirky, funny, cute of course and just want that spark that perks my interest...Intelligence is a huge turn on for me and is pretty much a deal breaker if not present... I have decided I will not settle for anything less as I would rather be alone than with someone just for the sake of it...that's just a pile of crap to waste time with the wrong person...so, if you are out there, pleassssssseeee write me...I will wait for the right one...I'm finding it tough to meet anybody that's real and "normal" on here. Are there any clean, cultured and respectful, non criminal men out there? I was raised with manners and to be respectful and I require the same.Romance is not lost on me...I'm always appreciative when something thoughtful is done for me...I never take that for granted...VERY IMPORTANT!I am in no way looking for just a hook-up or spending a weekend with a complete stranger....if this is what you want, please move on. I'm asked to do this far too often and it's not for me.I love music and love to sing..karaoke is my only really outlet as there is not a huge need for middle aged pop stars...it just makes me happy to sing...And, here's something novel..if someone gathers the courage to write you a message, and you're not interested..isn't a polite no thank you response called for? We're all out here opening ourselves up to possibilities and a little kindness and politeness goes a long way in this world!Cat Dinner, walk on the beach, live music in a small bar somewhere where we could talk and get to know each other. I moved here 10 years ago for my job.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Regena

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there, I’m Stacey. So, I am hoping "online dating" will bring new opportunities to meet a great guy, near my area, whose path I might not otherwise cross.I’m not a fan of long profiles. I would rather save the details for later. Just a few things about myself… I am grateful every day for what I have. I work hard, enjoy the good times, love my family and friends, and believe in living by the golden rule.I have 2 sons and 2 grandsons. Unfortunately, they all live out of state, and I do not get to see them often enough.I am pretty easily amused and like to laugh. I very much enjoy going out, being with friends, experiencing new things, etc., but just as much I enjoy hanging out at home. I'd like to meet someone who wants to spend time with me no matter what we are doing.The type of man I am attracted to is a natural leader. He has a strong confidence, and knows what he wants in life. He is loyal and monogamous if in a committed relationship. He has a good sense of humor; he is spontaneous but also responsible.I do believe in physical attraction. I am openly affectionate and want a man who is also. It's all about finding that special one. Life is good, but it would be so great to find "The One" to share it with. I would like the first meeting to be simple... Just meeting for a drink to chat and get to know each other would be nice.

  • Rheba

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Writing a profile about yourself always seems a little odd. I am quite active- I always have something to do or somewhere to go; I work hard and try to play every minute I can when I am not working. I love to be outside- the beach and the mountains are sacred to me. I love to exercise and try to fit that into my schedule regularly- cross training, yoga, hiking, some running (Red Rocks or on the back of my horse) or whatever else gets me moving. Two awesome kids 9 boy and 17 girl and I have a horse that is like my third child- I spend a fair amount of time riding. I travel for work but work from home otherwise. I'm Educated but learn new things every day; worldly (I have lived overseas) and adventurous but like the serenity of my home. I like surprises. I love to travel- especially to beaches. I paddle board. I love my kids from the deepest places in my heart :). I cherish my family and friends. I have lived a great life with no regrets except for a few missed moments. I expect that life has a lot more in store for me so it is important to stay healthy and always move toward being happy.WHAT I VALUE: Honesty, kindness, integrity, laughter and passionWHAT I CAN LIVE WITHOUT: Pressure, intolerance, selfishness WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR IN A MAN: A great partner, friend and accomplice- a gentleman with a little devil wrapped inside :). Must know how to treat a lady, have fun, has a sense of humor and a serious side, compassionate, KIND, ATHLETIC, ACTIVE, EMPLOYED, someone who can get my heart rate up and bring it down all in the same moment!..a little bit of everything depending on my mood Surprise me...

  • Roxana

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    PLEASE NO IM's UNTIL WE HAVE TALKED OR TEXT BEFORE. It's very distracting trying to answer mail when people keep IMing you..Please don't write me in your 20's or 30's and ask me if I'm into younger guys, the answer is NO! Lol Don't tell me you travel for a job and live in another state..quit cheating! Don't ask me to go out during the week..when your spending time with someone on the weekends...and don't tell me how all your Xs were models..not impressed! Now that we got that out of the way.. (Ok..so knowing I put this rather harshly in words...just in early July I was contacted by a very charming decent looking individual and he was married and wanted a girl in every state. According to him he has a high sex drive...GOOD FOR HIM) It took me one meeting and all of 3 days to figure that guy out. Once again..if your involved and/or married your wasting your time..there are huge flags for people like that and unfortunately, most men apparently think most woman are stupid. I am not stupid and I realize that some men choose this dating site because there is NO BILL, Hence, NO TRACE. My hobbies and goals are varied. I love participating and watching most sports. I love the Red Sox and people fascinate me. (2 seperate statements I know) I love learning new things and I am pretty laid back and open minded. I have had the unfortunate situations where the people I have dated in the past, have had future intentions with another partner.Here we go again. lol Looking but never finding. Stayed in a "on again off again" relationship that has run it's course. Once trust is betrayed you can never recover. The longer you stay the more you find out about the person you gave a second chance to. So, I guess I really don't know what I'm looking for...lol. But..WARNING..PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME FOR NUDE PHOTOS OR PHOTOS OF ANY OTHER SORT. MY PHOTOS ARE ALL UP TO DATE AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE YOUR PHOTOS, THEN DON'T CONTACT ME. IF YOUR PHOTOS ARE NOT UP TO DATE..DON'T CONTACT ME. DEAL? Cup of coffee depending on the person and circumstances.

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