SIMILAR PEOPLE
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BenjaminaOnline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
First off, I have no time for players who just want to serial date, or see how many women they can meet. I run into that too often from guys on here, and am just about ready to give up. Always seems to happen with the more attractive guys who obviously want a certain type that isn't me, like younger, prettier, whatever. They can have you. So, don't bother to message me if that's the case. Thanks. I'm 44, have two kids, a daughter, 14 and a son, 17. They live with me, but I can date. And they're with their father every other weekend. However, whomever I would potentially date would have to understand my schedule with them, (their activities) as well as the time I spend with them. I am not one of those mothers who goes out every weekend leaving my kids on their own, despite the fact that they are teenagers, or put whomever I'm dating before them, spending every weekend with him and *** kids. I like to be around for them, as I said, even though they're teens and may have other plans. So I mostly go out when they're with their dad, with an exception for something planned once in awhile, or during the week occasionally, depending on their schedules. I have brown hair, brown eyes, and am petite. I've been described as cute with a 'bubbly' personality, pretty, sexy. Don't know about those things, I'd let the guy be the judge of that. I am confident, but not conceited, and am perfectly aware that there are plenty of beautiful, sexy women out there that I can't compete with. However, as I said, I am confident, and feel good about myself and how I look and feel, being over 40. More importantly, I'm very friendly and outgoing, fun, funny, and in a relationship I am loving, sweet and affectionate, flirtatious, playful, open and honest, and say what I want and how I feel. What I don't want in a guy is someone who won't talk, or communicate, game playing, particularly messing with my head, lying, cheating, or telling me what they think I want to hear for their own selfish reasons. I want someone who makes me feel GOOD about myself, not who makes me feel unwanted and bad about myself, and hurts me or plays with my emotions. Yes, I am emotional, not a nutcase, just show my feelings and say what's on my mind. I want someone who treats me with the respect I deserve, respects my feelings, not takes advantage of them or me, and in return, they would get the same from me and much more. I am just not into getting hurt anymore. I am NOT bitter or hating men, on the contrary, I love men. :) I've just learned that I give too much sometimes to people who refuse to give back and take advantage of that, then disappear. So I'm just a bit more cautious now, simple. :) I also would like someone funny who makes me laugh and who likes to go out and have FUN, not sit around doing nothing but watching TV all the time. However, I do enjoy staying home and watching a movie sometimes too, just like everyone else. Sorry if I sound harsh, just want to be honest about where I am right now. If you're not interested, that's fine too. **There also must be a spark right away~I believe in chemistry. Having said all of that above, I certainly don't expect to jump immediately into a relationship with someone I may meet here. I don't even want that right away, frankly. I need to go slow and work towards a relationship if that happens. If I meet someone I really like, and we hang out for awhile and like eachother, and a relationship develops, that's cool too, I just don't want to dive straight into it.I like going to see bands, like just about any type of music, eating out, (like trying new places) going to fests in the summer, concerts, hanging with friends and family, sporting events, (Cubs games or Blackhawks games first two on the list) and anything else interesting and fun. I can pretty much have fun doing anything, and am not difficult to please.*If I do not answer a message, I am not interested. Not trying to be rude, it's just easier than wasting time going back and forth with explanations. I get non answers too, and I don't get offended, I move on. Thanks.A song about love that I looooove~ *** Whatever, talk and decide together
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AlyssaOnline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
LOL! YEP! Who knew! I'm back on here for a few reasons! 1. I had found the 1 I was waiting 4 all my life here last November but of course he wasn't ready 4a relationship because just like the rest of u guys on here, U say UR "READY"but ur really not! & Hey....I understand! REALLY I DO! Just let's all be grown ups here! Say what you mean & mean what you say! Pretty simple I think!2. Is this not the biggest booty call site ever!? Just sayn'! LMFAO!3. Harley & Boat are definitely Requirements! Yes it's winter but winter doesn't last all year!4. Sleds are a big bonus, I have all my gear!....G.T.L.S.H (Gym. Tan. Laundry. School. Homework).....Repeat!! I'm in school so I don't have much time. Please don't take it personal. I have priorities & school is very big! I jump on here to take a break from homework & to have a good laugh! I've met a lot of great people on here over the years that are still great friends & that I still talk to, some of whom I understand why they are still single & others that are such a great catch but things got in the way so they are still friends which is unfortunate for me. I've also met alot of Players or confused men who don't know what they want so Please keep me out of your confusion.My pictures are my pictures! They are not a lie....They ARE Me!You work for what you have in life or want out of life. I have earned everything I have! I'm not rich but I have my own things so I don't need or want any of yours. I work, I go to school, I go to the gym & I love going to LION'S Games, BTW That's the quickest way 2 my heart! & then after the game, usually the club....& U Know which one's!I have a lot of great friends & I have no crazy ex~boyfriends but I have acquired a few stalkers from here so I'm very careful......I live in a very small town where everyone knows your business. I'm a very open person so pretty much anything you have to tell me probably won't surprise me. I live on the water & have since ***& it's always been my house & no one else’s. I LOVE standing on my dock & looking out on the water & listening to the ducks (who always sound like they are laughing) & just for that moment of peace & thinking to myself "Life is AWESOME & no one can take that peace I get from living here". If U Have never lived on the water, then U don't know what I'm talking about!.....I almost moved off the water for the last guy but I live here & U have 2B very special 4that! I Love older men! Anyone older than me knows how to treat a woman! & had I known that along time ago, I probably wouldn't be here! I have a lot of great friends but even the ones that have been there for years have grown apart because they got married & are too busy to talk to you unless your with someone, then they want to hangout as a couples thing.Side Note: I'm LOOKING 4 SOMEONE THAT CAN ADD TO MY LIFE, NOT CONSTANTLY TAKE! To all the Guys that put on their profile that they are looking for a "long term relationship" & in reality are actually hooked on this site & or think there's something better out there....have at it! Please don't waste any of my time..OR think that it bothers me because .....UR NOT All that & there's Many More....You might think Your better than anyone else but the reality is....Your on here just like the rest of us........Silliness!My favorite place of all time is P.I.B.! & if I can't go there every weekend in the summer, Cabo would be next!I'm SERIOUSLY just a girl hoping to find someone that I actually want to make time for. I've been told recently that I look like my pictures but look better in person (Thanks!). And I am definitely worth more than just a moment of your time.....!Please don't Say "let's meet 4 a drink" without talking 2 me on the phone 1st because it's not going 2 happen. My Last guy Was A well known Body Builder & I got along great with his family & friends &WE Were perfect 2gether.....but sh*thappens & I'm OK with it. When U Love Someone, U let them go 2B happy & They always come back but by then it's 2 late........So that should tell U what I'm looking 4 & How I am.......Good Luck! ;). Short on time just like everyone else so we will figure it out.
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EsterOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
What to say ..... I love sunsets on the beach. So cliche I know but it's true. There is just something about the serenity of having my toes in the sand watching the close of day. Feel the same way about a ride in a convertible. Not a care in the world, just being. I like the simple life filled with no drama and good company. Most comfortable in jeans but can dress up when the situation calls for it. I will openly admit that cooking is not my strong suit. However, I am quite handy around the house. I have kids and love them to the moon and back. I would welcome yours as well. I can't stand the gym but I'm sure it's because I don't have the right trainer. Ive been told I'm a natural dead lifter but can't seem to get into the xfit craze. Are you a good motivator? I'd rather play something ***, like volleyball for *** I should just look for a personal trainer/chef. That would fix the areas where I'm lacking. I really don't like being on here but how else in this day and age are you supposed to find what you're looking for? Not a big fan of bars but like to hear a good band and people watch sometimes. Chance meetings are iffy at best. So, here we all are....fishing for that particular someone. I figure I'll know you when I find you. I agree with others on here who think meeting in person is the best way to get a true feeling of a persons personality and intentions. If you're looking to hook up, click next. I want something deeper and meaningful. I'm not a serial dater and don't consider the first meeting a date. Consider it more of a meet and greet then a date or move on. Finally and most importantly, I am a Christian. I grew up in church and was raised well. Would love to find someone with the same set of values and beliefs. Anything that allows you to get to know one another is a good date.