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Ember, 44

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About Me

Well, here I am! You can stop looking! lol! TOTALLY new to this whole dating thing. It's fun talking to new people. I'll talk to anyone, and, geez! It's just dinner or a cup of coffee? I'm completely ddd free, drug, disease, and drama free!Love music (mostly metal), concerts, hanging out with friends, Oh, and I'm sane! Js lol Love hanging out, listening to a good band and enjoying a cerveza with friends. Even brewed my own for a while. ;) Beer is good. As far as dating. I know right away if things are going to result in a second date. So do you actually. lol A great date is one where conversation flows and nobody looks at their watches. Time seems to stand still and the beer you ordered an hour ago has barely been touched. Oh, and gotta have a lot of laughter and smiling. To be honest, if there's no laughter when we go out there probably won't be a second date. Just being honest. I love to laugh and truthfully, a sense of humor is wayyy more important than being really attractive. Don't get me wrong looks count but, laughter counts more. :)Okay, gonna have to revise this. I've been in the "pond" for a while now and I've made quite a few male "friends" JUST friends. Mind you. What I have found out is that you're all sleeping with the same girls. I'm NOT the standard "Pof" girl. I don't want to meet you, have sex on the first date, and never see you again. I PROMISE. If that's what you want please continue on. The next girl WILL. But, don't forget to wrap it up if you do, because I have more than one guy friend on here who is trying to sleep with ALL the women here and a different one every day (sometimes two or three) . I have one friend that slept with over 20 in two weeks. It's a game to them. Let me make this perfectly clear. I'm NOT playing the "game" I freaking LOVE sex and don't suck at it.lol But, there's more to life than sex. Well, there is for me. Now, if you still want to meet me after all that I DEFINITELY want to meet YOU. Because, you're probably a good guy and I'm soooo done with jerks. :D I'd love to go out to dinner or even just grab a beer and a play a game of pool. LOVE riding on the back of a motorcycle. Nothing like putting your arms around someone you really like and holding on for dear life. Love smiling and being happy. Like I said before. Sex isn't happening on the first date so, that kinda takes the pressure off right?. lol Now, if you score a second date.....all bets are off. lol jkjk Idk let's just play it by ear k. I've gotten more friends (not fwb;) from this place than anything else. So, let's go out, and see if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chanelle

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm just looking to meet new people and maybe some new friends just looking toget out an if your interested hit m if your interested hit me back mayb just a nice long walk and talk i find it better just to go with it

  • Samiyah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single parent with 2 kids who keep me busy with school and sports. I camp, fish, hike, bike, etc... I have a full time job and own my own things. I am not looking for your money or a father for my kids. I am however, lonely. I have been single for around 6 years and have been concentrating on raising my kids. I figure its time for me now. You will not find any drama here, just honesty and fun. I have a very kind heart and am a very giving person. I would like to find a man who believes in dating and getting to know a person. So much is done online anymore that no one even dates or makes acutal phone calls. It all seems to be online and texting these days. Sad really. I found dating to be fun and exciting. Dont get me wrong, seems like online is the only chance of meeting someone these days. I have met plenty of people online and made some great friends, but no one I connect with on a relationship level. My kids are 10 and 8. You gotta love kids to connect with me!! :) I think a first date should be old fashioned with dinner. Get to know the person. Even if you do not connect, at least you had a great dinner date with adult conversation. This is nice for people that have kids like me, lol. I am a hopeless romantic and remember the days that men used to open car doors, bring flowers, and go somewhere nice for dinner. When men actually put forth effort into it. Or anything out of the norm....different. Picnic, get take out and drive out to watch the planes at earthquake park, lol. Make it fun and exciting.

  • Suzi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I like the simple things in life and love an interesting down to earth man. I consider myself very independent and looking for someone to just be around and be able to keep it real.Iprefer black men

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