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Patricia, 43

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hmmm.... I'm self sufficient, quite able to take care of myself, support myself and my girls. I'm done having children, but will welcome yours I have 2 beautiful girls who come first, one still at home one on her own, a couple dogs, cats possibly some ninja mice in the creepy basement.things I like in no particular order summer/warm weather, PVR T.V., ice cream, going for walks, hanging out with my girls, laying by the pool soaking up the sun, going to the zoo, holding hands, dancing, sex, vacations on a beach at least once a year, kissing, alternative medicine, gardening, renovating my money pit so you need to be handy or take direction well lol ~ I live in the country, but still close enough I could walk to whatever I need if I had too, I can't ever imagine living on a postage stamp lot, though wouldn't mind a place in the city toonon - smokers only please. But ***friendlymust like big dogs ......but not be one, and can tolerate catsIf you want a response please have a recent picture!I'm looking for a man not boy, though some boyish attributes are charming I do not mean to offend if I read and delete your *** reply. I thank you for taking the time , but if I don't think there will be a connection then I do not want to waste anybody's time good luck, all the bestThe following is from a compatibility test and who I would best connect with so if you can relate let me know, by relate I mean you agree with the following statements and are natural and comfortable doing so always not just during the courting stage.You should know I demand a lot of demonstrations of affection, romancing, and quality attention -- and am willing to give it in return. the minute-to-minute PLEASURES of relationship - touch, laughter, play - are also a big part of life and worthy of lots of time and effort. Such a person offers flowers (buy them pick from the garden it the thought that counts)and writes poetry(quick short notes or texts or message on the steamed mirror again it the thought that counts), will still flirt shamelessly with me ten years into our romance, and in general is one who wants the process of "falling in love" to last as long as the beating of both of our hearts. I won't need to guess what your thinking or feeling: this playful, even flirtatious, courtship behavior is a big area for me. "Falling in love" may work more easily here than "staying in love," but that's not nearly as bad as it sounds -- falling in love can take a long, long time.You will have tenderness and sensuality, be an earthy, grounded person, not confused about the physical body, and deeply aware of the wider erotic palette -- touch, cuddles, the delights of a friendly, warm, familiar body sharing the bed on a winter night. For me, stability and reasonableness are tremendously desirable qualities in a partner.I like a lot of mental stimulation and exchange, and am willing to provide plenty of it in turn. Such a person is rarely if ever bored, leads an active--perhaps even a hyperactive--life of the mind. Moreover, you can still stay up into the wee hours just talking deeply with me, years and years into the relationship. You have, and enjoys using, a busy brain. my mate doesn't have to be an intellectual, but should be curious about the world, and enjoy exploring it and comparing notes about it with me. After you ask me out ;)I'm sure we can come up with something

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyssa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    LOL! YEP! Who knew! I'm back on here for a few reasons! 1. I had found the 1 I was waiting 4 all my life here last November but of course he wasn't ready 4a relationship because just like the rest of u guys on here, U say UR "READY"but ur really not! & Hey....I understand! REALLY I DO! Just let's all be grown ups here! Say what you mean & mean what you say! Pretty simple I think!2. Is this not the biggest booty call site ever!? Just sayn'! LMFAO!3. Harley & Boat are definitely Requirements! Yes it's winter but winter doesn't last all year!4. Sleds are a big bonus, I have all my gear!....G.T.L.S.H (Gym. Tan. Laundry. School. Homework).....Repeat!! I'm in school so I don't have much time. Please don't take it personal. I have priorities & school is very big! I jump on here to take a break from homework & to have a good laugh! I've met a lot of great people on here over the years that are still great friends & that I still talk to, some of whom I understand why they are still single & others that are such a great catch but things got in the way so they are still friends which is unfortunate for me. I've also met alot of Players or confused men who don't know what they want so Please keep me out of your confusion.My pictures are my pictures! They are not a lie....They ARE Me!You work for what you have in life or want out of life. I have earned everything I have! I'm not rich but I have my own things so I don't need or want any of yours. I work, I go to school, I go to the gym & I love going to LION'S Games, BTW That's the quickest way 2 my heart! & then after the game, usually the club....& U Know which one's!I have a lot of great friends & I have no crazy ex~boyfriends but I have acquired a few stalkers from here so I'm very careful......I live in a very small town where everyone knows your business. I'm a very open person so pretty much anything you have to tell me probably won't surprise me. I live on the water & have since ***& it's always been my house & no one else’s. I LOVE standing on my dock & looking out on the water & listening to the ducks (who always sound like they are laughing) & just for that moment of peace & thinking to myself "Life is AWESOME & no one can take that peace I get from living here". If U Have never lived on the water, then U don't know what I'm talking about!.....I almost moved off the water for the last guy but I live here & U have 2B very special 4that! I Love older men! Anyone older than me knows how to treat a woman! & had I known that along time ago, I probably wouldn't be here! I have a lot of great friends but even the ones that have been there for years have grown apart because they got married & are too busy to talk to you unless your with someone, then they want to hangout as a couples thing.Side Note: I'm LOOKING 4 SOMEONE THAT CAN ADD TO MY LIFE, NOT CONSTANTLY TAKE! To all the Guys that put on their profile that they are looking for a "long term relationship" & in reality are actually hooked on this site & or think there's something better out there....have at it! Please don't waste any of my time..OR think that it bothers me because .....UR NOT All that & there's Many More....You might think Your better than anyone else but the reality is....Your on here just like the rest of us........Silliness!My favorite place of all time is P.I.B.! & if I can't go there every weekend in the summer, Cabo would be next!I'm SERIOUSLY just a girl hoping to find someone that I actually want to make time for. I've been told recently that I look like my pictures but look better in person (Thanks!). And I am definitely worth more than just a moment of your time.....!Please don't Say "let's meet 4 a drink" without talking 2 me on the phone 1st because it's not going 2 happen. My Last guy Was A well known Body Builder & I got along great with his family & friends &WE Were perfect 2gether.....but sh*thappens & I'm OK with it. When U Love Someone, U let them go 2B happy & They always come back but by then it's 2 late........So that should tell U what I'm looking 4 & How I am.......Good Luck! ;). Short on time just like everyone else so we will figure it out.

  • Christopher

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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  • Cyrstal

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi there ... I am looking for a guy who is genuine, respectful and has a great personality and sense of humor. Someone that likes to go out and have fun but also doesn't mind quiet nights relaxing and talking. Someone that is not afraid to try new things and see new places and likes to be spontaneous on occasion.I am a very family-oriented woman who is genuine, honest and thoughtful. I have two children (daughter 9 and son 7). I'm pretty laid-back and try not to sweat the small stuff. It's not always easy ... but I try to keep a positive attitude and live every day to its fullest. Life is too short as it is. I love the phrase YOLO ... You Only Live Once !!!I enjoy watching all kinds of sports on TV, attending sporting events and concerts. I like to play tennis, billiards, listen to all types of music, read, movies and travel. My goals are to hopefully run my first 5K next year and finish writing my first book.I am interested in meeting new people, friendship, dating and seeing where it may lead. Send me a message if you want to know more :)

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