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Patricia, 43

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hmmm.... I'm self sufficient, quite able to take care of myself, support myself and my girls. I'm done having children, but will welcome yours I have 2 beautiful girls who come first, one still at home one on her own, a couple dogs, cats possibly some ninja mice in the creepy basement.things I like in no particular order summer/warm weather, PVR T.V., ice cream, going for walks, hanging out with my girls, laying by the pool soaking up the sun, going to the zoo, holding hands, dancing, sex, vacations on a beach at least once a year, kissing, alternative medicine, gardening, renovating my money pit so you need to be handy or take direction well lol ~ I live in the country, but still close enough I could walk to whatever I need if I had too, I can't ever imagine living on a postage stamp lot, though wouldn't mind a place in the city toonon - smokers only please. But ***friendlymust like big dogs ......but not be one, and can tolerate catsIf you want a response please have a recent picture!I'm looking for a man not boy, though some boyish attributes are charming I do not mean to offend if I read and delete your *** reply. I thank you for taking the time , but if I don't think there will be a connection then I do not want to waste anybody's time good luck, all the bestThe following is from a compatibility test and who I would best connect with so if you can relate let me know, by relate I mean you agree with the following statements and are natural and comfortable doing so always not just during the courting stage.You should know I demand a lot of demonstrations of affection, romancing, and quality attention -- and am willing to give it in return. the minute-to-minute PLEASURES of relationship - touch, laughter, play - are also a big part of life and worthy of lots of time and effort. Such a person offers flowers (buy them pick from the garden it the thought that counts)and writes poetry(quick short notes or texts or message on the steamed mirror again it the thought that counts), will still flirt shamelessly with me ten years into our romance, and in general is one who wants the process of "falling in love" to last as long as the beating of both of our hearts. I won't need to guess what your thinking or feeling: this playful, even flirtatious, courtship behavior is a big area for me. "Falling in love" may work more easily here than "staying in love," but that's not nearly as bad as it sounds -- falling in love can take a long, long time.You will have tenderness and sensuality, be an earthy, grounded person, not confused about the physical body, and deeply aware of the wider erotic palette -- touch, cuddles, the delights of a friendly, warm, familiar body sharing the bed on a winter night. For me, stability and reasonableness are tremendously desirable qualities in a partner.I like a lot of mental stimulation and exchange, and am willing to provide plenty of it in turn. Such a person is rarely if ever bored, leads an active--perhaps even a hyperactive--life of the mind. Moreover, you can still stay up into the wee hours just talking deeply with me, years and years into the relationship. You have, and enjoys using, a busy brain. my mate doesn't have to be an intellectual, but should be curious about the world, and enjoy exploring it and comparing notes about it with me. After you ask me out ;)I'm sure we can come up with something

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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