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Issy, 42

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About Me

So whats a gal like me doing on POF? Curiosity, boredom, seeking interesting conversation, maybe a new friend in life, preferably no enemies, and on the off chance of meeting that intriguing person that sets off a spark.I am divorced and single. I am alone, but not lonely (which also means I am not desperate). I have learned to be comfortable with myself. I am pretty well balanced, down to earth chick you meet in a grocery store in old jeans and a t shirt. I have a positive outlook in life. I am one of those who will easily start a conversation with someone in line.I enjoy nature, (amateur) photography, friends and family, theme parks, reading, people watching, long easy conversations, sarcasm, laughter (a must!), good movies, planting and digging in the dirt (love the feel and scents of nature) scrabble, yatzee, impulse outings, not worrying about looking and acting perfect, but *** comfortable, and respectable, alright and silly! I like to have fun, be in positive atmospheres. (I will try to lighten too serious moods.) I need to have time alone to myself to refresh and unwind. I am very empathetic, this time alone is necessary for me. I enjoy "hanging out" with my teenagers, though they are now at that age where hanging out with mom isn't as important. Which is probably for the best as I want to attach them to a rocket aimed at the moon more and more often...That's normal, right? Teenagers really dont make much sense and when they do, not only is it totally fascinating, but a little scary... just where did you learn that and when??I have experienced true love, loss, betrayal, death of family members, lay offs, reality checks and single parenting, and here I am, stronger and more confident. I have avoided relationships or involvement because I have been thru Hell, but have had it easy compared to others. The idea of a broken heart again really helps me keep people at a distance. And that is really hard to overcome. Playing games is not my style, I am pretty straight forward, and honest. I am old.fashioned, I have good morals. I'm not a one nighter. What would I Like to see in a man? Someone confident and at ease with himself, with nothing to prove. Someone mature, but still a kid at heart. Comfortable in jeans and Ts, groomed, not necessarily polished, someone who has a past, but has used it to move to a better place in life, and not a dead weight dragged around. Someone who is secure enough that sitting in silence is comfortable for him. I appreciate a door opened for me, and arm to loop mine through, someone smart about life, someone who can banter and carry on easy conversation without having to work at it. I have a past. I am very hesitant to meet someone in person. I would like to get an idea of who you are, your thoughts, and feelings, and idea of how you perceive the world. If you are unable to converse on here, it is unlikely that I will meet in person. If your interested, Engage me in conversation. Are you up for the challenge.So, i guess thats it for now. Drop me a line if you would like to chat :)PS. I prefer Caucasian men. I would enjoy any place easy conversation and comfortable relaxation can be achieved. Coffee, window shopping, appetizers.... no rush, just relaxed & easy. If for some reason we don't match, no hard feelings, enjoy what time we shared, and go our separate ways. Its just that easy. But on the chance that we actually do get along, and hanging out is actually a pleasurable experience, we may need to make plans to get together again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jutta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well here's my "sales pitch", i have a love seat, its comfy and brown but no one to sit beside me, i have a tv and lots of movies but no one to watch them with...i have vacation time but no one to spend it with and then there's the Holidays oh my! And of course the queen bed that has a side that's still brand new! Don't get me wrong, i have friends and of course my two kids but it's not the same as sharing with that partner...All I ask is that your true to your profile, pictures, intent, character, all that...if you dont look like your pics then your gonna have to buy me enough drinks until you do..haha.....i am who i say i am and im honest about what im looking for just please do the same. Let me add this as well, put a little time in and actually get to know me you might be surprised and discover that I'm one of the good ones out there :)Ok so a little about me.. Im a true Cancer...very compassionate and tender hearted and loyal with a "Suzy home maker" DNA, I don't have self esteem issues or self confidence issues and I try to take care of myself in all ways. I am pretty laid back and can be spontaneous. I have a healthy sense of humor and love music and art. I grew up with a fishing pole in one hand and nail polish in the other. I was a "daddy's" girl no doubt and he was my hero. Im very transparent, family oriented and open minded for the most part. I don't NEED a man but i do enjoy the company of a good one, i am a pretty up beat and positive person and like to surround myself with the same types. I dont need you to make my truck payment, I've already paid for it.I don't believe a first meet should be dinner out, why should you pay for a strangers meal? What if you don't like me? Your stuck with me for at least the length of time to eat!!! Or you could get a "to go bag" ..you could persuade me I suppose but it seems so cliché...lets go on a scavenger hunt ***!!! First Date? How about a "Meet" first?

  • Kyra

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a laid back easy going person. Try to live my life not stressing the small stuff. I am looking for someone with similar interest that we can share a happy life together. I am a great listener n believe that communication is the most important thing btwn two ppl obviously along w attraction and chemistry. I have a great sense of humor...can be sarcastic but if u know me u have would see just how special I am n can see y I am surrounded with incredible friends and family. I'm not into game playing so if your not looking to get to know someone and see where it leads then I'm not for you...looking for my best friend partner n love...hopefully u r too! I love to watch sports and during football season it's always Sunday fun day, enjoy wknd trips to AC, Foxwoods, or Mohegan...not necessarily for gambling but to see shows and have a good time. Well hope to meet u soon and good luck to all who r throwing out their line....hopefully we all get off this site in ***! Love to be surprised and romanced.

  • Elidia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for someone to have fun with. I am honest, fun loving and full of energy! I want someone who is real and is loving back. I have two daughters. One is in college and the other is 13 and lives with me. I love music, movies and hanging out, camping, attending and watching college football (Go Buckeyes). Sitting by the fire with a glass of wine. Skiing, snowmobiling, church. I love boating, motorcycles and long walks. I am not on here for sex. I want to meet someone that is genuine and will be straight up about what the want and how they feel! My profile says date only... However that can change :) Conversation with dinner, coffee or glass of wine (beer)

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