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Issy, 42

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About Me

So whats a gal like me doing on POF? Curiosity, boredom, seeking interesting conversation, maybe a new friend in life, preferably no enemies, and on the off chance of meeting that intriguing person that sets off a spark.I am divorced and single. I am alone, but not lonely (which also means I am not desperate). I have learned to be comfortable with myself. I am pretty well balanced, down to earth chick you meet in a grocery store in old jeans and a t shirt. I have a positive outlook in life. I am one of those who will easily start a conversation with someone in line.I enjoy nature, (amateur) photography, friends and family, theme parks, reading, people watching, long easy conversations, sarcasm, laughter (a must!), good movies, planting and digging in the dirt (love the feel and scents of nature) scrabble, yatzee, impulse outings, not worrying about looking and acting perfect, but *** comfortable, and respectable, alright and silly! I like to have fun, be in positive atmospheres. (I will try to lighten too serious moods.) I need to have time alone to myself to refresh and unwind. I am very empathetic, this time alone is necessary for me. I enjoy "hanging out" with my teenagers, though they are now at that age where hanging out with mom isn't as important. Which is probably for the best as I want to attach them to a rocket aimed at the moon more and more often...That's normal, right? Teenagers really dont make much sense and when they do, not only is it totally fascinating, but a little scary... just where did you learn that and when??I have experienced true love, loss, betrayal, death of family members, lay offs, reality checks and single parenting, and here I am, stronger and more confident. I have avoided relationships or involvement because I have been thru Hell, but have had it easy compared to others. The idea of a broken heart again really helps me keep people at a distance. And that is really hard to overcome. Playing games is not my style, I am pretty straight forward, and honest. I am old.fashioned, I have good morals. I'm not a one nighter. What would I Like to see in a man? Someone confident and at ease with himself, with nothing to prove. Someone mature, but still a kid at heart. Comfortable in jeans and Ts, groomed, not necessarily polished, someone who has a past, but has used it to move to a better place in life, and not a dead weight dragged around. Someone who is secure enough that sitting in silence is comfortable for him. I appreciate a door opened for me, and arm to loop mine through, someone smart about life, someone who can banter and carry on easy conversation without having to work at it. I have a past. I am very hesitant to meet someone in person. I would like to get an idea of who you are, your thoughts, and feelings, and idea of how you perceive the world. If you are unable to converse on here, it is unlikely that I will meet in person. If your interested, Engage me in conversation. Are you up for the challenge.So, i guess thats it for now. Drop me a line if you would like to chat :)PS. I prefer Caucasian men. I would enjoy any place easy conversation and comfortable relaxation can be achieved. Coffee, window shopping, appetizers.... no rush, just relaxed & easy. If for some reason we don't match, no hard feelings, enjoy what time we shared, and go our separate ways. Its just that easy. But on the chance that we actually do get along, and hanging out is actually a pleasurable experience, we may need to make plans to get together again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am goin to keep this short. If you are interested and want to know more, just ask, I am an open book. About Me??? I am a go with the flow kinda girl, I can be a bit of an airhead at times, I am the type who would do just about anything to make my friends, family and guy happy, love the fall, love camping, campfires and the ocean. I am not materialistic at all but I do like nice things once in a while, like a nice 5 star hotel with a spa, being pampered is great, it doesnt happen ofter to me! Love my friends, I wouldnt be where I am today if it wasnt for them. I got in a car accident last year that kept me from working out but I am now getting back onto it, just wish I had someone to do it with and to help motivate me.About you??? I am looking for someone with similar interests but someone who will push me to try new things also. I am not looking for a hook up however, I am also not looking to rush a relationship but I want a man who is ready for one. I would like someone who will do all those sweet romantic things like a flower on my car, a note, a text message so I know your thinking about me or just a quick hello for a kiss. I always try to make my guy feel special and I feel I deserve the same. On the flip side I want a man who will protect me, stand up for me and have my back. Looks are not everything but there does need to be that initial attraction that makes you wanna know more.... like a great smile and kind eyes. Once you get past that, the most important things in a relationship I feel are communication, respect, honesty and affection.All my pics are from the past 6 months or so, I take great pictures but they are all accurate and look like I do.OK, I guess that wasnt that short but I tried! lol We can figure this out together but something simple at first like a coffee or drink and see what happens.

  • Lashunda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love the out doors, horseback riding, down hill skiing, bike riding, walks on the beach, 4 wheelin, mudbogging. swimming in the pools, im afraid of hights and peterafide of snakes.and i just love fast cars, i love to go fast expacialy when I'm driving. lol. so lets have some fun Go somewhere where we can just sit and talk for awhile and get to know eachother better, maybe at a park or at the mall. someplace public

  • Abi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Simple woman looking for an honest man, closer to my age and location, a gentleman who looks for the beauty inside, I don't want to just hang out, dating only except obviously to start. I'm here hoping to find my long-term committed partner. I love to laugh and don't enjoy having to put on an act when I'm with my significant other. I prefer to hang out in a pair of jeans and a comfortable shirt with my hair down and even without makeup, but I can dress up when needed. Honesty is very important to me up-front, so I’ll begin. I had an illness over three years ago that caused me to stop driving. I have plenty of friends and family that take me where I need to go. Hopefully I’ Because of the same illness, I haven’t been able to return to work yet, I’m a licensed RN. I'm back in college almost to my BSN, looking at a teaching job locally, but for now I do well taking care of myself and my family. Looking to find a man who will give me the opportunity to show who I am on the inside! 've been given a second chance at life and took a second chance to find love. I was in a 16-year relationship married almost 11 of them, but it couldn’t last any longer. My marriage did bring me the best people in my life, my two children. I’m trying to give to both life and love a positive chance. I’m tired of being single. I miss a strong arm around my shoulder and a nice man in my life. I want a partner to spend time and have fun experiences with, laughing and enjoying life. I don’t need someone to take care of me but to care About me. I'm looking for someone secure and who likes a quiet night alone in maybe cooking for you or cooking together, out with family/friends and/or kids at some point when we feel it’s time. I’d describe myself as an intelligent, motivated, independent, affectionate, and giving woman. I'm told I have a beautiful personality, working on the body to go with it. I would like to meet a man who has similar qualities and desires as me. I like affection, holding hands during a walk on a beautiful day or any time, a nice kiss, and romantic gestures. I'm educated, articulate, a devoted parent and daughter. Nobody is perfect and I know I am far from perfect myself. Friends and family would describe me as organized, inspirational, and motivated. Being single I don’t get out as much to do the things I love because many are no fun alone. I love to travel, weekend get-a-ways, walks in a park, the zoo, historical museums, comedy clubs, and small diners with live music. I'd love to find a man to join me along the way. I'd hope you'll want to meet my children when I'm sure and you're sure there's something developing from our friendship and both sides are ready, I'm not out to hurt you or my girls with my dating. I have primary custody and they are my first priority. I hope to someday have a relationship that will include them, but they don’t need another dad, they still have their own and we're amicable for the kids’ sake. Please ask if you’d like to know more. I am an honest woman who believes in having good communication in a relationship, no drama. I have strong morals and faith in God. I listen to all types of music from all decades. New and old. Bon Jovi, Aerosmith, Harry Connick Jr. Not a big fan of rap. I don’t smoke and prefer not to be around it, if you’re an occasional smoker and can go on a date without a cigarette, I can handle that. I don’t drink, but that’s not to say the person I’m with can’t have drinks. If all of this hasn't turned you away and you're still interested, send me a message and let's see where it takes us! Come and take a walk with me at a park or in life. I tend to be a bit shy when it comes to messaging men, if I favorite you, tgat's my way of saying I'm interested. If you message me, I will always reply:) Amy Honestly I'm not hard to please. Comfortable meeting somewhere quiet, a restaurant with outside tables on a nice spring or fall evening, then take a walk in a park or along the riverwalk, good conversation. Laugh at my Complete Inability to re-tell a joke correctly! See where it goes from there.

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