Total users: 61,248,865 Online users: 220,492
Issy, 42

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 02:10:27

About Me

So whats a gal like me doing on POF? Curiosity, boredom, seeking interesting conversation, maybe a new friend in life, preferably no enemies, and on the off chance of meeting that intriguing person that sets off a spark.I am divorced and single. I am alone, but not lonely (which also means I am not desperate). I have learned to be comfortable with myself. I am pretty well balanced, down to earth chick you meet in a grocery store in old jeans and a t shirt. I have a positive outlook in life. I am one of those who will easily start a conversation with someone in line.I enjoy nature, (amateur) photography, friends and family, theme parks, reading, people watching, long easy conversations, sarcasm, laughter (a must!), good movies, planting and digging in the dirt (love the feel and scents of nature) scrabble, yatzee, impulse outings, not worrying about looking and acting perfect, but *** comfortable, and respectable, alright and silly! I like to have fun, be in positive atmospheres. (I will try to lighten too serious moods.) I need to have time alone to myself to refresh and unwind. I am very empathetic, this time alone is necessary for me. I enjoy "hanging out" with my teenagers, though they are now at that age where hanging out with mom isn't as important. Which is probably for the best as I want to attach them to a rocket aimed at the moon more and more often...That's normal, right? Teenagers really dont make much sense and when they do, not only is it totally fascinating, but a little scary... just where did you learn that and when??I have experienced true love, loss, betrayal, death of family members, lay offs, reality checks and single parenting, and here I am, stronger and more confident. I have avoided relationships or involvement because I have been thru Hell, but have had it easy compared to others. The idea of a broken heart again really helps me keep people at a distance. And that is really hard to overcome. Playing games is not my style, I am pretty straight forward, and honest. I am old.fashioned, I have good morals. I'm not a one nighter. What would I Like to see in a man? Someone confident and at ease with himself, with nothing to prove. Someone mature, but still a kid at heart. Comfortable in jeans and Ts, groomed, not necessarily polished, someone who has a past, but has used it to move to a better place in life, and not a dead weight dragged around. Someone who is secure enough that sitting in silence is comfortable for him. I appreciate a door opened for me, and arm to loop mine through, someone smart about life, someone who can banter and carry on easy conversation without having to work at it. I have a past. I am very hesitant to meet someone in person. I would like to get an idea of who you are, your thoughts, and feelings, and idea of how you perceive the world. If you are unable to converse on here, it is unlikely that I will meet in person. If your interested, Engage me in conversation. Are you up for the challenge.So, i guess thats it for now. Drop me a line if you would like to chat :)PS. I prefer Caucasian men. I would enjoy any place easy conversation and comfortable relaxation can be achieved. Coffee, window shopping, appetizers.... no rush, just relaxed & easy. If for some reason we don't match, no hard feelings, enjoy what time we shared, and go our separate ways. Its just that easy. But on the chance that we actually do get along, and hanging out is actually a pleasurable experience, we may need to make plans to get together again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Hayden Baggarly

    Offline

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-36

    I'm looking for a guy who does not have sex before marriage. I love to sing and use my iPad and watch television. I love to watch comedies and shows like South Park family and games shows like family feud and wheel of fortune

  • Trang

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    okay guys I am trying this again........I am a 42 year old thick country woman that is tired of the drama and games......I have made mistakes just like everyone else and have learned to overcome them finally......I am looking for a man not a boy.....someone to accept me for who I am and not try to change me into someone he thinks I should be.....I am not a Barbie and sure I never will be.....I have a job that I enjoy but do work alot of hours.......I love country music although I do like to listen to nickel back, theory of a deadman. three doors down,among others......I do have four tattoos and plan on getting more oneday...if any of this interests you plzzz drop me a line ****UPDATE**** I AM NOT ON HERE TO BE YOUR ONE NIGHT STAND OR BOOTY CALL.....I HAVE RESPECT FOR MYSELF AND EXSPECT YOU TO DO THE SAME.....ALSO GUYS IF YOU GET A MSG PLZZ TAKE THE TIME TO RESPOND....IF YOUR NOT INTERESTED JUST SAY SO.....HAPPY FISHING okay this is a hard one............somewhere where you can actually hear eachother maybe a picnic at a lake or a pond ......nice walk on the beach....home cooked meal and a movie.......somewhere we can figure out if there is enough chemistry for a second date

  • Tova

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an ex New Yorker, ex stay at home Mom and an ex married prerson. So I guess that makes me a Single Working Mom in CT. I was a stay at home mom for 12 years, raising 3 funny, smart and beautiful boys. Somehow I managed to get my Masters Degree and a divorce all at the same time. I have learned to be proud of myself and hope my boys will look back on their childhoods and see a devoted, strong and smart woman as there Mom. (and that they don't put me in a nursing home). Ive already done the "right out of marriage sowing of the oats" thing and it was fun. I have even dabbled in some "relationships" but to date no real sparks have flown. I'm not sure that i could have predicted where i am today but Im fairly certain that all roads will point me to where I belong. I am looking for a man that will bring out the best in me and I hope to return the favor. Im not expecting a best friend, I have a best friend and she is great, i want a strong man who can let be me be and love me for it. i want to love my man for being himself. Maybe to be the bestest of allies. I probably won't watch hockey with you cause I can never see the puck and i find it kind of rough. i can certainly sit through a Giants game as my Father used me as a good luck charm for most of my childhood. (I had to sit on the couch and not leave the room, it was fun when it actually worked.) I wont insist that you watch "housewives" or take part in all of my ridiculous activities. (unless you want to.) im low maintenance, not too materialistic, Im an average cook, and keep a clean and warm home, Im smart and I have opinions but I also have class and a good upbringing. I love my work and I try to be a good honest and kind person. i love music, all kinds.. i gotta be me but ill do my best.

Follow Us: