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Issy, 42

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About Me

So whats a gal like me doing on POF? Curiosity, boredom, seeking interesting conversation, maybe a new friend in life, preferably no enemies, and on the off chance of meeting that intriguing person that sets off a spark.I am divorced and single. I am alone, but not lonely (which also means I am not desperate). I have learned to be comfortable with myself. I am pretty well balanced, down to earth chick you meet in a grocery store in old jeans and a t shirt. I have a positive outlook in life. I am one of those who will easily start a conversation with someone in line.I enjoy nature, (amateur) photography, friends and family, theme parks, reading, people watching, long easy conversations, sarcasm, laughter (a must!), good movies, planting and digging in the dirt (love the feel and scents of nature) scrabble, yatzee, impulse outings, not worrying about looking and acting perfect, but *** comfortable, and respectable, alright and silly! I like to have fun, be in positive atmospheres. (I will try to lighten too serious moods.) I need to have time alone to myself to refresh and unwind. I am very empathetic, this time alone is necessary for me. I enjoy "hanging out" with my teenagers, though they are now at that age where hanging out with mom isn't as important. Which is probably for the best as I want to attach them to a rocket aimed at the moon more and more often...That's normal, right? Teenagers really dont make much sense and when they do, not only is it totally fascinating, but a little scary... just where did you learn that and when??I have experienced true love, loss, betrayal, death of family members, lay offs, reality checks and single parenting, and here I am, stronger and more confident. I have avoided relationships or involvement because I have been thru Hell, but have had it easy compared to others. The idea of a broken heart again really helps me keep people at a distance. And that is really hard to overcome. Playing games is not my style, I am pretty straight forward, and honest. I am old.fashioned, I have good morals. I'm not a one nighter. What would I Like to see in a man? Someone confident and at ease with himself, with nothing to prove. Someone mature, but still a kid at heart. Comfortable in jeans and Ts, groomed, not necessarily polished, someone who has a past, but has used it to move to a better place in life, and not a dead weight dragged around. Someone who is secure enough that sitting in silence is comfortable for him. I appreciate a door opened for me, and arm to loop mine through, someone smart about life, someone who can banter and carry on easy conversation without having to work at it. I have a past. I am very hesitant to meet someone in person. I would like to get an idea of who you are, your thoughts, and feelings, and idea of how you perceive the world. If you are unable to converse on here, it is unlikely that I will meet in person. If your interested, Engage me in conversation. Are you up for the challenge.So, i guess thats it for now. Drop me a line if you would like to chat :)PS. I prefer Caucasian men. I would enjoy any place easy conversation and comfortable relaxation can be achieved. Coffee, window shopping, appetizers.... no rush, just relaxed & easy. If for some reason we don't match, no hard feelings, enjoy what time we shared, and go our separate ways. Its just that easy. But on the chance that we actually do get along, and hanging out is actually a pleasurable experience, we may need to make plans to get together again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Love what I do. Would change working my weekend job in a heartbeat for the right person. I have two kids 22 and 18; life is busy, but will always take the time for some one special in my life.I have been told my best features are my eyes, legs, lips and of course my killer smile, oh and my natural curly hair.I love all types of music, depends what I am in the mood for at that particular moment. First date would meet someone for dinner or drinks. get to know one another and see if the spark is there. Do not expect to meet me for the first time and take me home and never hear from you again. If that is your game please move on. I am looking to meet someone for the long haul. If we are not compatible, no hard feelings.

  • Farrah

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Carey

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Time to change the profile.Im a genuinely nice person. I have plenty of flaws that I work to improve,and I'm sure you do too. Welcome to being human. To me, the key is being able to look honestly at ourselves and own our strengths and weaknesses. I am not fake in any way. I just don't have the time, energy, or horrible self-esteem needed to lie about who I am. Im not mean or brutal, but I will be honest with you.Related to that, I dont expect you to be a mindreader when it comes to my needs. I believe in communication always. I will tell you my concerns and I hope you will too.I have 5 amazing children, ages ***, who come first, but who also support me in finding love again. I welcome a partner who also has children because he will better understand my life.About 90% of the time I date interracially. We all have different things we find attractive in a partner, and I think brown skin is beautiful. Simple as that.I am a teacher and I love it, but I'm currently staying home to give my 2yo a good foundation and be available for my 15yo who is struggling right now. This means I struggle financially, but in the long run, I believe its worth it. I am looking for a strong, capable person whose strengths compliment mine. Sense of humor is critical around here. Given that I already have a horde of children, I don't need a partner who is overly needy. I'd love to find someone loving and supportive who can build me up when I've given all of myself to help others. I want someone I can love and support who will do the same for me.Im a pretty good cook and I like to feed people. Feeding the ***varsity football players is one of my favorite memories.Feel free to contact me. I have been on some of the worst first dates ever! As long as you don't take me through a drive thru, expect me to pay for both of us, expose yourself to me, or sexually assault me, I'm thrilled. Women still like to be courted, you know.

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