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Anya, 41

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About Me

What does one say about themself without sounding either boring or arrogant?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

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stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Treasure

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    It is September and I have taken a year off from dating and recently decided to give this another try. I am comfortable being single however I would like to share my life and interests with someone special. I would rather someone make their own opinion about me by talking and meeting me but I will tell you a little about me. First of all, I am a very happy person. I don't let things get me down and I always see the positive even in a bad situation. You will always see a smile on my face and I do joke and laugh a lot. I am quite the social person and have a large network of friends. If you like quiet, then Im not the one. I love having conversations, asking questions and learning. Im not a needy person so that works out great for me to have my self time. I don't have drama in my life and I appreciate the simple things in life. I very much enjoy going out to eat. I don't cook much so if you cook me a meal, that is a perfect date for me. And if you send leftovers home with me, it means more to me than trying to impress me with gifts. I am financially and emotionally stable. I don't watch tv much except for my favorite fall shows and I do not own cable. I prefer to stay busy than being a couch potato. I don't drink much but a glass of wine with a nice dinner out. You rarely will find any alcohol in my house and Im not much of a bar person. I am a faithful and trustworthy person. I put others before myself. I am very comfortable with who I am and where I am in life. Although I like to look nice going out, I definitely have no problem running to the store in jogging pants, tshirt, hair in pony, glasses and no makeup. I think communication is important. I tend to be on the bold side and say whats on my mind. There is never guessing with me, I will let you know what Im thinking. I would like a guy who would equally take charge on making plans. I tend to be the more aggressive one in past relationships and it would be nice for once to have someone make plans and tell me what we are doing, but equally share that responsibility also.What I am looking for is hard to explain. Ive never been willing to settle and I have never wanted to get divorced. Im not looking to get married (if it happens, great) but mostly what I am looking for is a nice healthy committing relationship that may eventually lead to that. This person must be stable, faithful and trusting in all aspects of life. I am not picky in looking for the drop-dead-gorgeous guy, just someone that makes my heart beat a bit faster. It could be the sparkle in their eye, their smile, the way they laugh. Just simple things. I am more attracted to someone who has a nice smile. I do not get along with anyone who is negative or unhappy in their life. I tend to stay far away from those type of people. It is important that this person is willing to involve me and share me with their family as I do not have family near.I am quite sure it will take some time to find the right (not perfect) person for me. I appreciate all the nice *** are sent to me and regret if I feel we are not a good match. I believe this process takes time. Im not a serial dater so I only respond to those that I feel confident on attributes that I am looking for. Most of all, I'm looking for someones who shows respect.Note-Those with shirt-off photos or flexing your muscles, Im not interested. Also not interested if all your photos are taken in a distance or sunglasses and hat in every photo. There are serious and not so serious people on this site. In my opinion, if you put effort into your profile, then you are person that will put effort into a relationship. I like a first date to be simple. A quick drink or I don't mind meeting for lunch/dinner as I do enjoy a nice meal out and conversation. You can expect me to pay for my own as I view this as a first meeting, not a date.

  • Tina

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Let's try this again and hopefully there are some honest and genuine people out there.I have to say that I am very energetic and outgoing. I love to travel not only in the US, but outside of the country as well. I am looking for a person who likes to have fun in life. I also love to be on-the-go, but also like to settle down and enjoy some quality time at home socializing or watching a great movie. Family is very important to me as well as very close friends.I don't do drama...have enough of that at work. I know who I am and a very confident woman who knows what she likes and what she does not like. What you see is what you get. No games, no lying, open, honest, etc. I know many people say that, but I am the real deal. I have many skills and hobbies. I don't mind getting dirty with projects, but love to get dressed up and look nice when going out. I am a bit shy with a first meeting, but I get more relaxed the longer I talk with someone (especially in person).I love my profession and my occupation. I have a great and stable job. I am financially secure. I am not looking for a "sugar daddy" or someone to support. Also, I don't need a man to "financially" to take care of me. I am just fine on my own. So, anyone who wants a "sugar momma," keep moving on. My time is valuable and I do not have time to waste time. I am not here for a one night stand. I am not into the bar scene and I thought I would try this site to meet people and hopefully find quality men. (seems like they are few and far between, unfortunately). Intellect is a positive, but need to know how to have fun, laugh at themselves, and not take themselves too seriously. If you are a couch potato, do not have any ambition in life, or over 49, please keep moving on.There is much more to me than this brief description, so I hope to be able to chat with you in the near future. If you like what you read please contact me, I'd love to hear from you. Some place public to have good conversation and then go from there.

  • Carey

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Time to change the profile.Im a genuinely nice person. I have plenty of flaws that I work to improve,and I'm sure you do too. Welcome to being human. To me, the key is being able to look honestly at ourselves and own our strengths and weaknesses. I am not fake in any way. I just don't have the time, energy, or horrible self-esteem needed to lie about who I am. Im not mean or brutal, but I will be honest with you.Related to that, I dont expect you to be a mindreader when it comes to my needs. I believe in communication always. I will tell you my concerns and I hope you will too.I have 5 amazing children, ages ***, who come first, but who also support me in finding love again. I welcome a partner who also has children because he will better understand my life.About 90% of the time I date interracially. We all have different things we find attractive in a partner, and I think brown skin is beautiful. Simple as that.I am a teacher and I love it, but I'm currently staying home to give my 2yo a good foundation and be available for my 15yo who is struggling right now. This means I struggle financially, but in the long run, I believe its worth it. I am looking for a strong, capable person whose strengths compliment mine. Sense of humor is critical around here. Given that I already have a horde of children, I don't need a partner who is overly needy. I'd love to find someone loving and supportive who can build me up when I've given all of myself to help others. I want someone I can love and support who will do the same for me.Im a pretty good cook and I like to feed people. Feeding the ***varsity football players is one of my favorite memories.Feel free to contact me. I have been on some of the worst first dates ever! As long as you don't take me through a drive thru, expect me to pay for both of us, expose yourself to me, or sexually assault me, I'm thrilled. Women still like to be courted, you know.

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