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Pearle, 42

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UPDATE: July ***Understand, when you read my profile, it may come off as "harsh"....but it's due to experiences and preference. Please have recent photos posted.If you can read this profile with an open mind, that says a lot about you.....Below are some things I am NOT looking for.... I do not want to waste each others time....If you've been married or been in a relationship then you understand, that there are just some things you cant overlook and why settle with someone knowing down the road its gonna be an issue? First a Question:Why are men so infatuated with coming up with ideas to get women into bed???Writing that their interests are Cuddling and Snuggling, Just very weird for a man to write that in a profile to women they've never met??If you are looking for a female to "party" with or to have "one nightstands".... ***> its best you hit back button and click on another....If you have "no commitment or casual dating" written in your profile....We're not going to be a good match..... Just *** you have/or had a CRIMINAL HISTORY OR A DRUG PROBLEM ***> IM NOT INTERESTED.ALSO... I really don't think this is too much to ask.....NO weirdos, NO serial daters, NO MENTAL DISTURBANCE, NO PERVERTS, NO Fakes, NO Pretenders, NO PLAYERS NO Anger Management( That means ... I don't argue period), NO liars, No CHEATERS, No Complainers or being negative)......OR men that WHINE....... if I dont respond to your message... that simply means Im not interested and I dont want to waste either partys time....... And being interested DOESN'T mean one worded responses ..... I'm not going to carry the conversation while you sit back and do nothing .... If the conversation doesn't pick up.... that means your not interested and Ill not waste my time. (( delete )).**I do not go to bars, that's not my idea of fun. If you frequent these types of establishments were probably not a good match....:/IF YOU MAKE UP EXCUSES OF ANY KIND...NOT INTERESTED. I'm not interested in "sarcastic or vulgar talk". Most of the men on here are very nice....but recently ...it seems like I have to touch base on this ..... :/Looking for a professional guy....outdoors .....that keeps in shape for the most part....Not trying to be mean but.....***you know what I mean......eating healthy.... FYI ---! ;) A man that acts as thou they are completely interested in talking to you...........and who doesnt get bored easily..... who doesnt yawn excessively ..... to be completely comfortable and there shouldnt be an awkward silence...... you know that feeling..... *** am looking for a man that is "SINGLE"... that means he shouldnt have a girlfriend.... And definately NOT SEPARATED....that means he shouldnt be MARRIED legally with a wife! Get a *** types of men out there.... one who isnt afraid to be with a woman who knows what she wants and one who isnt afraid to be *** offense: but Im not attracted to Men with LONG HAIR OR TATOOS ((SLEEVES)).... no offense (( you like what you like ))Btw: I'm tatoo and piercing freeA converstation/chatting on here first...... then a phonecall (if all goes well).... you can pick up on "certain things".... a good vibe or --->OMG let me off the phone vibe... and you know what I mean.... ((eye brow raised))..... then maybe with mutual interest....A meet and greet at some point. But......If you dont want to put in any EFFORT...... and you dont have the TIME....... because you are too BUSY....... for whatever reason.... then whats the point? Well, WHY ARE YOU HERE? Or ...ummmmmmmm.....Then theres where the serial dater vibe comes in..... Or hiding the fact you are secretly married? Eh? And that has happened....:/Ok....If you have gotten this far, then that means you are possibly interested..... I am looking for a man that has a heart of Gold....just a GOOD guy :) Morals, sweet, respectful, handsome, you have to be MASCULINE ( not sissy ) and awesome personality....with of course the***> attraction and chemistry, great attitude, positive, caring, respects the law.....LETS TALK ABOUT "THE TEXTING" :I DO NOT LIKE TO TEXT, ok.... I hate it.After getting to know someone off here and numbers are exchanged mutually .....Then its Possibly a deal breaker***> if your compulsive texter... During dinner... While your with that person... :/What? Keep making excuses to avoid talking on the phone?? ((shaking my head)) red flag There are some *** texting is like a message because your working or in a meeting and phone conversation isn't possible.Although, To me, if a guy wants to text all the time..... its either he doesnt want to talk... or he has several contacting him at the same time... OR HES PLAYING GAMES.... ***yes to all. Anyway....THE FACT IS.....There is so much "miscommunication" in texting.... I dont feel like trying to explain the TONE....because you just cant. A text can be read ... so many different *** so you have survived the novel.... :)Thank you for reading and for being patient.About me:Im a caring person with a big heart, that cares more about others....than myself.Im slightly old fashioned, that still believes in morals and will hold out for that missing piece in my life.....I know we are not all perfect but I do believe there is a person for everyone.... Im looking for someone who is been out of a relationship or been divorced for a while.... no recent divorces or relationship issues where your thinking about returning..... I don't want any drama. I have a very calm and relaxing world....I love being outdoors, any adventure.Love me some Starbucks Chocolate is the cure for allMusic is relaxing and a great way to express yourself..... meet over coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vernon

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a green eyed, red head, Irish Texan....and I'll bet from that you'll never guess which city I grew up in....lol. I'm very active and love to do things outdoors! I own my own home on acreage, have four horses, a pickup and a trailer to haul my horses in. I also have chickens, dogs, cats and fish. I'm a high school special education teacher and love what I do. I work hard so I can play harder. I absolutely love to travel and have many places on my bucket list I have yet to see, although Vegas will always be top on any list (I can never go often enough... Lazy people are a pet peeve of mine...while a quiet evening watching a movie every now and then is great, if your idea of activity is raising your arm to click the TV remote on a consistent basis, then we wont get along! I love to swing dance and two step but it seems like there are more people who say they can but in reality they cant...so if you KNOW how...then that would be fabulous! I'm pretty picky when it comes to music...I only listen to country and christian...heavy metal and rap makes me nauseous...and I'm not real fond of hip hop bubble gum stuff either. I'm pescatarian (best Google that if you're not sure what it is!) so if you like sushi...I know of some amazing sushi places! I'm known to be somewhat random at times, love adventure, and have a good sense of humor....laughing is the best thing ever.**** OK!! UPDATE**** After being on here a couple of months I feel the need to add a few things...first...I am very dedicated to what I do for a living...and I work A LOT. I do make time for the things I want to do...but even sometimes...the things I want to do have to take a back seat to my career...which is VERY important to me. I say 'I'm only interested in dating and nothing serious' for a reason. That being said...IF someone comes along who knocks my world upside down...I'm not opposed to the idea of a relationship...BUT...for now it's not first and foremost on my mind. Second...IF you're throwing your number my direction or asking for mine within the first half dozen *** and forth...I can PROMISE I wont be interested in meeting up, hooking up or hanging out. Finding out about one another and whether we even have enough in common to be friends is far more important to me that meeting up for a date or having a 'text buddy'....thanks...but I teach high school...I'm not IN high school...just saying.... Third...if you only look at pictures and haven't bothered to read my profile...well then I guess that point is mute and you haven't made it this far so I don't need to suggest you read first....I'll just weed you out with the others that ask redundant questions that are already answered in my profile...another 'just saying'.... Fourth, if you don't have a picture...DONT bother clicking 'I want to meet you'....trust me....we wont...and I wont be contacting you either. Common courtesy...I have photos...you need them also. This may sound super shallow...but physical attraction is a huge deal...let me restate that...HUGE deal. I'm old enough and wise enough to be upfront on this one....be realistic and be aware of yourself enough to know whether that is a possibility or not. Please don't be offended if I do not respond...it simply means that I do not believe that we have enough in common or would have the physical chemistry that I would be looking for.....so continuing to send me *** wont change that. All this all being said....Good Luck fishing all ya'all! :) Something simple and public...meeting for drinks or coffee.

  • Katerina

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    As the song goes: I'm a little bit of everything all rolled into one. I'm a b*tch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother. I'm a sinner, I'm a saint....Aren't we all a little bit of everything? I find it difficult to describe myself. I'm a professional, fairly intelligent person with a decent sense of humor. I prefer meeting people and seeing if there is a connection. The chemistry is either there, or not. I want someone who has their life in order, knows how to work hard and still have fun. I have a son who is with me during the week. What else do you want to know? Just ask. Dinner and good conversation. Keep it simple.

  • Mead

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm friendly and I'm very easy to get along with. i love to fish and hopefully one day i'll catch me a tuna. I enjoy camping in the great outdoors. i also enjoy cozying up to that special someone next to a warm fire after a hard days work. And i like to try new things.

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