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Tirzah, 45

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; ***I am not interested in black guys. I'm sure you are wonderful and nice, but I am rarely attracted to a black man. (When you read "rarely", read about 1 out of 1,***. Do NOT assume you will be that one. Just move on. ***I am a big girl - if your dream girl is a size 6, 2 or 0, that's not me. I have an hour-glass figure, but it has several more minutes than J Lo's!Lots of guys on here seem to be looking for girls who have all the same interests that they do. I don't want a carbon copy of myself. Guys are more interesting to me if they have some interests DIFFERENT from mine. It brings something new to the table. And even if you and I have several interests the same, I will still sometimes want to do those things without you. Sorry - but being in love doesn't mean "joined at the hip" for me. Also, I am not looking for a workout partner. I like to sweat alone. This doesn't mean that we can't take bike rides together - it means that I won't be your spinning partner, nor cheering you on at Crossfit. My friends say that I am fun, funny and friendly. I try not to take myself or my life too seriously. I love a good time, but honestly I'm on here looking for something more. I'd like to find a man who is ready to settle down, at least in a serious relationship.I realize that won't happen on the first date, but please don't waste time (mine or yours) *** if all you're looking for is a good time or to get laid.All that being said, the guy I'm looking for would look good in jeans or a suit, but probably be found wearing jeans most of the time. He likes animals and kids, but might not have either. He likes sitting at home on the couch watching movies just as much as going out on the town until the wee hours of the morning, though he's found on the couch more often than not. He can be into sports - doing or watching - I'll be supportive, especially if it's basketball. He's affectionate - in private AND in public (holding hands, kisses). He's a basic good guy though he might look like a bad guy. He's loyal, faithful and dependable (and NO, those do not come together to mean "boring"!!). He's willing to take chances (on a new job, love, etc.), try new things (food, dance, music, etc.), open his mind (to new ideals, new experiences) and he would NEVER say, "I'm too old for that." (WARNING: If these words (or any variation thereof) do leave your mouth, be prepared for that to be our last date.) I think a good first date involves some activity where you can actually talk to each other and get to know a little bit about the other person. Walking through an art gallery, walking through a local flea market, a long walk on a beach, dinner together - any one of these would be good. If your idea of a good first date is "coffee, so we can see if we have chemistry" - I probably won't write to you because 15 minutes of coffee is NOT the way to find out if you have chemistry. That is a way to find out if you think someone looks "hot." Also, if you ask me out, expect to pay for the date. You are supposed to be wooing me, impressing me, something! Asking me to pay for my meal (go Dutch) or asking me to pay for the ENTIRE meal will ensure you don't get a second date. I pay for my own meal all the time when I go out alone - I don't need you along to be able to pay for my own meal. : ) I know times are tough right now, but a date doesn't have to cost anything. I gave several examples above of good free dates. (Don't misinterpret this as me being a gold digger or looking for a sugar daddy. I am not. I am looking for a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady on a date.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Please only contact me if your looking for that special someone in your life. I am looking for a serious commited relationship with the right person. Not interested in a hook up or anything else if you are keep on looking and don't waste my time or yours!! If you are arrogant, disrespectful, cheap, inconsiderate, selfish or full of yourself you are not what I am looking for. I want a man who knows how to treat a woman!! I have a firm belief in God not interested in someone who doesn't. I am a honest, loyal, caring, kind ,considerate, affectionate and good natured person. Looking for the same in someone else. I go to the gym almost everyday keeps me physically and mentally in shape . I would love to find a good man to share my life with but at the same time I am very selective on who that will be I have no time for bullsh*t in my life. My profile may come across harsh but I am actually a very sweet easy going person just tired of the dating games and my time being wasted. I am a huge animal lover but only the four legged ones LOL LIARS , CHEATERS or BULLSHITTERS NEED NOT APPLY AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT!!!If I give you my number please do not ask me for a million pictures!! TOTAL TURNOFF!! TRUST ME I look exactly like my pictures. If you want to get together you will find that out. Dinner or Lunch

  • Eve

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    First, let me say cramming a description of my wholistic human existence into a limited number of digital bits is pretty heady. I know I'm supposed to use this space to impress you with my wit and intelligence. I can use a plethora of provocative words, list the places I've visited worldwide, and extoll my virtues. But, this only paints a limited image. Let's just say I'm a worldly, informed, girl-next-door.I'm pretty down to earth and straight forward. I prefer to live my life authentically. I don't like to spend my time playing games, unless they are of the board game variety (or rockband :)) Let's just say fun... Yes... drama... no! I believe happiness is a choice and it comes from finding appreciation daily in the kindness from oneself and others. Of course, I don't take myself too seriously. I can be silly at times, but never at the expense of others. Between career, family, working out, etc.,I keep pretty busy. But I know how to prioritize my time to keep those most important front and center. Of course, caring for and spending time with my daughter is a great joy of mine. She's sassy like mommy!I work towards daily balance and harmony. My friends would say I am deeply loyal, supportive, trustworthy, honest, energetic, and caring. I choose to look on the bright side of things as much as possible. I'm quirky and left of center. Long story.My ideal match would be someone who is likewise optimistic and independent. Creativity and intellectual curiosity are preferred. Although it would be great to share similar interests, he should cultivate his own passions. He is someone who knows how to appreciate others. My perfect match loves to laugh, cares about others and the environment, has an easy going disposition, and is comfortable with himself. Is this you? A girl can hope... The first time I meet someone new, I like to meet for coffee, nothing pretentious, just good conversation. I like to exchange ideas, laugh a little, and see if there is a connection.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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