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Melodi, 41

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About Me

Once I heard love described as friendship on fire...I guess it stuck. I am looking for that special person who can accept me for me, who makes me laugh 'til I can't breathe and isn't afraid to tell me the truth, regardless of what it is... for that person who is challenging, fun and able to have a disagreement, and then get over it...someone I can't wait to call whether I have had a stressful day or a great one because I want to tell him all about it...and someone who gets that I am still a work in progress, always looking to make my life better, not perfect in any way, except maybe a perfect partner for someone out there. Please Love Dogs...and cats ...I have both and always will (shelter adoptions with a lifetime home).I am looking for an actual relationship, where we start off just dating and if we hit it off then we choose to be exclusive. I am not looking for penpals, games, one night stands or "just casual". I have known lots of couples who are opposites and I tend to be attracted to opposites as well, but that generally doesn't last. Some differences keep things from being boring or make things work more smoothly. But generally we should be more alike in our core values than not.Looking forward to meeting you =) For a first date I like to focus more on just relaxing and having fun than planning a date so either drinks or dessert at a cafe or bar...or in the nicer weather a round of mini golf or a walk thru a park. Casual lunch might work too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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