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Ashly
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I'm a pretty easy going gal, more of the jeans and t-shirt type and a self described ex hippy chick. Some of my interests include cooking, nature, the arts, crafts, live music, traveling, and whatever my latest project is. Communication and understanding are important keys to any relationship. I am looking for an equal partner who is open minded and not afraid to speak what is on his mind. An equal balance of give and take, a best friend, mutual support. I tend to be a wise ass, so a sense of humor is important as well.I like to be active and enjoy doing anything outdoors, fairs, music festivals, farmer's markets, hiking, and basically anything that gets me outside. If your ideal Sunday is sitting in front of the tv watching football, we are probably not compatible.I may look like the girl next door but I am somewhat of a grown up ex party girl. I relate best to people who have an understanding of where I have come from. As a single parent I have few opportunities for spontaneity but enjoy having a partner in crime for those break loose moments. My son is my life, and joy. Not to state the obvious, but I would like someone to want to get to know me. Eventually part of that package is also my son.Well, that's all I have for now. I will fill more in as it comes to me. I think a first date should be kept simple, out for a coffee, or drink. If the conversation is flowing, then it can be decided it you would like to date to continue.
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Ronnie
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
What does that mean: "I'm Not Done?" It means that I'm still living my life. I travel for fun, and this I take quite seriously. For about the last five years I've spent at least one month out of every twelve traveling, and I am having the time of my life. I'm having a blast finding out what the world looks like outside of a television screen or a photograph. I abhor the dull, the boring, the ordinary.Mostly I travel for music. There are a few bands I really like, and for me nothing beats seeing them live. (Bonus points if you know what Red Rocks, the Ryman Auditorium, and Gentlemen of the Road Stopovers are without having to look them up.)My taste in music is pretty open. Mostly I like "organic" music: music that's played on *** require skill and discipline to play. I am not a fan of electronic music or anything wholly created on a computer or played back pre-recorded during a live show. I like some bluegrass, some folk, some rock, some metal. What matters most to me is genuineness, depth, and passion being expressed in music. I also love equine sports, especially thoroughbred racing. A day at the track is one of my favorite ways to spend my free time, but I haven't had a chance to do that in a while. I also enjoy hockey, but haven't been more than a casual follower for several years. Canine agility events are always cool to witness, and I have trained a couple of border collies (my favorite breed) in agility and flyball. Currently my pets consist of a Jardine's parrot and a Tibetan spaniel.I'm looking for someone who is fun and adventurous, someone who's not afraid of being who he is and who has a genuine appreciation for music that comes from the soul.UPDATE: Okay, so I have been getting a lot of guys messaging me asking if I am a groupie. Let me just begin by saying this is the best way not only to get no response from me, ever, but also to piss me off. Just because I'm female doesn't mean my attraction to live music is based on a desire to sleep with the band members. It IS actually possible for females to appreciate and recognize the qualities of the music itself. It really depends on the interests of my date. I'm open to suggestions, but if that includes clichés like "dinner and a movie" or "grab a cup of coffee" it might be a turn-off. These things are commonplace, and at this point I've done common to death. It's boring; I prefer anti-boring. Basically just somewhere doing something fun and engaging that lets our real personalities show.
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Alvena
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.