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Melodi, 41

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About Me

Once I heard love described as friendship on fire...I guess it stuck. I am looking for that special person who can accept me for me, who makes me laugh 'til I can't breathe and isn't afraid to tell me the truth, regardless of what it is... for that person who is challenging, fun and able to have a disagreement, and then get over it...someone I can't wait to call whether I have had a stressful day or a great one because I want to tell him all about it...and someone who gets that I am still a work in progress, always looking to make my life better, not perfect in any way, except maybe a perfect partner for someone out there. Please Love Dogs...and cats ...I have both and always will (shelter adoptions with a lifetime home).I am looking for an actual relationship, where we start off just dating and if we hit it off then we choose to be exclusive. I am not looking for penpals, games, one night stands or "just casual". I have known lots of couples who are opposites and I tend to be attracted to opposites as well, but that generally doesn't last. Some differences keep things from being boring or make things work more smoothly. But generally we should be more alike in our core values than not.Looking forward to meeting you =) For a first date I like to focus more on just relaxing and having fun than planning a date so either drinks or dessert at a cafe or bar...or in the nicer weather a round of mini golf or a walk thru a park. Casual lunch might work too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Madalyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I go to the gym on a regular basis and absolutely love to ZUMBA. I love socializing and dining out but enjoy cooking as well. I like the theatre, museums and I love street fairs. I enjoy supporting fundraisers, as well as antiquing from time to time. Spending time with my FAMILY and friends is the most important thing to me.My first priority is being the BEST MOM to my two amazing children. I spend some of my free time volunteering as well as working from home as a freelance designer. Since I have been separated for over two years now, I have been able to enjoy some much needed "me" time and now I feel I am ready for some "me and you" time with the right person.A little bit about myself, in no particular order...I AM A creative, loyal, sincere, sexy, intelligent, considerate, confident, talented, witty,PHYSICALLY STRONG yet feminine, MENTALLY STRONG yet sensitive, FUNNY yet serious, loving, WOMAN.I am hoping to meet someone who will value as well as compliment these attributes.I am very versatile when it comes to my music choices. I enjoy everything from Classic Rock to Pop, R & B to Hip Hop, Sinatra to Showtunes...Something from the site I thought was worth sharing: If you can’t be bothered to spell check your message or give it a quick read over, then you’re letting yourself come across as someone who doesn’t have the time to pay attention to details. Consideration is a huge part of sending a message. If you are not investing any time or effort into creating a thoughtful, articulate message then do not expect a great response.Thanks for reading and good luck to all!!! I think a first date should be kept relatively short and sweet. Meeting up for a drink or coffee would keep things super casual, which can make for a perfect first date.

  • Zada

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello everyone! THAT IS ME! ALSO, THAT IS WHY U SEE 8 PICTURES. I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE ABOUT WHO I AM!!!!!!!!!!! DO U?My 2 children mean the world to me! Their my angels.& I will move heaven & earth for them! I love you Matthew & I love children worked as a fostermother to medically fragile infants. Please don't bother me if your a quack, DAMAGED or UNSTABLE! Looking for someone normal! I like to cook all italian girl here, dance, travel, laugh,walk, shop, etc... Yes. i 'm a very nice person, ,but can handle myself very well when the situation calls for it! I can be a FIRECRACKER WHEN NEED TO!! I am very strong willed & outspoken! I keep myself looking very nice! Also, I love to complement.! About the guy i'm looking for: kind, compassionate, cute, i like facial hair, respectful, sense of humor, sarcasm is good bring it on lol, someone who can keep me interested and fun. I'm not looking for Mr. GQ as long as he is cute and has a nice personality with good qualities is what matters to me. I like to find someone who is active, bike riding, skating, walking, etc.. First***\\***RIP MY BEAUTIFUL MOTHER PASSED AWAY ON SEPTEMBER 18, ***! SHE WAS DIAGNOSED WITH A RARE CANCER.. I LOVE YOU! ***\\\***Put This ***On Your ***account If ***You Know ***\\\***Someone ***\\***Who Died ***\***Of ***\\\***Cancer ***\\\***\\\***date? Get to know the person. No pressure.

  • Alvena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

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