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Melodi, 41

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About Me

Once I heard love described as friendship on fire...I guess it stuck. I am looking for that special person who can accept me for me, who makes me laugh 'til I can't breathe and isn't afraid to tell me the truth, regardless of what it is... for that person who is challenging, fun and able to have a disagreement, and then get over it...someone I can't wait to call whether I have had a stressful day or a great one because I want to tell him all about it...and someone who gets that I am still a work in progress, always looking to make my life better, not perfect in any way, except maybe a perfect partner for someone out there. Please Love Dogs...and cats ...I have both and always will (shelter adoptions with a lifetime home).I am looking for an actual relationship, where we start off just dating and if we hit it off then we choose to be exclusive. I am not looking for penpals, games, one night stands or "just casual". I have known lots of couples who are opposites and I tend to be attracted to opposites as well, but that generally doesn't last. Some differences keep things from being boring or make things work more smoothly. But generally we should be more alike in our core values than not.Looking forward to meeting you =) For a first date I like to focus more on just relaxing and having fun than planning a date so either drinks or dessert at a cafe or bar...or in the nicer weather a round of mini golf or a walk thru a park. Casual lunch might work too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Darnell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Living life to the fullest, scholar, athlete. I’m not shy, I’m not easily intimidated, and very confident in my abilities and talents. Look for self actualized people with lots of interests.

  • Tirzah

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ; ***I am not interested in black guys. I'm sure you are wonderful and nice, but I am rarely attracted to a black man. (When you read "rarely", read about 1 out of 1,***. Do NOT assume you will be that one. Just move on. ***I am a big girl - if your dream girl is a size 6, 2 or 0, that's not me. I have an hour-glass figure, but it has several more minutes than J Lo's!Lots of guys on here seem to be looking for girls who have all the same interests that they do. I don't want a carbon copy of myself. Guys are more interesting to me if they have some interests DIFFERENT from mine. It brings something new to the table. And even if you and I have several interests the same, I will still sometimes want to do those things without you. Sorry - but being in love doesn't mean "joined at the hip" for me. Also, I am not looking for a workout partner. I like to sweat alone. This doesn't mean that we can't take bike rides together - it means that I won't be your spinning partner, nor cheering you on at Crossfit. My friends say that I am fun, funny and friendly. I try not to take myself or my life too seriously. I love a good time, but honestly I'm on here looking for something more. I'd like to find a man who is ready to settle down, at least in a serious relationship.I realize that won't happen on the first date, but please don't waste time (mine or yours) *** if all you're looking for is a good time or to get laid.All that being said, the guy I'm looking for would look good in jeans or a suit, but probably be found wearing jeans most of the time. He likes animals and kids, but might not have either. He likes sitting at home on the couch watching movies just as much as going out on the town until the wee hours of the morning, though he's found on the couch more often than not. He can be into sports - doing or watching - I'll be supportive, especially if it's basketball. He's affectionate - in private AND in public (holding hands, kisses). He's a basic good guy though he might look like a bad guy. He's loyal, faithful and dependable (and NO, those do not come together to mean "boring"!!). He's willing to take chances (on a new job, love, etc.), try new things (food, dance, music, etc.), open his mind (to new ideals, new experiences) and he would NEVER say, "I'm too old for that." (WARNING: If these words (or any variation thereof) do leave your mouth, be prepared for that to be our last date.) I think a good first date involves some activity where you can actually talk to each other and get to know a little bit about the other person. Walking through an art gallery, walking through a local flea market, a long walk on a beach, dinner together - any one of these would be good. If your idea of a good first date is "coffee, so we can see if we have chemistry" - I probably won't write to you because 15 minutes of coffee is NOT the way to find out if you have chemistry. That is a way to find out if you think someone looks "hot." Also, if you ask me out, expect to pay for the date. You are supposed to be wooing me, impressing me, something! Asking me to pay for my meal (go Dutch) or asking me to pay for the ENTIRE meal will ensure you don't get a second date. I pay for my own meal all the time when I go out alone - I don't need you along to be able to pay for my own meal. : ) I know times are tough right now, but a date doesn't have to cost anything. I gave several examples above of good free dates. (Don't misinterpret this as me being a gold digger or looking for a sugar daddy. I am not. I am looking for a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady on a date.)

  • Riva

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a single mom if 2 wonderful kids..they r the world to me..I work full time...i figured its time to get back out there and start dating again now that they r grown...I am very easy going love to talk and have fun...I love camping, quads, fishing, bon fires and anything like that...I'm not into bar scene all the time but I do go see a band or have a drink now and then...quiet nights at home with a good movie work too..I am looking for a good guy with a great personality who loves to have fun... Life is really to short not to be happy and enjoy life...I do love my life and am happy but now it's time to hopefully find someone to share all that with me... A nice dinner or movie maybe just a walk in the park...

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