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Jacalyn, 43

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About Me

I couldn't come up with a headline for a dating website... This is one I've seen and I use it for me. I'm not an adrenaline junkie, but I try to keep pushing myself forward. Please be down to earth. Please be able to laugh, even at yourself. I'm a bit self-deprecating so... Some of the best jokes are at the expense of me or one of my friends. I can not live without music or books. I have loads of CDs and the vinyl I managed to salvage from my mother's house... The bag I carry with me tends to weigh a ton because of the books I always have tucked away in it... I don't know the first thing about a nook, etc.. I need to be able to turn the pages as I read...I like going out to eat or a concert or whatever, but I really, really like being able to be comfortable with someone hanging at home too. A night of a movie on the couch is great. Naps are good too. Silence that is comfortable... That can be a big thing.I get focused on things and want to learn about them (muscle cars), but I guess most people are like that? I'm dying of jealousy because one of my closest friends is about to buy a ***Studebaker Hawk... I love the color red (obviously), I'm kind of particular about my coffee, I have a notebook that I write down quotes I come across and love, I ran around like a maniac tomboy as a kid and have fallen out of more trees than I can count, I tend to stick pens in my hair and then wander around the rest of the day wondering what I've done with them all, I never get tired of the sound of the ocean, I like learning to do things for myself (apartment stuff, car stuff, etc.), it makes me feel constructive to be covered in mud, etc. after a day of physical labor....I completed a Bachelor's in Philosophy before going back to school for sciences and Veterinary Medicine (completed in Europe). Also took literature courses when I could fit them in. I'm born and bred in NYC. But now I'm definitely rambling... Drinking something? Coffee? Going somewhere that I can actually hear you speak?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    One of the most important things I have learned is about Humility and what it means to me:"I don't know it all and I remain teachable."Like all the beautiful trees in a forest we are all perfectly imperfect ... How do you deal w/ adversity? So if you can relate please keep reading ... and if you are truly interested please message me ... don't just say you are interested and leave it to me to contact you first ... I like a man who is willing to risk and make himself vulnerable as you will learn I will do the same w/ you ... it is important to make things work and truly be intimate.I feel true happiness is found on the "inside" so if you are willing to grow and do some soul searching for yourself and those around you then you would probably be a good fit for me! A man who knows how to be transparent, hiding nothing, is a must. Actions will speak louder than words, and trust me, I am watching.It is extremely important to me that my partner and I share the same belief when it comes to Spiritual Growth. I would love nothing more than a man who shares my faith, courage, confidence, honesty and good heart. I love warm weather, crave travel and adventure and would even be willing to relocate ... have a family or embrace an existing one. =)Since I am self employed, I stay pretty busy! I value having a set plan for my date(s) but also love to be surprised with random spontaneity from time to time. I am not a slave to my work life though; relationships take time and I am willing to invest when the right person comes along! And speaking of the right person; I hope your funny because I love to laugh! Laughter is great therapy ... especially when you can laugh at yourself and not take things too seriously.I will love you with reckless abandon – be accountable for my behavior (the good, the bad, the ugly) – balance your Yin with my Yang - let YOU be YOU and pray we continue to GROW together. We should bring out the best in each other. Giving each other a soft place to fall is a must. I do not hold grudges, work diligently to let go of any and all resentments, and am quick to forgive. I consider myself young at heart but emotionally mature. I am optimistic and passionate about life. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that heals ... so I try to stay as grateful as I can everyday. I am sensitive; yet strong and determined by nature. I am faithful, caring and affectionate, I communicate well, am a good listener and friend. My family and friends are very important to me. It's important to me that I continue to nurture these relationships.I am a fun and loving person who wants to be adored, respected and cherished just as I would you!!. I am not comfortable nor will I respond back if there is not a picture of you on your profile. Drinking does not agree nor interest me at all. I prefer a highly motivated driven man... ...so if sitting on the couch, watching sports all day is your 'ideal day' well, your not the guy for me. Last but not least, I value good health & exercise...... it's important to me that you do too. I stay active, eat healthy and take good care of myself and hope you will too!!! Thank you for taking the time to read my novel, er, I mean, profile.P.S. I've been told I am rare ... never been married and no kids ... just saying ;-)P.P.S. New interests: Quantum Physics and Nueroscience [used to make my eyes roll ... but now I find it fascinating ... yea, I am a geek >>>LOL] It doesn't really matter what we do as long as we are in good company... we'll figure it out together.

  • Jami

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I thought this site might be a good way to meet some new people, maybe make some new friends or something more! I'm not looking to jump head-first into something serious, rather to start off casual and if it's there then it will progress naturally. Some of the more important characteristics I am looking for are honesty, a good moral compass and family values, sense of humor (mine can be dry/sarcastic but I can take it as well as I dish it out!), intelligence, and the ability to just have a good time!!! Physical attraction is important as well, but that doesn't mean looking like a model...and I'm more interested in what your profile says than your shirtless self-photos taken in the mirror anyway! But please be taller than me...it's the only physical characteristic I require. I am not interested in anyone who is playing games or brings drama with them...I've done my time with that! (FYI...kids do NOT equal drama, I have no problems with meeting someone who is a dad!) I like sports (Mets/Jets fan...keep your negative comments to yourself!...LOL!), love going to baseball games, going to the track to watch horse racing, playing poker, skiing, fishing, dining out, drinks at a bar (no clubs!), road trips to anywhere, or just staying in & watching a movie, playing a board game or cards, enjoying a home cooked meal and a bottle of wine, just spending time with a quality someone. It's more about who you're with than what you do that determines if it can be a good time. I'll try just about anything once so if you have other interests that are important to you I'd be willing to give them a try! My family & friends are a very important part of my life...too many people I know lose touch with their friends when they enter a new relationship, but mine will be a part of my life forever...and maybe you'll get to meet them one day! Something out of the ordinary and fun, where the opportunity to talk is there but short enough that if there isn't a mutual interest we're not stuck with each other for hours...and if it's going well we can always find something else to do!

  • Lakia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a hairdresser, so I like making people beautiful!!! I like making people laugh. I'm laid back and have a sense of humor. I like watching movies, hanging out with friends and meeting new people. I love hanging out with my son doing whatever. I like watching live music, playing pool, reading, and working out. I'm pretty open to all music, although my favorite I guess would be alternative. I'm looking for someone who has a sense of humor and is down to earth. Likes to do different things, whether its going to listen to a band, or sitting at home watching a movie, or cooking a great meal together. Something fun, casual, just something to getting to know each other. It can be something as little as going to get coffee or yogurt, walikng in the park, to dinner and dancing.

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