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Jacalyn, 43

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About Me

I couldn't come up with a headline for a dating website... This is one I've seen and I use it for me. I'm not an adrenaline junkie, but I try to keep pushing myself forward. Please be down to earth. Please be able to laugh, even at yourself. I'm a bit self-deprecating so... Some of the best jokes are at the expense of me or one of my friends. I can not live without music or books. I have loads of CDs and the vinyl I managed to salvage from my mother's house... The bag I carry with me tends to weigh a ton because of the books I always have tucked away in it... I don't know the first thing about a nook, etc.. I need to be able to turn the pages as I read...I like going out to eat or a concert or whatever, but I really, really like being able to be comfortable with someone hanging at home too. A night of a movie on the couch is great. Naps are good too. Silence that is comfortable... That can be a big thing.I get focused on things and want to learn about them (muscle cars), but I guess most people are like that? I'm dying of jealousy because one of my closest friends is about to buy a ***Studebaker Hawk... I love the color red (obviously), I'm kind of particular about my coffee, I have a notebook that I write down quotes I come across and love, I ran around like a maniac tomboy as a kid and have fallen out of more trees than I can count, I tend to stick pens in my hair and then wander around the rest of the day wondering what I've done with them all, I never get tired of the sound of the ocean, I like learning to do things for myself (apartment stuff, car stuff, etc.), it makes me feel constructive to be covered in mud, etc. after a day of physical labor....I completed a Bachelor's in Philosophy before going back to school for sciences and Veterinary Medicine (completed in Europe). Also took literature courses when I could fit them in. I'm born and bred in NYC. But now I'm definitely rambling... Drinking something? Coffee? Going somewhere that I can actually hear you speak?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dolley

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I work for an international technology-based non-profit company and it's very rewarding! I travel a lot for work, both within the US and internationally. I'd love to meet someone who might be up for meeting me at the tail end of international meetings for a little exploring! I also like thrift stores, flea markets and garage sales, hanging out watching movies, and cooking exotic meals. I like people who are smart, funny, goal-oriented, artistic, and compassionate.-conformists. People involved in any form of subculture or counterculture are the people I relate to best. I admire people who are always looking for ways to broaden their minds and are open to new ideas and are interested in learning new things. I would like to meet someone who has a goal that they are working toward and who has a plan for where they're going.I'm very lucky to have more than a few very close friends and a great family, and I love spending time with them. I always try to make time to learn new things and expand my mind. Experiencing new and interesting things is very important to me. I feel that I don't have much in common with people who are static in life and who don't see the opportunities and growth that come with change. I don't like people who are bigoted or mean spirited. Drama and jealousy are major turn-offs. I guess the first date could be drinks (I don't drink coffee...). Second date? Anything out of the norm!

  • Kennedy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ... I am a single, vibrant woman who has time to spend with the right man... I have 2 terrific kids, a great job, my own everything, just missing that one piece of the puzzle. I have great friends and family and love hanging out with them as often as possible in my spare time. I love to laugh and enjoy watching sports, cooking, and any outdoor activity. I enjoy all types of music, but country is my least favorite. My ideal man is independent, honest, outgoing, and secure with himself. I am not looking for someone just like me, but someone who compliments me. I want to be with the one man I hate to leave, and am excited to see again:) ....It's sad that I have to mention this, My 17 and 22 yr old daughters are biracial... and my oldest daughter has Down's Syndrome. She is absolutely perfect and amazing! so if you are shallow, and insecure, then keep movin. If your a great guy, that is irrelevant.... ;)P.S. I work nights, just because I check my messages at night does NOT MEAN I'm here for booty calls or inappropriate conversation.. Dont waste either of our precious time! Thanks.. The management:) Coffee, a drink, something casual... a compromise:)

  • Nancey

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love spending time with my child. I LOVE LAUGHING AND SEEING OTHER PEOPLE LAUGH. There is so much in life to be greatful for and its all the simple things that matter. My goal in life is to be the best mom I can be. I"m a creative person and thats why I like doing haiR. I like making other people feel good and look happy. I like 80"s music and dancing along to the music. I'm a great mom and I love being a mom and have alot of love to give. First date needs to be simple. Something where I cantalk and get to know someone.

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