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Rheanna, 44

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About Me

I think a couple can be total opposites and not have hardly anything in common, one can be a health junkie while the other a junk food junkie. One can be a professional, the other unemployed or a waitress in a small family owned diner. Both may have different beliefs, different likes and dislikes, and difference in opinions but still be the best of friends, the best lovers, and even soul mates. So when someone says "we have/don't have a lot in common" I take that with a grain of salt. Because I believe it's not only about what you have in common but it's about the differences you're willing to accept and deal with. It's the differences that makes a person unique and who they are. For me, if I'm physically attracted I look at how we connect on an emotional level, how someone makes me feel, the things they say and do, as well as the things they don't. It's not about how much someone is like myself, it's about how different they are from anyone else. It's the little things that a person brings to my spirit that mean the most. I go on a date to see if we connect or if there's energy vibes there and I simply ask questions because I'm interested in you and who you are and for conversation. Having things in common is only a bonus but some of the best relationships are those that you would think would never work because the couple are so different. Opposites do attract and that's a fact. Real love comes without reason. It's a feeling that someone possesses upon you. It just is.... If you have a reason for loving someone, you don't really love them, you like them. If you have reasons for loving someone, then you are using your mind, but if you love someone for no reason, then you are using your heart... Maybe some people don't find they're perfect match because they don't give the not so perfect a chance. Maybe they're looking for all the wrong reasons. Just my own little drawn out opinion for those that are seeking commonalities. My hobbies are playing with my little girl, spending time in the kitchen, and of course shopping. I like fishing, watching football and nascar, taking walks, going for rides to no where, and snuggling on the sofa to watch a movie. I'ld like to find a job that I actually enjoy. My favorite food is spaghetti. I like all music but I'm a country girl so I listen to more country. I do have a southern drawl in my accent. I love to take photos of things. I'm down to earth, out going, good hearted and love to joke and play. I'm also sentimental and cry during a touching or sad movie. I tend to think of others first. I love animals and children. I've wasted all of my love life on dishonest cheaters with no clue what relationship means, who think the word love means a hill of beans, and don't know what they've got till it's gone. I'm a real woman and I want a real man. Well fellas that's me in a nut shell. ;-) First date. We don't have to do anything special. Just sit and talk and focus on getting to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I thought this site might be a good way to meet some new people, maybe make some new friends or something more! I'm not looking to jump head-first into something serious, rather to start off casual and if it's there then it will progress naturally. Some of the more important characteristics I am looking for are honesty, a good moral compass and family values, sense of humor (mine can be dry/sarcastic but I can take it as well as I dish it out!), intelligence, and the ability to just have a good time!!! Physical attraction is important as well, but that doesn't mean looking like a model...and I'm more interested in what your profile says than your shirtless self-photos taken in the mirror anyway! But please be taller than me...it's the only physical characteristic I require. I am not interested in anyone who is playing games or brings drama with them...I've done my time with that! (FYI...kids do NOT equal drama, I have no problems with meeting someone who is a dad!) I like sports (Mets/Jets fan...keep your negative comments to yourself!...LOL!), love going to baseball games, going to the track to watch horse racing, playing poker, skiing, fishing, dining out, drinks at a bar (no clubs!), road trips to anywhere, or just staying in & watching a movie, playing a board game or cards, enjoying a home cooked meal and a bottle of wine, just spending time with a quality someone. It's more about who you're with than what you do that determines if it can be a good time. I'll try just about anything once so if you have other interests that are important to you I'd be willing to give them a try! My family & friends are a very important part of my life...too many people I know lose touch with their friends when they enter a new relationship, but mine will be a part of my life forever...and maybe you'll get to meet them one day! Something out of the ordinary and fun, where the opportunity to talk is there but short enough that if there isn't a mutual interest we're not stuck with each other for hours...and if it's going well we can always find something else to do!

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ***I just wanted to add that I am looking from someone who is close in age to me, who is white and who does not want more children. Not to exclude anyone but these are deal breakers for me. Sorry. I know I'm no Jennifer Aniston but I am pretty, smart and have a wicked sense of humor.Even though dating was much easier when I was younger, I do not want to be in my 20s again. I have been so blessed in my life to have been able to travel and experience so many things. But as with most things in life, it all came at an expense. I have put my career ahead of everything else for a very long time, and now I want a more balanced life.I am fun and outgoing with a sarcastic sense of humor. I am a very focused person but I am very fun. Work hard, play hard. I enjoy spending time with them and we have lots of family events. I love to cook, and to go out to dinner. I like trying new things and new experiences. I enjoy being with friends and also, quite nights at home.This may sound a little dorky but I love learning new things. I am currently working on my PhD in Public Policy. Not sure if I will ever do anything with it but I love reading and learning new things. I am full of useless knowledge. I would be lost without google and wikipedia. LOL. I am interested in a long term relationship, I love kids but I have no intention of having any kids myself. It is awesome if you have kids.I'm looking for someone who wants to have fun and enjoy life and is open to seeing where things might go

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