SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Jade
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Hello there! I am new to online dating, and so feel very much like a fish out of water. I have a few friends who were successful using sites like this, so I thought I would give it a shot. So, here goes...I have two children, ***½ (the ½ is very important) and one 5. The three of us practice Taekwondo, and absolutely love it. I also train in Krav Maga (yes, I secretly pretend I am a ninja or a super spy). I am an outgoing, active, and competitive individual. I am pretty direct (not in a rude way) and transparent, though I have a sensitive side. You will never wonder what I am thinking or feeling. I am quick to smile and I love to laugh. So, a bit of bantering and witty comments goes a long way with me. I love to cook and eat just about any type of cuisine, and love to share it with others. I have been in sales for over 14 years, and it is absolutely my calling. I am focused on my career, however I realize it is just a job. I don’t play games, and I appreciate honesty, integrity, and transparency in others. I also very much appreciate chivalry (a little goes a long way) and people who are not afraid to openly show how they feel about someone (this goes for friends too). If you say you're going to do something I expect you will do it, and I hold myself to those same standards. I believe mutual respect, lots of communication, trust, and being faithful are key to a healthy and successful relationship. Also humor....laughter is really important, in fact I can't live without it. :-)My ex and I have an amicable relationship (no drama). The kids are number one priority for both of us, and so we focus on making sure they know that. My ideal man doesn't necessarily need to have children, but he must be good with kids. I am very involved in my kids' lives, so I would eventually want you to be involved in their lives too. Likewise, I would want to be involved in your children(s)' lives, and I would treat them with the same respect and kindness that I would expect mine to receive from you.I am looking for someone who will become my best friend, my lover, and everything in between. I truly believe you are out there somewhere, and I can't wait to meet you. :-) This is a tough one, because it really depends on who I am with. I'd say the best first date is one that was originally intended to be a quick cup of coffee or glass of wine, but turned into hours of talking and laughing.
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Elva
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
camping fishing walking in the park love to listen to music.No booty call no friendship with benefits not me so if thats what you are looking for keep looking ..... If you want date and get to know each other and you like what you see then hit me up If you give me your # and i haven't heard from you in 5 days then your # will be deleted ... figure it out as we go
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Maya
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a single mom with three kids. I have been divorced for almost nine years and single most of those. I am finally at the point that I have the time and energy to put into a worthwhile relationship. I am looking for someone to be my partner in life. I know how to communicate and am not afraid of my feelings. I am a tell it like it is kind of a woman.That being said, Gentlemen - judge though you may, if you see yourself in any of the items listed below please move on. If you think about it logically, I am sure all of you have a similar list. These are my preferencesopinions, whatever you would like to call them. I don't think I'm better than any one of you, I'm simply trying to avoid wasting anyone's time - yours and mine. 1. You smoke 2. You are more than a social drinker 3. You have or plan to have a motorcycle 4. You are very conservative or very republican 5. You enjoy watching anything or anyone beat the s**t out of each other for sport (MMA, UFC, etc.) 6. You enjoy hunting and-or consider hunting putting food out and laying in wait (I do like to fish) 7. You love country music, two stepping, etc. 8. You are very religious (regardless of your religion) 9. You own several firearms and-or carry one when you are out and about10. You are intimidated-threatened by a woman who has opinions and knows what she wants ** (not that I think I'm always right - I love a good discussion-debate)11. You think-believe that all men are superior to, smarter than, etc. women OR that a woman is supposed to complete you**ATTENTION MEN OFFENDED BY THE LIST ABOVE** Not being stuck up, snobby, picky, ****y, or any of the other VERY nice words I have been described as in your countless *** waste both of our time. Thank you for those (sarcasm font). I'm looking for a partner, someone to share my life with, not someone who does his own thing while I do mine. Just a little food for thought so your brain doesn't immediately kick into retaliation mode for something you read that you didn't like. :)More about me:I am educated and intelligent (no, they aren't the same thing - if you think they are .....).I am quick witted and have a great sense of humor that tends to be on the naughty side.I am practical, logical, and frugal.I am honest and will tell you things even if you don't want to hear them. I despise, detest, and refuse to have anything to do with liars and game players.I can't stand stupidity, and there is entirely too much of that in the world today!I am responsible, respectful, and considerate of all others, at times to a fault.I am passionate and know there has to be chemistry in addition to a good foundation.I have a strong work ethic and have worked hard to get where I have in life.I appreciate the little things.I am happy with my life and what the future holds, I do however severely miss intelligent adult conversation. I am not looking for someone to support me or my kids. I take care of us just fine. "Am I really asking for too much?": This refers to what I really want and hope to find here: A man that is my best friend and biggest advocate. A man that is witty and can keep up with my back and forth but knows it is all in good fun - he can dish it out as well as he can take it. And while I am sure this will bring me a variety of unwanted ***, I want a man that I have amazing chemistry with. A man that will want me just as much and as often as I want him. I want a man that I get excited about seeing even when we are old and gray because I still want him just as much.So, am I really asking for too much? First meetings are different than first dates. Definitely depends on the person. We can talk about it. ;-)