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Jon, 45

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About Me

I would like to find someone that will start out as friends. I've been hurt in the past so trust is a big thing for me. You must be trustworthy and honest. Im shy to start with but will open up after I get to know someone a lil better. I'm a single parent of 3 girls. They are now 21, 16 & 12, I have raised them by myself and am proud of how they are growing up to be beautiful young women. Now I feel its time to find someone to be in my life for me. I like to do several things like cooking out, going to demo or dirt track races, tractor pulls, watch nascar, go to baseball games. I like lots of different music, watching movies, reading. I spend a lot of time going to watch my girls in their band concerts & competitions during the school year. They keep me busy. I do put my kids first in a lot of things but am finding I have a lot of weekends free when they are off doing their own social things with friends.As I stated above I am shy to start, once you get to know me I can be sarcastic, funny and love to laugh. I am big hearted and willing to help out someone if I can (or you could say pay it forward). I will speak my mind if I feel I have been wronged. I am independent, stubborn, impatient and sometimes insecure. I will admit an apologize if I am wrong. I'm NOT perfect but I AM perfect for someone out there.I think this quote fits me. I'm selfish, impatient and a lil insecure. I make mistakes. I am out of control and hard to handle at times. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ I do sin, but not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love. ~ Thanks for checking out my profile and hope I hear from you. Just something simple. I like to go for a drink. I'm not a coffee drinker; but a glass of sweet tea, a soda, a glass of wine or c¤cktail (to settle the nerves) is always good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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