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Shanell, 45

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About Me

I'm looking for someone who will be honest about what they want and tell me, don't try to make me guess or hint around. Sometimes I want to stay home and do nothing, sometimes I want to go out, have a few drinks and dance all night. Maybe some hiking or a day at the beach, walks on the waterfront, lunch at Saturday Market or a farmers market. Spend the evening eating in the back yard and drinking wine, watching the sun go down while we talk for hours. Preferably something simple like meeting for a cup of coffee. There's nothing worse than being locked into 2 hours for dinner with someone you know you're not interested in after 5 minutes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Laurinda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Lol. If you don't have pics up, I will NOT talk to you. And why do you guys put "athletic" when you're just bloated & fat? Or "average" when you're clearly obese? Pics don't lie and no amount of Tapout or Affliction gear camouflages that. I'm learning that loud bravado on a man is a cover for being a huge vagina. If I don't respond to your ***, I'm not interested. Please don't keep *** over & over. If I'm interested, you'll know. My saying thank you in response to an *** is not indicative of interest on my part. If you have "wanting to date but nothing serious" or something to that effect on your profile, I will not respond to messages. I AM looking for something serious. I'd like to get married again if I meet the right guy & want a serious relationship that will lead to that eventually. Thank you. Humility turns me on more than anything. If you're looking for a fwb, **** buddy, or a hook up, I'm the wrong girl for you. I tend to get bored pretty easily & usually take it out on my hair, as you can see in my pics. I'm pretty significantly tattoo'd (none that can't be hidden easily) and have 4 piercings; 3 of which are in my ears and I'll let your mind run wild guessing where the other is, which ***of you will guess wrong. I am very open minded. I love all music except country. Plain & simple, I wanna love someone & someone to love me. That's all. Dinner, some sort of friendly, competitive game i.e. pool, bowling, etc

  • Patti

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    im a open,honest and out going 41yr old widow who has not been out in the dating world for a long time.i dont want any drama!life is to short to be dealing with crap.i have three grown children all in college or school,who are my world.i enjoy long drives to nowhere,the beach,loud rock n roll,my dogs,nice dinners, cooking,hicking in the woods, camping.im not your typical 41 yr old widow,i go out to play pool and have a drink,i have tattoes and piercings,and im very independent with a fiesty streak.i want a man who can handle that.i love big dogs,big trucks and big men so i sound like someone you are interested in let me now.no drama or games please!!!!!!!! my ideal first date would be dinner and conversation,afterword maybe a walk or drive ,or just a cup of coffee.i think dating is over rated and people dont talk and get to know each well enough these days.

  • Stasia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    HelloI never know what to when asked to describe myself, so here goes nothing.. I'm a single mom of a 13yr old daughter and grandmother of 2 absolutely adorable monsters and great aunt to I don't know how many. I'm family oriented, love my kids dearly and will do anything for them. I am fun to be around, have a dry sense of humor. I love to laugh. I like being honest, kindhearted, supportive, and many other things. I don't like lies, games, or general bs. I'm the kind of girl who likes to barefoot at home in comfy clothes though I will put on a pretty dress and heels for a night out. Not really into the bar scene. A nice dinner and slow dancing is more my speed now. I love to listen to most genres of music though classic rock and the 80's hold a part of my heart. Movies are the same. Favorites are from the 80's, chick flicks, action, fantasy, and Sci Fi. TV it's crime dramas, AFV, Wipeout, COPS. My tastes vary depending on what appeals to me at the time.I enjoy hanging out at home with family and friends, cooking, bbq's, camping, fishing, snuggling on the couch watching a movie, going to the ocean and getting crazy with go karts, road trips with no set destination, going to the mountains and playing in the snow, window shopping in historic areas, daydreaming, stargazing, thick comfy socks, soft flannel shirts, being held for no reason other than just because, watching football or baseball on TV or at the stadium. Soccer has to be watched live on the field. I love a good argument that has a valid point. A equal exchange of beliefs and opinions. The kind of man that I see myself with is a kind, gentle man. Supportive, faithful, generous, loving, enjoys holding hands, soft kisses. Someone who would be my best friend, lover, and keeper of my heart. A man that I can talk to, who respects my opinions and beliefs. The first date is easy for me to say.. Coffee at a local place.. That way if we get along we can go out for lunch or dinner.. Nothing stressful.. Just lowkey...

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