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Shanell, 45

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About Me

I'm looking for someone who will be honest about what they want and tell me, don't try to make me guess or hint around. Sometimes I want to stay home and do nothing, sometimes I want to go out, have a few drinks and dance all night. Maybe some hiking or a day at the beach, walks on the waterfront, lunch at Saturday Market or a farmers market. Spend the evening eating in the back yard and drinking wine, watching the sun go down while we talk for hours. Preferably something simple like meeting for a cup of coffee. There's nothing worse than being locked into 2 hours for dinner with someone you know you're not interested in after 5 minutes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nedra

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Life is to short, Laugh when you can, apologize when you should and let go of what you can't change. Love deeply and forgive quickly. - There is so much to do and see. I prefer activity apposed to sitting at home on the couch, but, I am not apposed to weekend marthons in my pajamas and watching a bunch of great movies. I do have family close by and we visit often. Family is important to me and I personally couldn't live with out mine. I have two wonderful baby nieces, a sister and a of course my mom and we all keep eachother on our toes daily. I am not a person who is crazy about bars or having to be somewhere on a friday night. I love taking long drives to the mountains, taking pictures, going to the park, bikes rides, and I love animals, so if you have a few that is cool with me. Lastly, it's always forever refreshing watching the stars with some wine and some good company, but to me, anything can be fun if your in good company. I have been with my employer for 8 years and all I cant say is, I dont have many days where I wake up and don't want to go in. I am lucky to love my job.Love...Why do people make this so hard? Just be honest in what you are looking for and you will find it. Am I totally weird in thinking that it seems old fashioned to meet a person with a few morals left these days? I don't mean a holy roller, Why is everyone in such a big hurry about it all? It’s not a race. Slow down and get to know a person, maybe enjoy the moment a little. You don't know me and aren't going to in one week.. lol.. I might be the tiniest bit old fashioned, but I do have some diginity and I am not looking for an overnight love connection that fizzles out as fast as it started. I would love to meet someone who takes pride in themselves and values themself as a person who is worth something special and not willing to just take anyone for sake of "just having someone". It's not easy meeting someone who fits “your everything”, but you have to unfortunately kiss a thousand frogs as they say, until you find that one. They are out there, I promise you. If I don’t answer your message don’t take it personally, just keep trying to find the right one that fits for you.Some last thoughts..Some last things to know. I am smart, we are all smart right?? very silly at times, but a well-adjusted person that loves to have fun. I have my own home, I support myself just fine and I am not looking for a sugar daddy or anyone to take care of me in any way other than to get to know me and hopefully be a great person in my life. I don't want someone to change me or me them. I love ME just the way I am and if you fit into my life, I will love you for you and not for what you have or make or do. I do have some personal turn on's and turn off's. Turn off's are excessive facial hair and gross teeth.. sorry but I would be lieing if I dragged you on a date and then hated those things about you. I don't have any animals but I plan to in the future so my potential someone should also have a fondness and respect toward animals. I love the outdoors and being in fresh air, I don't care if it's tootleing around town, garage saleing or shopping, I like just being out an about especially if it's nice outside. Well this could go on forever so if you have any questions going on just ask away. I hope your ***rocks and you find love!My best to all,Carie No pressure, just chatting and saying hello would be a good place to start over a little dinner or nice walk.

  • Joana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi.I'm happy-go-lucky and I smile a lot. A sense of humor is greatly appreciated. I enjoy listening to music (at home, on the radio or at a concert). I love and listen to a variety of music from Top 40 to Hip Hop to Rap to Rock to Country music. I enjoy dancing. I love watching movies (at home or at the theater). I love to travel. I'm sure I'll be visiting SoCal often to see friends and family. Trips to Vegas will also be in order. I'm looking forward to finding hiking trails to go on an adventure with my dogs. I'm excited about snow skiing too. I have 2 small dogs. I love kids. I'm looking for that person that makes me a better person. I'm looking for my best friend.=) Life is good! :)Good luck in your adventures! Just a casual meetup at a yogurt place.

  • Shelomith

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    All I need is one decent guy! But damn that's hard to find! I'm a tiny but tuff, free spirited gal! Never boring and I don't do well just sitting around unless it's by a campfire. I'm ready to find a great guy to share my life with but I will date my way to him! My pictures are current and you won't be in for a surprise when you meet me. I expect the same of you!I don't mind being the first to say hello, but hey don't be shy I won't bite! Most of us are here for the same thing: finding "the one" it's easy to lose sight of that and get caught up in the drama. It's enchanting to be wanted by so many... And the what ifs can drive us to a never ending series of first dates! I'm looking for my last first date! I wear my heart on my sleeve and I say what I mean. Have fun fishing! Use a line not a net! Lets just have fun!

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