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Eartha, 42

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About Me

I am looking for someone to share my time with, get to know and build a relationship with. I am not into playing games...I want to spend my time with someone who is serious about getting to know each other and see if we want to build on that. All I ask for is honesty...if you don't like me or don't think we are a good fit, tell me!!! I am a big girl and can handle it!! Ok, enough of that!! I enjoy going out to see bands, go bowling, play pool at some dive bar. Looking for a partner who enjoys staying in, cooking dinner together and enjoys a glass of wine while talking about our day together. Conversation and communication are very important to me. Those sound like the same thing but they are not, 2 people can have a conversation and never really communicate their feelings. Cuddling on the couch watching a movie is always fun! I enjoy all kinds of music..mostly country. Like to go and listen to live music, be it at a concert or some dive bar. Always more fun with a partner!!! I have 2 boys who mean the world to me. I am not looking for a father for them, they have one. But I do want to spend time with someone who likes kids and likes to include them in activities occasionally. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy adult alone time, but they are a huge part of my life and they aren't going anywhere! I am not looking for perfection, heck, I am not perfect! What I am looking for is that person that is perfect for me..I know he is out there somewhere...could it be you?? :-) A casual meeting at a coffee house or even a restaurant for a drink and conversation. Take time to get to know each other and see if there is a connection!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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