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Zena, 36

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About Me

I'm the blonde, the brunette is spoken for. :)I'm in a place in life where I choose to be happy and I choose someone who's happy to share it with. I am looking for someone who lives in the present, we all have baggage from our past but I'm looking for someone who isn't still carrying it around. I would love to find someone that will go hiking, cycling and camping with me. I'm not super athletic or great at any of these but I do enjoy being active outdoors and find myself doing more and more of it. I am kind, loving, loyal, and candidly honest to a fault. I can also be impatient, sensitive, and strong-willed. What can I say...I'm human. I am usually a very positive person, and when I'm down I don't stay down for long, but I'm not perfect, and I don't pretend to be. The way I see it is, I have nothing to lose by being myself, someone is either going to like me or they wont, but if I pretend to be someone that I'm not then eventually that other person will figure it out and we both lose.We all have an idea of what it is we are looking for in another person, however, I really prefer not to limit myself by trying to put it neatly into a box. I have never fallen for a guy because he fit my idea of my perfect man, ever. It's about chemistry that evolves into friendship, intimacy, and those little idiosyncrasies and quirks that you find endearing them.***Disclaimer: I am 41 years old, not 35. “We are all a little weird and life is a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” Dr. Suess A great first date would be a low key, low pressure type activity. Skip dinner and a movie...besides being cliche' and pricey for the guy, both people are too nervous to really eat and the whole point of a first date is to talk and get to know each other...the purpose is defeated in a movie theater. A walk in the park, if you both want to continue then you can go to dinner. Or even better...bring an easy picnic to the park. Something simple. Save the WOW factor for the person you want a second date with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pura

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I enjoy camping,going to the Beach, playing in the desert with land and water toys, and watching movies. I love taking road trips. For the most part my life has been pretty good. I have had life changing things happen in my life that have made me the strong women I am. I am pretty easy going, and try not to stress about the little things. I love a good joke and like to laugh. I think one of the best qualities you can have is honestey. Family is very important to me. I will be starting a nursing program in the fall. I hope to do work with terminally ill, or special needs children. I Love all music. I am just now am starting to enjoy country.

  • Wanita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. Family is very important to me, and I would like someone who holds their family as an important aspect in their life too. I'm pretty quiet until you get to know me, but once you do, I can be quite the chatty Kathy. I wouldn't say I'm shy, but more reserved. When at home you'll often find me curled up on the couch reading a good book. I also love the ocean and taking long drives to the mountains. I love to camp but haven't gone in a long time. I don't watch a lot of tv but when I do you'll find a comedy/drama/sci-fi show on. I am NOT a fan of reality shows or anything like Desperate Housewives. I love to cuddle and watch movies. I am a horrendous poker player because I can't hide the grin on my face when I have a good hand! I love to play games (the board kind not the head kind) LOL!!! I love pretty much all types of music, but I hold a special place in my heart for the 80's.I've worked in the retail/customer service industry for over 20 years, but last year I made the decision to go back to school. I am currently working towards a BA in psychology. I have been a foster parent in the past, and would like to continue working with children in foster care once I am done with my schooling.I am big on communication and honesty.If we meet and your not into me then be honest and tell me. I'm also not a part time or when you have time girl, so if your idea is going out once every 3 to 4 weeks then it probably won't work out. I understand that people are busy with life and careers but how can you get to know someone if you never see them? I strongly believe that you get what you give. I'm willing to give it 110%!!! Are you??? I'm pretty easy going and it doesn't have to be extravagant, but it must be somewhere public at first.

  • Hyon

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Mother of 2 boys, love to volunteer with the Bully Rescue & Safe kids USA. Family is the most important thing to me. I try and enjoy my free time with friends & family doing whatever & going anywhere. Know the 3 C's;You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change....Must be able to keep a conversation either by ***, text or phone. If we have to many of the awkward pauses then we're probably not gonna go far. I maintain a pretty calm demeanor, very practical, however I am not afraid to laugh at myself, I tend to be silly and sassy at times. Have a great sense of humor. You will 99.9% of the time see me always smiling and happy. And no I don't take the happy pills. I've been through and seen enough to know that I am blessed everyday with my boys and my family that expressing it with a simple smile is all I need. And that smile can be contagious and make someone else's day better. If you'd like to know more don't be scared to ask. Have nothing to hide, I'm not shy. So best of luck on your fishing trip. Well let's start with a simple meet n greet and if that goes good we can plan the actual first date.

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