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Velma, 39

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About Me

I'm a unique dichotomy of athletic (7x Ironman finisher!) yet feminine, romantic yet sensual, I'm outgoing and comfortable in a room of strangers yet looking for the attention of just 1 special someone, honest yet playful and sarcastic all rolled up in 1 vertically challenged girl who loves to smile and laugh!You DONT HAVE TO be a triathlete, show me what YOU like to do!I always try to find the bright-side of things. My best friend tells me that not only is my glass always half-full, but it's usually overflowing. I can find the joy in the little things; like singing along to a great song, sharing an amazing conversation over a glass of wine, listening the rain and watching a great comedy. A few random things; I'm a terrible speller, don't eat beef or cheese. I grew up back east but don't have an accent....well there are a few words :)Interesting fact....I can go from a trail to showered and dressed for a night out in 20 minutes! No waiting around for this girl! I'm also always on time.I'm looking for a partner, a gentleman, a romantic, someone who enjoys a great cuddle on the couch. You must have a sense of humor or you will not understand my sarcasm. :) Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. First date.....full of laughter and smiles.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tama

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I would like to start off by saying I'm very easy to get along with..I always see the good side of every situation..if you have a bad day you can always stop and start over..I love the ocean, hanging out with friends, movies, playing piano, camping, making people laugh..Hope to one day find my soul mate to grow old with to love me just for who I am ;-) Surprise. Me..

  • Shandi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First and foremost I want a friend, someone who embodies the parts of me that I am lacking in, and still has some commonality with me. I don't know how else to do this but to date, and then hope something comes of it. Right now I am in the building phase. It is a slow process.I like honesty, creativity of any kind, culture, history --especially Celtic History, but I will take what I can get. Please be liberal leaning with intellectual skills, compassion, and be able to be engaged and available to other people you are around. Gay Friendly, not too judgmental, and fairly open-minded would be nice also. Please no African American Men. I'm simply not attracted to you, sorry,I'm sorry but due to rude short messages, I expect you to meet the character limit with some sensible English if you wish to impress me AND message me here.Conservative Christians need not apply. I am an Irish Pagan. Atheists and Agnostics welcome.I dislike egotism and self-righteousness of any kind. Even my own. ;)I have a bit of fire in me. I am an Aries and of Irish descent. I burn bright occasionally, but it is over quickly if the flames are not fanned unnecessarily --and sometimes I can be guilty of that, i admit it: it is a work in progress. ;)I love history and ancient, modern culture, and travel. I also like computer and video games, at the opposite end of the spectrum. I am over the whole 'dating bar scene'. I prefer places with a little culture to them: pubs or quaint bars some such thing; small cafes.I love food, both to try to cook it and to eat it. I am only a moderately decent cook myself, but I like to experiment. I love to eat a wide variety of things including: Japanese cuisine, especially sushi, Thai, Greek, Middle Eastern, etc. I am a brave eater to say the least.I like most alternative/goth stuff from the 90's, some jazz/blues, big band, swing, rock-a-billy, Celtic Traditional Music (Mostly Irish), and a little bit of classical. I'm not a big top 40 fan, or a big fan of country or rap/r&b. There are some exceptions to every rule.I read mostly sci-fi and fantasy, although generally unknown female writers. I like yoga long walks in beautiful places. I dislike most sports, and am not into extreme activities of any kind --you go right ahead.I am looking for someone who likes to laugh and joke; quick witted and comfortable in their own skin. Someone is comfortable hanging out at home and cooking and watching movies, with occasional trips out during the week. A true unappreciated geek who is looking for a quasi-hip (in her own mind because she has a piercing and a tattoo) girl who is independent and will tell you exactly what she thinks.I dislike people who do not follow through, or tell you what they think you want to hear, *** being honest. Lay it on me, I can take it. I can't promise you will like my answer but life is too short to not say what is on your mind. Coffee or a happy hour drink is more than fine. We should generally know within a half hour to 45 minutes whether we like each other or not. The second date is better for a casual dinner. NO MOVIES. I can think of nothing less exciting than spending a lot of money to sit in a dark enclosed space with someone I don't know, and can't talk with to get to know. ;)

  • Nicolasa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    - in every facet possible. I do a little of everything imaginable. I try to learn everything I can. There's a long list of things I'd like-to/will do, but I'm happy with what I'm currently doing. That's pretty vague - so here's the more-descript version: Im musical, I'm a techie, I'm a dork, I'm a social flutterby, I'm a nature-lover/adventurer, I'm overly-creative...I love life and find beauty and fun in everything. What I Do I have lived a very colorful life - a very full life. I'm trying to settle it down a bit and enjoy a slower pace with my little mini-me. She's awesome - and I'm not saying that simply because I'm biased. "Little A" has come through more in her 1 year of life than most face in their entirety.-mom; dad is not around. There is not really any drama there & little one is with me 100% of the time. I do it all on my own and I feel completely spoiled that I get this little amazing person all to myself. I'm stable, I have a very awesome job. I'm blessed that my mom can watch A while I work...and I wish I could get paid as much as I do to work part time so I could have more time with her. I'm fascinated with how quick she's growing already and watching her learn. She's hella-smart and a complete little sponge! So obviously, if you want to get to know me, you must be kid-friendly. Otherwise, For non-working time, I love being outside...as does the munckin...in the fall, we both (yes her included) LOVE football RAWR!! Basically, any random adventures. I volunteer locally for charity events - usually playing music - usually military/service-related events. Because of little one's "adventures", we also do a few things for Children's or anything heart-related. I also donate all of my old phones to women's/homeless charities. I'd like to start a musical group that plays on occasion at retirement homes....old 40's music. Something to make them smile. Skillz, I has them! I conquer anything I put my mind to. Seriously. I can learn any ***; I can pick up languages; I've spent the past 2 years learning networking stuff (which is what I do for work now); I can dance, sing, paint, draw, build-things, work out complex problems, mediate social problems between friends (or co-workers), pick a killer fantasy football team - and do it all in high heels and backwards. (More points if you get that reference) I'd say I'm pretty awesome at being "me". Movies: I own about ***dvds and could easily add more...I enjoy most genres.- Mindy Project, New Girl, &-9.....oh yeah, and FOOTBALL! Music: I love all music, but generally, my radio is on classical in the car - or country. I sing & play a mix of blues/indie/folk. LOVE bluegrass. Food: I'm a foodie. I love all foods (aside from fast-food which doesn't count as real food). I try to eat healthy - I believe in listening to your own body for the right diet - mine likes a pesce-vegan kind of diet. Less cheese/breads, more veggies/fruits/seafood. It's like I'm at the beach all the time! :D Couldn't-Live-Withouts: MusicFamily & FriendsThe oceanBooksSnuggle-time with munchkinGood food/wine. Inside My Head: There's a constant soundtrack in my head...it never stops. I also picture anything everyone says in cartoon version internally. Randomly, I'm pondering life, music, the beach, adventures with my munchkin, what my little munchkin is doing while I'm away from her...sleep.... You should message me if: 1) You have something interesting to say - if you want a response, I recommend something witty, funny, intelligent, and/or that I can't help but want to respond back to. I'm not going to respond back to "Hi, how are you." Here's your answer: "I'm great! Thanks for asking."B) You're equally awesome and fun/laid-back/exciting (yes, those can go together without complete paradoxical implications)...and looking for quality friendship & laughter.*-set to be a cabana boy, are independently wealthy, and show up with flowers. I'm probably not going to meet up with a random stranger after one conversation. Get to know me here, move to ***, etc. and then we can do something public and kid-friendly. I'm a single mom & munchkin is a year old....so if I'm important enough for you to get to know, you'll understand, respect, and work with this. ;-)

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