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Velma, 39

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About Me

I'm a unique dichotomy of athletic (7x Ironman finisher!) yet feminine, romantic yet sensual, I'm outgoing and comfortable in a room of strangers yet looking for the attention of just 1 special someone, honest yet playful and sarcastic all rolled up in 1 vertically challenged girl who loves to smile and laugh!You DONT HAVE TO be a triathlete, show me what YOU like to do!I always try to find the bright-side of things. My best friend tells me that not only is my glass always half-full, but it's usually overflowing. I can find the joy in the little things; like singing along to a great song, sharing an amazing conversation over a glass of wine, listening the rain and watching a great comedy. A few random things; I'm a terrible speller, don't eat beef or cheese. I grew up back east but don't have an accent....well there are a few words :)Interesting fact....I can go from a trail to showered and dressed for a night out in 20 minutes! No waiting around for this girl! I'm also always on time.I'm looking for a partner, a gentleman, a romantic, someone who enjoys a great cuddle on the couch. You must have a sense of humor or you will not understand my sarcasm. :) Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. First date.....full of laughter and smiles.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Della

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm an intelligent, funny, loving woman who is comfortable with the person I have become. I have a natural curiosity about life and the world around me. I have been described by friends as fun, quick-witted, adventurous, a little sarcastic but very thoughtful. I like to have fun (who doesn't) but I am an extremely trustworthy and loyal friend. I try to stay in shape and am often at the gym during the week. I love listening to music - any kind really - and especially enjoy live shows. I love to travel and explore and have been fortunate to see a good portion of the world. Food is an aphrodisiac for me - I love to cook for friends and experience new restaurants and new foods. I'm a good listener but don't mind debating issues that matter to me. I love to read and spend a lot of time outside with my dog at the dog park or walking around the city. I'm attracted to witty, ambitious, caring men. Someone who is honest, dependable, trustworthy with a large capacity for love. Someone who surprises me, but only sometimes, because you know that most of life is showing up and attending to the small stuff. Someone who is passionate, has good sense of humor, is educated, and shares some interests with me. Someone who likes sports, appreciates the special moments, has friends he treasures and his own goals and dreams and passions.I want a relationship where we like each other, lust after each other and love each other. Fights are rare but when we do get into them, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. A relationship with warm companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love.Timing is everything in life, and now is the time to enjoy life to the fullest. Care to join me? Meeting for a drink or a meal. Having *** and intellectual attraction with effortless conversation. I make you laugh and smile and you do the same to me. We forget we are on a first date. The date ends with plans to see each other again already in the works.

  • Merri

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a down to earth, open minded, fun girl...I LOVE sports!! Go Raiders, Warriors and A's!!! I enjoy concerts, festivals and exploring new restaurants. I like to be out and about, but I also enjoy staying home and just relaxing. I'm easy going, I'm not high maintenance, I like to have fun.....anything else you want to know just ask!!! ;)

  • Jeanelle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Kind, compassionate, charitable.Humanist, staunchly anti-theist.Casual style, comfortable shoes (literally).I love to travel but haven't been anywhere new in many years.I'm a terrible underachiever, but managed to get through some of the best schools in the country and almost to a PhD.I'm shy, but when stuff does come out of my mouth it's usually pretty funny.I like the rain and snow, truly. I dislike the sun and temperatures above 80.I like cities - the light and the height and the anonymity. But I like the country even more - the space, the lack of traffic, the winding, hilly roads that smell like pine trees and manure.I don't like the beach! I like the sound of the ocean though.I don't like staying up late. Nor do I like getting up early, but it happens more often than not. And I'm a fan of afternoon naps when I've worked hard or it's just hot out.I couldn't care less about the Lakers or the Dodgers, but go Galaxy!I don't really want any more babies. I don't think too highly of marriages either.I don't like soda. I like wine.I'm health-conscious and semi-vegetarian, but "I stay a bit overweight because it wouldn't be fair to all the skinny people if I were this attractive, intelligent, funny AND thin. It's a public service really."Other things you'll want to know: My 8-year-old son is with me three nights/week. I have a life and a big, spacious heart the other four nights/week. He has a wonderful father and I'm not looking for someone to take over that role.I have two dogs (the one in the pic is not mine) and two cats. If you have allergies, well, obviously you should consider whether you want to spend the rest of your life on Claritin before contacting me, because I can't imagine myself being happy without pets. Let's just go someplace quiet on say a Wednesday night for a good meal and craft ale. If you just want to meet over a coffee first, that's fine, I just don't consider that a "date".

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