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Lillian, 40

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About Me

I am a former Chef, so needless to say, I already have a relationship with food. Pending the right guy comes along, I am able to put my food relationship to the side unless, even better, you would like to join us! As much as I enjoy cooking, I also love to get dressed up and go out for a nice dinner, grab some tacos and a beer at one of the many great Taqueria's in the area or make some gourmet sandwiches to take to the beach.Though a rocker at heart, I like many types of music from rap to country. I probably know every lyric and have no problem singing it to you, just don't ask me the title or artist... that will have to be your job. I try to be a little edgy with my style. I think it keeps things interesting and fun. I am a single mother of 3 boys so I am not always allowed spontaneity. I put forth the effort and make the time to meet someone new, so all I ask is a respect for that time as I would respect yours. Quite honestly I would like to go out on dates and perhaps do things you or I or both of us have never experienced. What better way to get to know someone? It would be nice if the dating turned into something serious eventually, but I'm in no rush and I will certainly not settle for anything less than I deserve.Please have a sense of humor and don't judge me until you know me...and even then, you should maybe think twice. Thank you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zena

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm the blonde, the brunette is spoken for. :)I'm in a place in life where I choose to be happy and I choose someone who's happy to share it with. I am looking for someone who lives in the present, we all have baggage from our past but I'm looking for someone who isn't still carrying it around. I would love to find someone that will go hiking, cycling and camping with me. I'm not super athletic or great at any of these but I do enjoy being active outdoors and find myself doing more and more of it. I am kind, loving, loyal, and candidly honest to a fault. I can also be impatient, sensitive, and strong-willed. What can I say...I'm human. I am usually a very positive person, and when I'm down I don't stay down for long, but I'm not perfect, and I don't pretend to be. The way I see it is, I have nothing to lose by being myself, someone is either going to like me or they wont, but if I pretend to be someone that I'm not then eventually that other person will figure it out and we both lose.We all have an idea of what it is we are looking for in another person, however, I really prefer not to limit myself by trying to put it neatly into a box. I have never fallen for a guy because he fit my idea of my perfect man, ever. It's about chemistry that evolves into friendship, intimacy, and those little idiosyncrasies and quirks that you find endearing them.***Disclaimer: I am 41 years old, not 35. “We are all a little weird and life is a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” Dr. Suess A great first date would be a low key, low pressure type activity. Skip dinner and a movie...besides being cliche' and pricey for the guy, both people are too nervous to really eat and the whole point of a first date is to talk and get to know each other...the purpose is defeated in a movie theater. A walk in the park, if you both want to continue then you can go to dinner. Or even better...bring an easy picnic to the park. Something simple. Save the WOW factor for the person you want a second date with.

  • Francesca

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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  • Loree

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a once in a lifetime friend. I will stop the world if you matter to me. To know me is to love me... I'm stubborn.. Fight for the right and leave the wrong alone. What you got don't matter to me. Those who know me love me because I'm loyal and have a big heart. I make mistakes and I learn. I recognize my faults.. I'm open minded... LOOKING FOR.... Someone who appreciates me for who I am.. Someone who's confident and has goals in their life. Someone who's not judgemental... Because who are you to judge ? Someone who's GROWN ! I'm grown so I have no tolerance for drama or games.. I'm not good nor do I want to try and read between the lines so keep it real with me and I will do the same. Be creative. I hate boring!

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