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Lillian, 40

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About Me

I am a former Chef, so needless to say, I already have a relationship with food. Pending the right guy comes along, I am able to put my food relationship to the side unless, even better, you would like to join us! As much as I enjoy cooking, I also love to get dressed up and go out for a nice dinner, grab some tacos and a beer at one of the many great Taqueria's in the area or make some gourmet sandwiches to take to the beach.Though a rocker at heart, I like many types of music from rap to country. I probably know every lyric and have no problem singing it to you, just don't ask me the title or artist... that will have to be your job. I try to be a little edgy with my style. I think it keeps things interesting and fun. I am a single mother of 3 boys so I am not always allowed spontaneity. I put forth the effort and make the time to meet someone new, so all I ask is a respect for that time as I would respect yours. Quite honestly I would like to go out on dates and perhaps do things you or I or both of us have never experienced. What better way to get to know someone? It would be nice if the dating turned into something serious eventually, but I'm in no rush and I will certainly not settle for anything less than I deserve.Please have a sense of humor and don't judge me until you know me...and even then, you should maybe think twice. Thank you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Renae

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Serious suitors only! A little about me...I’m an honest, confident, loyal, fun-loving, independent, smart, silly, witty, playful, very passionate & affectionate woman. It may take a little time to reveal it all, but once I do you will know I have a huge heart. Did I mention....I LOVE to laugh and just have a good time, it matters who you're with, not where or what youre doing. Looking for my best friend and partner to share in this journey called life. I was raised in Orange County and have been here, ummm yea something like ***years, ok my whole life (minus the OC attitude)! If you're interested shoot me an e-mail. I refuse to let this site make me bitter towards online dating, so please know what you want out of a relationship and be honest, it all comes out in the end! ...and I'd rather not waste each others time. A first date....hmmmm. I think each that could depend on the person. Could be appetizers and a drink or it could be as simple as coffee. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Lyndsay

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im not for the timid, weak, mentally deficient, emotionally depraved or cerebrally limited, emotionally fearful or spiritually skeptical, or the people who worship outward looks to inner beauty. I have my own level of beauty, but Im pure GOLD inside.. so please do not have past relationship baggage, please be someone willing to try again..to examine your "demons" and not afraid to ask for my help.. because if you really want it, I will always give it to you.I do not compete with men, I seek a mutually admiration society... Im mature enough to know you can learn something from everyone and I hope they are open to learn from me. I don't want to "compete" with a man, Im not interested in tit for tat situations.I wish to live life with an all consuming PASSION and have you, my similar ilk, along for the ride.d. as "indigo", ";, "starseed" and similar. We are here to make the world a better place for having lived in it..to blast wide open the anachronistic man made dogma's of religious tyranny, we are here to explore and leave no stone unturned, fearlessly, breathlessly with grand gesture.I am without a doubt, very communicative, real, honest, intuitive, kind, direct, discriminating, shy, creative, adventurous, curious, highly energetic, romantic, loving, and OUTGOING. I love to meet new people, people with a vast sense of humor that ride the gamut from high brow to sardonic..I am a composite of various traits and characteristics but basically a good person, I love animals, I don't eat them. I detest violence. I know the Universe mirrors back to you elements that exist within you. If I met my soulmate.. I would not let them go.. I hope you're not so dumb that you let them go either. I am not fanciful though, I have many ways of ascertaining knowledge, particularly through my metaphysical pursuits, involving hypnosis and channeling. I seek my mirror images, but not to scare them away when I meet them, therefore it would behoove you to understand a great deal of what I write here.I am a healer.. psychologically.. energetically.. psychically. I channel constantly.. I have a great deal of stored music within my soul, waiting, contained, ready to get out and throw its luxurious coat of wonder upon the masses.I hope that you are fruitful in thinking and not afraid of positive change and self illumination. Those weaklings that are, will scatter.. I must reinterate, I am not like this, I STAY in a persons life, however, I CAN'T DO ALL THE WORK.. Give me a damn call, go out of your way for me.. However don't rush me to the phone. I am not that easily riveted. That is not the way to self actualization, to soul evolution. Why are you so scared.. drop kick your fears and reckon with me. I am an enhancement to anyones life.. and I hope you are fearless and appreciative enough to give me a try.People are wounded and lash out in fear, and I don't want to know any more people who are the last to know their own directives.I am against war, violence, guns, etc. hunting and fishing. I am no baby soul. Of course if faced with being killed, Id rather blow them away, but its a retarded society for having erected such a difficult system to begin with. I clean up after myself, I expect to be treated well, I expect people not to lie to me, I want to leave this world a better place for having shown up in it and you should too. Im extremely humorous, but very serious about my passions in life. I don't like being around closed minded, critical, condescending, crazy, dissatisfied people, manics or narrow minded people. Biggest pet peeves are critical people, flakes and those who promise who can't deliver. I think that the reason there are so many **** Lets visualize positive change to truly give "PEACE" a chance. Id also rather be around someone who has a great deal in common with me, than someone who barely does or does not at all. They aggravate me.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im in.my.40s. Noones perfect , I know my strength and flaws. Seek new friendships and activity partners with the right similarly inclined person. I take that SERIOUSLY! In fact if u have a female friend or relative looking for a good friend, and is similar to what Im looking for, by all means!!! Im more than open for that too. Im sure that's more what I would resonate to anyway.The above large paragraph is from my *** describes a great deal, so it encapsulates who I am.. please tell me who YOU are.

  • Rima

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm looking to meet new people... somebody new to go do stuff with would be fun! ...maybe even sneak out for a date once in awhile;)

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