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Alysa, 36

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About Me

Just moved out here from Cali. I believe that laughter is the best medicine and would love to meet someone who likes adventures. I love to laugh and believe that honesty and trust are a foundation to a great relationship. Can't seem to meet anyone on here with some values or morals...lol if ur looking for a one night stand keep moving don't leave me a message, I'm not interested...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Kylie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Dating should be fun, right? I don't know why we all make this so damn hard. People should just TRUTHFULLY break basic things down...it doesn't always have to be a game. So let's clarify a few things. First...the fact that my status does not say I am falling all over myself to meet some man and settle down and make babies does NOT mean I am looking for kinky secret sex. Don't message me asking for hookups. Second...NO, I don't want to see your penis!! They're usually ugly anyhow. Ick. Third...PLEASE...no one under 30. It's flattering in a kind of weird way......sorry! Telling me that I don't look "that old" isn't going to make a difference. I AM that old. I really doubt I am going to have much in common with a 25 yr old guy. But thanks for the compliment (I think).So now let's do this the easy way. The necessary stuff: I am a mother of 3 older children...one has autism. Autism is a **** but it hasn't killed me yet. If a man can deal with Autism, big points with me. BIG points. My kids have a FANTASTIC and very involved father so I'm not looking for anyone to raise them...but being nice to them is necessary. Because I have three kids, I am not looking for any more. That does not mean I don't want to date someone with kids...I LOVE kids. That means I don't want a GROWN 40 yr old child. Easy enough, right?A little about me: I am a fun person. I'm always told that I am a funny person. I enjoy a good time. I enjoy camping and spending time outdoors. Lately I have had the urge to get out and hike so if you like that...even better!!! Get my butt out there and let's HIKE! I like to listen to local bands and I love concerts. Love to travel? I'm your girl!!! I have a bucket list of places I want to go. As much as I can be a real sweetheart....I can also be a serious pain in the ass sometimes because I am very independent. I make my own money and I take care of myself so I don't need a "daddy" to watch over me. As you can probably tell, I am outspoken. I have never had a problem telling someone what I think. I am tall, blonde, blue eyes...I won't lie...I could lose weight. I am working on it but I'm not going to stress over it. I would rather be healthy and strong before anything else. I am attractive but you should probably not be bothered by "bigger girls" if you want to spend time with me. I have a big ass...ya better be an ass man. What I'm looking for:Honesty (dear God, HONESTY), someone with a work ethic that doesn't want to be saved...I don't want your money but I'm not EVER giving mine away again. Someone that can have a conversation that doesn't always revolve around his "glory days". I like a good trip down memory lane as much as the next person....but if you're living there...not for me. Someone that can deal with my occasional sass and think I'm awesome anyhow...cause really, I can be pretty damn awesome! Someone that can put up with my constant dreams and desires to go and experience LIFE! I'm the girl next door who never wants to get stuck in her neck of the woods....I want to EXPLORE :)See...easy and honest, lol. If reading through all that didn't leave you tired and shaking your head then I would love to hear from you. I am open to just about everything as long as it is public. I am a little cautious of new people and won't meet anyone anywhere private. Dinner is ok but not my favorite. Sometimes just getting a cup of coffee and going for a walk is an amazing time :)

  • Pia

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Im an outgoing person who enjoys laughing and making sure those around me are happy. I enjoy maintaining an active and healthy lifestyle which includes volunteer work, running, going to the gym, going to concerts (Ive been to ***so far),maintaining close relationships with my friends and family, travelling, camping and playing in the water. Im a positive and happy person, looking for the same.I am looking for someone with similar interests,who possesses a positive and fun personality... Someone whom I cant stop kissing.

  • Neta

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

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