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Neta, 38
United States, Georgia, Lithia Springs

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About Me

Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fishing Japanese Portuguese South American Bowling Soccer / Football
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