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Tonia, 39

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About Me

Lets try the ****y approach! The reality is I’m a normal woman who is happy with life but would like to enhance it with someone special. Im not here for head games and I don’t care about how many times you have been hurt in the past. I am willing to bet we have all been hurt at one point so move on! If your still bitter you likely are not ready for a dating site. I love to laugh and enjoy spending time outdoors, going to movies, travel, art, zoo’s and of course spending time with my family and friends. I am willing to spend time getting to know someone but honestly if you message me with “hi” that more than likely won’t get a response back don’t waste my time and I wont waste yours. I find it very funny that most are looking for true love yet few are willing to take a chance on someone different. Why bother writing a profile if you take a pass on the picture. Yes I do think there should be an attraction to a person but good god looks fade we cant all be 5’10’’ blond haired blue eyed bombshells. Besides if that is what you have dated in the past and are on here it seems it didn’t work out so how about trying something different, I am! If you don’t want to be judged solely on looks try not to do the same with me. Oh and one last thing... If I took the time to message you it is because this silly site matched us somehow... If you are not interested it would be wonderful if you could send me a message back saying "not interested". I swear I wont cyber stalk you or send a nasty note back.LOLThere is much more to write but I think I have said enough for now! Take care ! First date? It depends on the connection. If we click and hit it off great maybe a nice dinner where we can sit and chat and get to know each other better. If things are still a little shaky maybe someplace where we have a quick escape route like starbucks!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kylie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Dating should be fun, right? I don't know why we all make this so damn hard. People should just TRUTHFULLY break basic things down...it doesn't always have to be a game. So let's clarify a few things. First...the fact that my status does not say I am falling all over myself to meet some man and settle down and make babies does NOT mean I am looking for kinky secret sex. Don't message me asking for hookups. Second...NO, I don't want to see your penis!! They're usually ugly anyhow. Ick. Third...PLEASE...no one under 30. It's flattering in a kind of weird way......sorry! Telling me that I don't look "that old" isn't going to make a difference. I AM that old. I really doubt I am going to have much in common with a 25 yr old guy. But thanks for the compliment (I think).So now let's do this the easy way. The necessary stuff: I am a mother of 3 older children...one has autism. Autism is a **** but it hasn't killed me yet. If a man can deal with Autism, big points with me. BIG points. My kids have a FANTASTIC and very involved father so I'm not looking for anyone to raise them...but being nice to them is necessary. Because I have three kids, I am not looking for any more. That does not mean I don't want to date someone with kids...I LOVE kids. That means I don't want a GROWN 40 yr old child. Easy enough, right?A little about me: I am a fun person. I'm always told that I am a funny person. I enjoy a good time. I enjoy camping and spending time outdoors. Lately I have had the urge to get out and hike so if you like that...even better!!! Get my butt out there and let's HIKE! I like to listen to local bands and I love concerts. Love to travel? I'm your girl!!! I have a bucket list of places I want to go. As much as I can be a real sweetheart....I can also be a serious pain in the ass sometimes because I am very independent. I make my own money and I take care of myself so I don't need a "daddy" to watch over me. As you can probably tell, I am outspoken. I have never had a problem telling someone what I think. I am tall, blonde, blue eyes...I won't lie...I could lose weight. I am working on it but I'm not going to stress over it. I would rather be healthy and strong before anything else. I am attractive but you should probably not be bothered by "bigger girls" if you want to spend time with me. I have a big ass...ya better be an ass man. What I'm looking for:Honesty (dear God, HONESTY), someone with a work ethic that doesn't want to be saved...I don't want your money but I'm not EVER giving mine away again. Someone that can have a conversation that doesn't always revolve around his "glory days". I like a good trip down memory lane as much as the next person....but if you're living there...not for me. Someone that can deal with my occasional sass and think I'm awesome anyhow...cause really, I can be pretty damn awesome! Someone that can put up with my constant dreams and desires to go and experience LIFE! I'm the girl next door who never wants to get stuck in her neck of the woods....I want to EXPLORE :)See...easy and honest, lol. If reading through all that didn't leave you tired and shaking your head then I would love to hear from you. I am open to just about everything as long as it is public. I am a little cautious of new people and won't meet anyone anywhere private. Dinner is ok but not my favorite. Sometimes just getting a cup of coffee and going for a walk is an amazing time :)

  • Lyra

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I guess im just looking for someone who likes to ride motorcycle. Go to movies.lake.hangout.get lunch.anything..just tryin meet people.maybe friends for now but I dont want to be single forever. So a good guy for a long term relationship is open idea and prefered too.I'm not into players or married or seperated.just so were not wasting each others time with that topic.I'm pretty relaxed. For fun, go to movies, dancin, beach, mountains, 4wheel, ride motorcycles, or stay home, put on our own music or movies, or play xbox, etc. I can dress up to go out or relax at home.I do have a house, BS degree,job, car, truck,motorcycle,4wheeler etc.I do have 2 boys. Whoever i find,(most importantly) should be someone that likes kids, wants kids, and doesnt mind hanging out with me and my boys or your kids and feel comfortable around them.i have zero dad drama..he not in pic..his choice.not mine..THis being said, im not looking for booty from this site.I actually wanta meet a friend and maybe build relationship. Many options on a first date,Riding (of course) or..it could be dinner, movie, then dancing to relax alittle and talk and have fun.or stay home, put on music, movie, xbox, cuddle, or relaxed atmosphere, bbq, bonfire, talk by fire lite glowSomewhere we could walk or talk,kinda hate just sittin n staring if there no conversation lol

  • Yoselin

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I have been single for 2 yrs after a 14 year marriage. I am very content with myself and my life! I want to have fun and enjoy life! I am looking for someone to have fun with! I want someone to dance, movies, cuddling on the couch with a good movie and some popcorn , zip lining ... ect. LET'S BE SPONTANEOUS! Not looking for serious. But if it turns into that ok. Nice smile and teeth are a must! My life is together. I have a great job. I support myself. Not looking for someone to support me. Let's have fun! No pressure. Just enjoy the ride! My life is drama free! I prefer that in a guy! Distance isn't a factor to me.. up to 2 hours. Is it to you? If so, don't contact me. I want someone who compliments my work schedule. I work ***&***hr shift a wk. I have plenty of time and so should you! So if you work Monday - Friday. It won't work. ~BTW~ Please don't contact me if you don't have a picture. Thanks!!I don't date black guys.SAY Hi! :)

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