Cher, 38
Offline, last seen Thu, 18 Dec 2025 02:27:37
About Me
Relationship is: Not about AGE, Not about DISTANCE, Not about Communicating every moment of every day. What's more important is having TRUST & LOYALTY...The TRUST of girl to her man and the LOYALTY of man to his girl...Before you begin reading you should know...I often do NOT respond to profiles in which children are in the main photo...I'm sure you're all proud of your children and want them to be seen...I'm just not to keen on them being seen here. After all it is a dating site and not the face book! ;) If you're mentally depressed (I am not a pick me up), manic depressant, bi-polar or any other type of thing, we are probably are not a good fit. Indeed I have a great sympathy but have dealt with it more times than I care to admit. I have no need to help society in that manner. And please dudes...put some clothes on! ;)All around good girl...mother of two fantastically brilliant children, writer, author, substitute teacher, cheer-leading coach. As a writer you'd think something like this would be a breeze...not so. I am an avid gardener and nothing relieves stress more than digging in the dirt. I love children and have housed over a dozen children that do not belong to me b/c their parents didn't feel the need to raise them further. I'm very goal oriented as well as educated. I'm not looking for 'someone' just to take care of me...I do that pretty well on my own. The same goes for someone that is looking for me to 'take care' of them. I love butterflies and lying on the beach, big dogs and anything unique or 'weird'. I'm not into the bar scene and rarely get out due to me being a writer. I am presently starting a foundation for the deaf and have been doing so for the last year and a half. Hearing is a 'gift', should we not all be able to utilize it? I am NOT a ***kind of girl so if that's what you're into please proceed to the next profile...I value my time as much as the next person and have no desire to become joined at the hip. I love being in a relationship but do not want my life *** around someone else's goals and dramas. (No drama here, if you love the drama, please proceed!!) Shared goals are important but one must remain independent from being thrown into a rut in life.I am extremely honest and rude to a point. Rude only after you do not want to hear the truth, lol. Life is too short to 'candy-coat' and dance around how you feel. I am a tyrant in the defense of the 'underdog' and would give the shirt off my back for the greater good. My hobbies are extensive, i.e. gardening, writing, crocheting, cooking, sewing, drawing (My favorite medium is charcoal.)...yadda yadda...just your typical domestic goddess. There isn't anything that I can't do and if there were my children would say, "Then she'd only buy a book..." I can lay stone and brick as well as build an addition. I grow tremendous gardens and can as much of it as I can to feed the masses. I dig old cemeteries and adventuring into the dark unknown...playing baseball and football as well as cheering on my favorite team (The Pack) on television. I appreciate life and am grateful and thankful every day that I can put both of my feet onto the floor and stand and then...to hear the beautiful voices of my children. Grateful for everything that I am and for what I have and daily I remind myself that someone has it much worse than I ever have, it keeps me very grounded. My musical tastes are heavy metal and classical/symphony with Metallica, Chevelle, Tool and A Perfect Circle being on the top of the list. Not much into Rap/Country/R&B...if you are, great, I'm always willing to listen.I've met some amazing ppl through this site and some...well...not so amazing. LOL! If I've sparked an interest drop me a line, if not, I wish you all the luck in the world, and FYI I am not a 'booty' call and perverse messaging isn't appreciated. I'm just not that kind of girl (Well unless you've known me a long while!) :D Something relaxed and comfortable...I'm always down for a cup of hot tea and intriguing conversation.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Divorced
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Other
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
5'9"
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Eye color
Hazel
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Smoke
Yes, regularly
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS
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