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Cher, 38

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Relationship is: Not about AGE, Not about DISTANCE, Not about Communicating every moment of every day. What's more important is having TRUST & LOYALTY...The TRUST of girl to her man and the LOYALTY of man to his girl...Before you begin reading you should know...I often do NOT respond to profiles in which children are in the main photo...I'm sure you're all proud of your children and want them to be seen...I'm just not to keen on them being seen here. After all it is a dating site and not the face book! ;) If you're mentally depressed (I am not a pick me up), manic depressant, bi-polar or any other type of thing, we are probably are not a good fit. Indeed I have a great sympathy but have dealt with it more times than I care to admit. I have no need to help society in that manner. And please dudes...put some clothes on! ;)All around good girl...mother of two fantastically brilliant children, writer, author, substitute teacher, cheer-leading coach. As a writer you'd think something like this would be a breeze...not so. I am an avid gardener and nothing relieves stress more than digging in the dirt. I love children and have housed over a dozen children that do not belong to me b/c their parents didn't feel the need to raise them further. I'm very goal oriented as well as educated. I'm not looking for 'someone' just to take care of me...I do that pretty well on my own. The same goes for someone that is looking for me to 'take care' of them. I love butterflies and lying on the beach, big dogs and anything unique or 'weird'. I'm not into the bar scene and rarely get out due to me being a writer. I am presently starting a foundation for the deaf and have been doing so for the last year and a half. Hearing is a 'gift', should we not all be able to utilize it? I am NOT a ***kind of girl so if that's what you're into please proceed to the next profile...I value my time as much as the next person and have no desire to become joined at the hip. I love being in a relationship but do not want my life *** around someone else's goals and dramas. (No drama here, if you love the drama, please proceed!!) Shared goals are important but one must remain independent from being thrown into a rut in life.I am extremely honest and rude to a point. Rude only after you do not want to hear the truth, lol. Life is too short to 'candy-coat' and dance around how you feel. I am a tyrant in the defense of the 'underdog' and would give the shirt off my back for the greater good. My hobbies are extensive, i.e. gardening, writing, crocheting, cooking, sewing, drawing (My favorite medium is charcoal.)...yadda yadda...just your typical domestic goddess. There isn't anything that I can't do and if there were my children would say, "Then she'd only buy a book..." I can lay stone and brick as well as build an addition. I grow tremendous gardens and can as much of it as I can to feed the masses. I dig old cemeteries and adventuring into the dark unknown...playing baseball and football as well as cheering on my favorite team (The Pack) on television. I appreciate life and am grateful and thankful every day that I can put both of my feet onto the floor and stand and then...to hear the beautiful voices of my children. Grateful for everything that I am and for what I have and daily I remind myself that someone has it much worse than I ever have, it keeps me very grounded. My musical tastes are heavy metal and classical/symphony with Metallica, Chevelle, Tool and A Perfect Circle being on the top of the list. Not much into Rap/Country/R&B...if you are, great, I'm always willing to listen.I've met some amazing ppl through this site and some...well...not so amazing. LOL! If I've sparked an interest drop me a line, if not, I wish you all the luck in the world, and FYI I am not a 'booty' call and perverse messaging isn't appreciated. I'm just not that kind of girl (Well unless you've known me a long while!) :D Something relaxed and comfortable...I'm always down for a cup of hot tea and intriguing conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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  • Nicole

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a single mother of a 20 yr old daughter and a 14 yr old son. They are the lights of my life! I'm a Christian that puts God first in everything I do. I love to be outdoors specifically playing softball and volleyball. I guess just ask me anything I'm very open and honest. I'm very hardworking, love my family to pieces. Very much a people person. I love to laugh and make others laugh. Life is so much easier if you can laugh at yourself at times. Im not wanting a one night stand so if that's what your after please pass me up and move on to next one. I love surprises!!!

  • Love

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like to do many different things such as walking my dogs, hitting the gym, going to football & baseball games, festivals, ice skating, camping & traveling. I also enjoy movies, comedy clubs, live music and going downtown. I like to dance occasionally but am not someone who has to be on the go all the time or entertained. I like staying in with good books/movies and good company! I am definitley a "news junkie" as far as tv goes but I will admit that I've gotten pulled into a few reality shows. I have also always wanted to visit a Vineyard. Swimming in the ocean and snorkeling is something I could do every day! There's really not much I won't try as long as it's legal lol, I just got back from Cancun where I did zip lining upside down.; Going to Yankee Stadium is something I am hoping to do this summer/fall because yes I am a huge Yankee fan.........it runs in my family.%. I have a small family but I am close with some of them that live near me and I have wonderful friends that I am thankful for. My music taste varies. I have always been passionate about music as I played the piano and sax when I was younger, I love the theater too!I like cooking on holidays and weekends. Seafood, Mexican and Polish are my favorite foods but I try to eat pretty healthy. I love Halloween parties and still will dress up. My friends say I am big hearted, dependable, a great listener/problem solver and that they are happy to know me (that was on a birthday card I got this year!). I have always been a good judge of character and have a good head on my shoulders. I am financially responsible and have worked for all I have. Generally I would say I am a pretty optimistic person, you never know what the future holds and never say never. I am basically hoping to find someone that I have a great time with and also that I am attracted to. I am looking for a well rounded, intelligent, sercure, confident, sociable man who is strong but not insensitive. I would like someone who is happy with life in general and ready to experience things with that someone special. I haven't put too much effort in a while into dating as I've just been doing my own thing and enjoying life but I definitley think it can be better with a partner in crime. My "Match" needs to know how to have fun and be flexible/open minded when it comes to making plans. I believe a lasting relationship needs to contain a mutual respect and support of one another. The most important thing in a functional relationship is for both people to be themselves. I'm sure the competition/selection is high on both ends but I do believe that all good things come to those who wait, however I don't believe in e-mailing too long before meeting. I am not looking for someone with an overly needy personality or a man that wants to be a life long serial dater. I am looking to start slow and see where things go. I welcome any questions you may have and wish everyone the best of luck! : ) For a first meeting I like to keep it simple, maybe meet at a place like Champs or grab a coffee to see what we think about a future date. If I am in good company then it really doesn't matter where we are.

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