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Melani, 40

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About Me

A little about me? Wow!! I own my own business, am a foster parent and an adoptive parent. My business involves training and children. You can see my life kinda revolves around kids. I enjoy watching movies and travel. I am a hopeless romantic and my ultimate vacation is on a beach in a hammock for three days with the man I love. I love the mountains and my ideal home is a log cabin in the mountains.My ideal mate would make me laugh daily just by being himself. He would be romantic in little things and have his own goals in life. We would support each other and grow from that. He will be taller than I am. My ultimate first date is a little of a fantasy. I arrive at the restaurant where I am greeted by card given to me by the hostess telling me to return home. When I get home, my sister greets me with a goofy smile. She hands me my small suitcase, says she has the kids for the next three days, and my brother drives me to your home. Of course, he grills you on all your contact information, including your parents just in case. We then leave for the airport - stopping on the way to get a coffee because I'm a little in shock and nervous at this point. We would have spoken on the phone and by text and *** bit by then.I did mention I'm a hopeless romantic, right? I just want to spend time with someone who truly wants to get to know me and isn't intimidated by me or my independence.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Ha

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Easy going....

  • Cher

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Relationship is: Not about AGE, Not about DISTANCE, Not about Communicating every moment of every day. What's more important is having TRUST & LOYALTY...The TRUST of girl to her man and the LOYALTY of man to his girl...Before you begin reading you should know...I often do NOT respond to profiles in which children are in the main photo...I'm sure you're all proud of your children and want them to be seen...I'm just not to keen on them being seen here. After all it is a dating site and not the face book! ;) If you're mentally depressed (I am not a pick me up), manic depressant, bi-polar or any other type of thing, we are probably are not a good fit. Indeed I have a great sympathy but have dealt with it more times than I care to admit. I have no need to help society in that manner. And please dudes...put some clothes on! ;)All around good girl...mother of two fantastically brilliant children, writer, author, substitute teacher, cheer-leading coach. As a writer you'd think something like this would be a breeze...not so. I am an avid gardener and nothing relieves stress more than digging in the dirt. I love children and have housed over a dozen children that do not belong to me b/c their parents didn't feel the need to raise them further. I'm very goal oriented as well as educated. I'm not looking for 'someone' just to take care of me...I do that pretty well on my own. The same goes for someone that is looking for me to 'take care' of them. I love butterflies and lying on the beach, big dogs and anything unique or 'weird'. I'm not into the bar scene and rarely get out due to me being a writer. I am presently starting a foundation for the deaf and have been doing so for the last year and a half. Hearing is a 'gift', should we not all be able to utilize it? I am NOT a ***kind of girl so if that's what you're into please proceed to the next profile...I value my time as much as the next person and have no desire to become joined at the hip. I love being in a relationship but do not want my life *** around someone else's goals and dramas. (No drama here, if you love the drama, please proceed!!) Shared goals are important but one must remain independent from being thrown into a rut in life.I am extremely honest and rude to a point. Rude only after you do not want to hear the truth, lol. Life is too short to 'candy-coat' and dance around how you feel. I am a tyrant in the defense of the 'underdog' and would give the shirt off my back for the greater good. My hobbies are extensive, i.e. gardening, writing, crocheting, cooking, sewing, drawing (My favorite medium is charcoal.)...yadda yadda...just your typical domestic goddess. There isn't anything that I can't do and if there were my children would say, "Then she'd only buy a book..." I can lay stone and brick as well as build an addition. I grow tremendous gardens and can as much of it as I can to feed the masses. I dig old cemeteries and adventuring into the dark unknown...playing baseball and football as well as cheering on my favorite team (The Pack) on television. I appreciate life and am grateful and thankful every day that I can put both of my feet onto the floor and stand and then...to hear the beautiful voices of my children. Grateful for everything that I am and for what I have and daily I remind myself that someone has it much worse than I ever have, it keeps me very grounded. My musical tastes are heavy metal and classical/symphony with Metallica, Chevelle, Tool and A Perfect Circle being on the top of the list. Not much into Rap/Country/R&B...if you are, great, I'm always willing to listen.I've met some amazing ppl through this site and some...well...not so amazing. LOL! If I've sparked an interest drop me a line, if not, I wish you all the luck in the world, and FYI I am not a 'booty' call and perverse messaging isn't appreciated. I'm just not that kind of girl (Well unless you've known me a long while!) :D Something relaxed and comfortable...I'm always down for a cup of hot tea and intriguing conversation.

  • Nevaeh

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm in need of something genuine and romantic in my life. I'm hoping to find a great guy who is willing to take it slow. We all know that the physical aspect of a relationship is very important, but don't bother messaging me if you're looking for a night of fun or you're looking for a girl to partake in your fetishes. If you're interested and truly a decent guy, I would love to hear from you!

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