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Astrid, 37

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This is me in a nutshell and my serious side. I'm a pretty laid back, mellow and patient person. I am a good person that has a ton of good qualities to share with the right guy. I tend to stick to my comfort zones and need someone who isn't afraid to gently push me out from time to time. I like to do and try new things but sometimes just need a little kick in the ass and usually end up pretty happy I left the 'zone'.I find Harley's and tattoos very sexy but won't hold it against you if you don't have them. I hate shopping and wear what is comfortable, lots of jeans, hoodies, my Vans and Docs, t-shirts, etc. I will say that I clean up very nicely when I want to and I do enjoy getting really dolled up for dinners or events.I am very close with my family and we do things together quite often. Lots of family bbq's, card/poker games, trips to the cottage, parties and a bunch of other stuff.Currently working full time for a mortgage company. Fixing up the house I bought and I also volunteer my time slaying evil clowns and zombies for the good of mankind. Forensic and detective things facinate me.Music varies from one end of the spectrum to the other.; I like to laugh and have a good time. I can be very silly and think of myself as a huge dork sometimes. I can be very sarcastic and if you have to think twice about what I said, I was probably joking.I prefer punk but like listening to all types of music (some too embarrassing to say on here), small bars or clubs to see bands with friends, bike riding, bowling, reading, pool/darts, sitting by a fire or out on the deck having a drink and discussing the days events.I am looking for someone who is man enough to show their emotions and affection. I want someone who will treat me like a girl should be treated, and not just for the first couple months. I know chivalry isn't dead, just in a coma most of the time..........You can expect to receive from me the same treatment you give to me.I believe in karma and that things happen for a reason and that life is short and you should do what makes you happy. I also believe everyone comes into your life for a reason and you should take things from those experiences and apply them in your life to make yourself a better person. At this point in my life and what I have been through I know exactly what I will and won't put up with. Feel free to message me if YOU ACTUALLY READ my profile and think we may legitimately have things in common, you don't wear makeup except at Halloween, don't paint your nails, you don't have an empty profile, you can say more than 'Hi, I like your profile" in your message to me (have some substance or ask a question), don't have pictures of yourself with no shirt on in your profile, you have a job and a vehicle, you don't live with your parents (unless they are old or sick and you're taking care of them), you don't have more pictures of your pets than yourself, there is more but that's enough for now. Please don't waste my time and your energy typing me some BS, I'm not being a **** or high maintenance, I just know what I like and what I don't. Have a nice day! It depends on how we click when we start talking

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mya

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ... They have not spoken to each other in years. Their quarrel began over a woman they both love. Both were equally strong as well as equally handsome. Once and for all, they were determined to finish this dispute over who is the better man. The first brother’s argument was, “I know how old she is, I know how much she weighs, how tall she is, her hair color and eye color.” In which the second brother replies, “Oh, yeah, well I know her favorite restaurant, her favorite poetry line, her favorite work of art, her favorite book to read and what movie brings her to tears even though she has watched it 15 times.”… The first brother, determined to be right, countered with, “I know how educated she is, what her IQ score is and where she was born”. .. The second chimes back, somewhat raddled by now, “I know that she bites her nails when she is nervous, I know that she is truly balanced between strong but sensitive. I know she wrinkles her nose when she concentrates hard on something and that she falls asleep listening to music every night”. Fuming at this point, and determined, once again, to get the upper hand on the other brother, the first one replies, “yeah but with me, she gets very little sleep; for I know her needs and how to please her over and over and over again”. Second counters, “I know how perfectly my hand fits into the small of her back, I know her smell, I know the sweet taste of her lips”… By this time the whole bar has stopped to listen. Who will be the favorable brother? “I may not have all the money in the world,” said the second one, “But I will always be able to provide for her” as to which the first one says, “Oh yeah, well, I do have all the money in the world and she will never have to worry about being provided for as well as have all the things her heart desires”. …“well, let’s let her decide” while pointing to a woman standing alone at the other end of the bar.; she had been listening.“I have loved both of you, but one and only one decision has to be made…. and the brother whom I love the most is………”Which brother did the woman decide and why? Now, about me.....I'm an avid reader, lover of animals and think children are the most precious things in the world. The beach is my sanctuary and amusement parks are where I entertain my "inner child". Music is absolutely etched within my soul; If there is music, I'm there. I love classic cars, funny movies, stand-up comedy but, sorry guys, I'm not much of a sports fan (except live baseball, LOVE live baseball).I love to spend time with my partner but still know how to be comfortable alone. I have a big heart but I am not naive' enough to be a push over. I'm confident and speak my mind but I can do so with grace. I am just as comfortable in an old pair of jeans and flip flops as I am in an evening gown; I can fit into any environment....If I were to describe my "perfect" guy in 3 words, it would be.... intelligent, balanced, romantic....Best of luck, everyone! I hope we all find what we are looking for on here. :)"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." — Bob Marley If we can make each other laugh or keep smiling, then where we go or what we do doesn't really matter much, now does it?

  • Arnette

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am an educated, athletic woman who has positive energy and a positive attitude. I like to stay active and enjoy being exposed to new things. I am sincere and honest and value serving other's. I am looking for an athletic, educated man who enjoys the outdoors and adventures.

  • Jenni

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hello fellas, I am going to try this again. I'm 36 with no kids but love kids and would like some in the future with the right person. I enjoy hikes, camping, fishing, and motorcycles. I don't mind getting my hands dirty. I am not a materialistic person and can't stand people who are. I'm much happier in t shirt and jeans sitting beside a bonfire with an ice cold beer.Although I do like getting dolled up once in a while and going out for a nice night on the town. .P.S.Please don't ask why I'm still single, its obvious I haven't found my match yet. Some place where we can talk and get to know each other better. No pressure

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