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Am I the only one that is scared by a good percentage of the people on this site? Here's a bit of unsolicited advice....don't post pictures of yourselves that make it look like you are in a mug shot....for me personally...they scare me. Motto to live life by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming "WOO HOO, What a Ride!"Looking for someone who is real and true (please interpret that as HONEST, someone NOT fake)....don't want your drama and lies. Most people on here say that they are an honest person...but this site is very tongue in cheek - I don't trust a majority of what I see or read on here. Pretty much figure it's up to you to get me to trust you. And do me a favor - don't take that as a challenge. I'm not naive, but don't be on here looking for someone special just to****people around.I want someone I can talk to. Most importantly someone who I can laugh with, preferably everyday.A guy with an ego but has humility - someone who is confident but not conceited. Someone who likes kids, I have 1, a son, he's in (eeeeeeeek!!!!!!!) 8th grade. I'm not sure about having more kids. I say unsure, because I can't have more kids...willing to meet someone with kids. I raised my son on my own his entire life, I have no daddy-drama, and don't want your momma-drama. I like music, I have a few favorite TV shows, I love action adventure and romantic comedy movies(I cry during sad movies - double X chromosomes what can I say), I hate HATE ghory horror films but I do like suspense or "thrillers". Football fan here - I'm a NY Giants fan at heart, but will also root for the Jets (who says you can't have a favorite AFC and NFC team?). I'm a realistic optimist, I need someone equally as cheerful. I am spontaneous and am usually up for anything, I love surprises(giving and receiving). I'm affectionate and loyal. I want to believe in love at first sight, but I've never experienced it so I'm skeptical. I'm honest and blunt to a fault.I love a man with tattoos. I don't have any myself, and will probably remain that way until I'm 65. Don't ask why 65...it's just a number. If you don't have tattoos...that's cool too.I love the beach and the ocean but I won't swim in them, if I could get paid to travel I would(but I love upstate NY too). I'm close to my family, but not in that freaky unhealthy way-I value my familial relationships. I need someone who can stand with me, stand on his own, and let me stand on my own, all at the same time. I know it's a tall order. But, I'm worth it. Isn't love worth getting what you want? I'm not psycho, and would prefer someone who is also equally not a psycho. No working out for me, don't mind camping(it seems to be a big thing on this site, just remember running water and plumbing are just basic necessities you can't deny), no drugs, no BDSM (had to see if you were paying attention!). So...what's your story? Send me a message and maybe we can chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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  • Nicol

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    To start, I love travelling, my profession and spending time with family and friends. I find happiness in the small things. I have lived in a couple different countries and also speak French and Portuguese. Some of my favourite things are wine, food, the sun, beach volleyball, getting out of the city for the weekend, animals, playing games, dessert (yum!), cooking and languages.I'm open-minded, caring and have a good sense of humour. I don't take myself or life too seriously. I always look to enjoy each day to the fullest because life is short. If you think we have some things in common, send me a message!

  • Librada

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I enjoy early mornings at the gym and taking my dog to the dog park and down to the pier for a nice walk. I love coffee and an early morning on the pier:) I like to go the range and do target shooting, I'm not very great at it though. I enjoy car trips on a sunny day. I enjoy tennis, I do suck at it, though. I enjoy a great bloody mary on my deck in nice weather. I love my jobs and I'm great at them! I love customer service and meeting new people and helping those I can. I enjoy life and enjoy being busy and my limited down time. I'm also a cosmetologist. What does this mean you ask? well, I can cut your hair and take your dental xrays and fit you for a bra at the same time! I know, it's a true talent! I enjoy giving my free time to a local charity, the Kids Food Basket. Making suppers for children who might otherwise go hungry:) I am caring and unselfish. I'm a great single mom, I've been doing it so long. My children are my world and I love to hang out with them. They however, dont always like to hang out with me:)They are older and my youngest just graduated this spring. My oldest graduated last year. The time goes by all too fast. I think I'm funny, people sure do laugh at/with me a lot! I love to make people smile and laugh. I tend to be sarcastic at times:) I am very drama free and hate relationship stress. I hesitate putting myself out there because I'm afraid of meeting someone I might like. (Just being honest) I dont judge the book by its cover but personality is a huge plus! I truly believe that looks fade but that a personality is forever. Thank goodness I have both! ha!ha! JUST KIDDING. My disclaimer;Please.....if you really have no intention other than to chat or hook up, please move along. I'm not a player and expect the same. If you think you're all that and a bag of chips, please move along. Humility goes a long way. If you don't know the difference between "their and there or your and you're" etc. sorry, you are not for me. I have no idea! I think taking the dog for a walk, meeting for a cup of coffee/tea would be nice. Try to alleviate some of the awkwardness of meeting on a dating site. If someone wants to go the range and do some target shooting that would be fun too:) taking a drive up north is always in the cards and just generally hanging out. I'm not really into the bar scene though. Occasionally it can be fun, like a wine tasting or a mix off of some sort. I enjoy the waterfront. I am fortunate enough to live close to water, so why not enjoy it? I think it would great to have a nice conversation with someone interesting:) What's your suggestion?

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