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Am I the only one that is scared by a good percentage of the people on this site? Here's a bit of unsolicited advice....don't post pictures of yourselves that make it look like you are in a mug shot....for me personally...they scare me. Motto to live life by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming "WOO HOO, What a Ride!"Looking for someone who is real and true (please interpret that as HONEST, someone NOT fake)....don't want your drama and lies. Most people on here say that they are an honest person...but this site is very tongue in cheek - I don't trust a majority of what I see or read on here. Pretty much figure it's up to you to get me to trust you. And do me a favor - don't take that as a challenge. I'm not naive, but don't be on here looking for someone special just to****people around.I want someone I can talk to. Most importantly someone who I can laugh with, preferably everyday.A guy with an ego but has humility - someone who is confident but not conceited. Someone who likes kids, I have 1, a son, he's in (eeeeeeeek!!!!!!!) 8th grade. I'm not sure about having more kids. I say unsure, because I can't have more kids...willing to meet someone with kids. I raised my son on my own his entire life, I have no daddy-drama, and don't want your momma-drama. I like music, I have a few favorite TV shows, I love action adventure and romantic comedy movies(I cry during sad movies - double X chromosomes what can I say), I hate HATE ghory horror films but I do like suspense or "thrillers". Football fan here - I'm a NY Giants fan at heart, but will also root for the Jets (who says you can't have a favorite AFC and NFC team?). I'm a realistic optimist, I need someone equally as cheerful. I am spontaneous and am usually up for anything, I love surprises(giving and receiving). I'm affectionate and loyal. I want to believe in love at first sight, but I've never experienced it so I'm skeptical. I'm honest and blunt to a fault.I love a man with tattoos. I don't have any myself, and will probably remain that way until I'm 65. Don't ask why 65...it's just a number. If you don't have tattoos...that's cool too.I love the beach and the ocean but I won't swim in them, if I could get paid to travel I would(but I love upstate NY too). I'm close to my family, but not in that freaky unhealthy way-I value my familial relationships. I need someone who can stand with me, stand on his own, and let me stand on my own, all at the same time. I know it's a tall order. But, I'm worth it. Isn't love worth getting what you want? I'm not psycho, and would prefer someone who is also equally not a psycho. No working out for me, don't mind camping(it seems to be a big thing on this site, just remember running water and plumbing are just basic necessities you can't deny), no drugs, no BDSM (had to see if you were paying attention!). So...what's your story? Send me a message and maybe we can chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Violeta

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a single mom who works way too much, so I enjoy my lazy time on the couch with my son. I'm originally from the city so I enjoy the finer things in life, nice dinners, the clubs, the opera, the ballet... but I also spent alot of time in the country hunting and fishing so I'm pretty well rounded... right now I'm super focused on work and being the best mom I can be. Update... I am not interested in motorcycles or NASCAR!!!! Sorry, move along.... ADDITIONAL UPDATE... IF your profile pic contains a Harley please see previous sentence and MOVE ALONG... if u put STRAIGHT EDGE on your profile and also checked , smoker, drinker(even socially) or drugs, you're an idiot MOVE ALONG!!! if you don't like football, yep, kick rocks!!! If u have a pic of your junk on your phone that you send to women, guess what? That's right homie, keep it moving:) I may not know exactly what I want, but I can sure as hell tell you what I don't want lol.... A REAL ONE! Where a guy actually calls you up to make plans, comes to the door to pick you up, nice dinner and drinks, maybe a movie or a band, maybe a late desert and a nice kiss on the porch.... I'm not hard to please

  • Georgine

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love a good book, a day at the beach or just making a nice dinner together. I like to be in amongst the trees and all that nature has to offer. I like to camp and often love to lay on a blanket and gaze at the stars. I also love music and watching bands. I am a very goal oriented person. I do work a full 40 hours a week and go to school at night. I don't blow off homework because some stranger who hasn't even attempted to actually get to know me says I should!! I love life and have found a way to choose to smile everyday. You can spend your life smiling and happy or complaining and miserable. I choose happiness and it comes freely to me. I do love my life I just wish I had someone to share it with. I love to laugh and learn and love. I know what I want and work hard to achieve it! I play NO GAMES! I have no time for silly Drama, so if that is you I AM NOT INTERSTED> thank you!!! I have goals and I chase them with all my might. I am an independent woman and am not looking for a sugar daddy! I want to connect with someone and have what we all really want. Good luck in your search and if you find me interesting drop me a line.Well here's how I see it. I want someone like me. Kind, compassionate, funny, spunky, positive attitude, zest for life, loves the simple things and also adventures, goes with the flow in life, is grateful for all they have and is very giving & loving.PS. If you have no sense of humor please keep going. I love to laugh and joke. Thank you I like to keep it casual, just meet up chat and see if there is any connection.

  • Rochell

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm missing teeth. Lots of them. I'm boring, I lie all the time and I cheat on everyone I date. I smell bad too.. really downright rank sometimes. Public assistance is my friend, as well as my five baby daddies. My house was featured twice on Hoarders. Does anybody really read this? I didn't think so. Real story: I work way too much and have two kids, ages are 13 and 16. I'm looking for someone to hang out with on the every other weekend when they are with dad. I'm not looking for my soulmate, a long-term relationship, or a husband. I'm looking for fun-- someone to go to a concert with or out to dance. Expect a conversation-- I love an intelligent conversation, so if "cuz I said so" is justification for your opinion, I might not be the girl for you. If you can't spell or formulate a complete thought, don't bother. Really. I've had enough of the Nascar-loving local yokels to last a couple lifetimes. I hate country music too-- just buy another pickup and please don't make a song about it.Yeah, I'm a bit sarcastic. And cynical. I drive too fast and think too much. I'm not that sweet gal at home you're dying to marry-- I'll admit it. I'm ok with it.Oh, and I have new pics but can't upload them. Expect a revision soon-- I've lost some weight and I'm new and improved!So.. message me...if you dare. I'm thinking coffee or a beer...not at my house. I like public places for first dates and less expensive options. The conversation is the highlight. I don't want to dress up either.. it's that whole "acting like someone else so he can get to know the real me" thing-- I have no interest in it. If it goes well, it will be lots of coffee. It will be a good time.

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