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Brandi, 39

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About Me

I'm a Sardonic, easily amused, optimistically cynical, Outgoing introverted girly Tom Boy that LOVES good food.But most importantly I'm a Momma.I'm from So Cal. I use the word *Like* entirely too much.*Like* a lot). I have no intention of typing out a sales pitch about myself. I won't lie, whoever the lucky fella is that catches my heart won't have it easy. My free time is limited, I'm not always able to go off on an adventure ( However, when I do have free time I like to jam as much fun and adventure into that time as possible!), he'll have to be independent and secure enough not to have me at his beck and call and he'll have to be okay with always coming second to my kids needs.Doesn't sound all that enticing, does it?But, in return. I am affectionate, attentive, caring and loyal. I'm a pretty good cook, I won't make you watch a chick flick or show (cause I don't like them either) and I'll never ask if an article of clothing makes me look fat. I'm not impressed by material possessions your fancy car isn't going to make me swoon (unless it's older and in better shape than me). Okay.. I guess that was a little sales pitchieWhile a real meaningful relationship would be awesome, I'm not in a rush. One day I'll meet someone amazing that will see I'm worth the effort. (hopefully before I'm in the old folks home)Until then, I'll be happy to make some friends (I mean that in the literal sense, not the NSA way - stop asking)Speaking of which!! just an FYI.. As a chick that was raised by her father with very little female influences. I tend to get along better with guys and most of my close friends are guys. If you're the jealous type.. don't bother talking to me. You'll just drive your self crazy. I've been single for a long time, I've known these guy for years, if there was anything more to the friendship it would have happened by now.Also.. I know I look young for my age. This is a blessing and a curse. I'm an ageist, I would REALLY prefer someone closer to my age. 5 yrs either way (preferably on the older side) would be perfect.. By the way.. I won't respond to messages if you don't have a picture. Or if you do have a picture, but you're not wearing a shirt or you're flexing or making a duck face or some other form of douche-baggery is going on. Also, while compliments can be nice, they can also be awkward, if the only thing you write is some aesthetic compliment.. that doesn't really lead to much conversation and sometimes (most times) it just makes me think the sender is creepy.I seldom initiate a message as I'm very aware most fellas aren't interested in Mommas.I swear I'm not THAT complicated and chances are, you won't even get to meet my kids... unless of course you turn out to be amazing. Something casual and friendly.. like having a cuppa tea or a drink in a quiet bar or lounge.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Collene

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im looking to meet someone to share new experiences with someone who has a sense of humor, who is honest and loyal. Someone who is open to try new things. Not into drama or games...Im a Yankee fan!!!! However I will watch any sport ;)I enjoy lounges, arts, museums, movies, theatre, walks on the beach,walking through Cental Park,going out to dinner, I also enjoy the quiet evening at home. First date I would have to be a nice dinner and good conversation.

  • Millesant

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi there! How are you? So far I can't think of anywhere else I would like to live. What more could you ask for? We have the sun, fun, and plenty of water! I come from a tight knit family who is always there for each other. Family is one of the most important things in my life. I consider myself a simple girl who looks at the positive in life. My friends have told me I always have a smile on my face. It is important to me to enjoy every minute of my life. It's to short to be angry and live with drama. I try to have fun with everything I do. I am always up for a new adventure such as spending time outdoors, traveling to new places, and meeting new people. I haven't done much traveling lately but I'm always looking for somewhere interesting to visit. On the weekends I spend most of my time with friends or doing some girl time with my Mom. I also enjoy going out to eat and finding new foods to try. You could also find me hanging out on the weekend enjoying a drink or two over a college football game with some close friends. I absolutely love the passion and excitement of going to the game in person as well. I can't say I'm really looking for a certain type of man, but just somebody who enjoys being adventurous and has some spontaneity. I like to plan but find being spontaneous at times is important as well. I would like to find somebody to connect with who is serious but can also be goofy and fun to be around. I have found a balance in my life and hope to find the same.

  • Elinore

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a simple girl who leads a very simple life. I think it's the little things that are important. It's not what you are doing that makes an activity fun but rather who you are with. I work full time, go to school part time and have children who bring an over abundance amount of joy into my life. I've been by myself for quite some time so can take care of myself and my kids. I have a beautiful house, a truck I love to drive and a job I wake up happy to go to every day. I'm happy and content with my life, love my job and just am hoping to find someone to complete it all.Some things I do enjoy are the summer and fall time. I enjoy reading a good book in my free time. I absolutely love music and would much rather listen to that then turn the tv on. I listen to a variety of music and try to go to as many concerts as possible. I believe that music speaks to the soul and through lyrics can speak exactly how you feel. Don't get me wrong I love to cuddle up on the couch and watch a good movie or tv show with someone special. I am a huge baseball fan, love the Tigers. Bowling is always a good time. I love to cook and bake and am pretty darn good at it. I have a small very close family who mean everything to me and we do spend a lot of time together. I believe laughter is the best medicine.So much to say about me but so little that I will actually put on here. I believe that you can get to know someone so much better in person or talking one on one rather then through this. These little spiels can only give you a glimpse into what a person is really like. If you are interested, message me and lets go from there.Would be nice if just one man would show me that this site hasn't been a waste of my time. Still waiting ..... Take a walk in the park while getting to know each other or coffee some place quiet

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