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Brandi, 39

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About Me

I'm a Sardonic, easily amused, optimistically cynical, Outgoing introverted girly Tom Boy that LOVES good food.But most importantly I'm a Momma.I'm from So Cal. I use the word *Like* entirely too much.*Like* a lot). I have no intention of typing out a sales pitch about myself. I won't lie, whoever the lucky fella is that catches my heart won't have it easy. My free time is limited, I'm not always able to go off on an adventure ( However, when I do have free time I like to jam as much fun and adventure into that time as possible!), he'll have to be independent and secure enough not to have me at his beck and call and he'll have to be okay with always coming second to my kids needs.Doesn't sound all that enticing, does it?But, in return. I am affectionate, attentive, caring and loyal. I'm a pretty good cook, I won't make you watch a chick flick or show (cause I don't like them either) and I'll never ask if an article of clothing makes me look fat. I'm not impressed by material possessions your fancy car isn't going to make me swoon (unless it's older and in better shape than me). Okay.. I guess that was a little sales pitchieWhile a real meaningful relationship would be awesome, I'm not in a rush. One day I'll meet someone amazing that will see I'm worth the effort. (hopefully before I'm in the old folks home)Until then, I'll be happy to make some friends (I mean that in the literal sense, not the NSA way - stop asking)Speaking of which!! just an FYI.. As a chick that was raised by her father with very little female influences. I tend to get along better with guys and most of my close friends are guys. If you're the jealous type.. don't bother talking to me. You'll just drive your self crazy. I've been single for a long time, I've known these guy for years, if there was anything more to the friendship it would have happened by now.Also.. I know I look young for my age. This is a blessing and a curse. I'm an ageist, I would REALLY prefer someone closer to my age. 5 yrs either way (preferably on the older side) would be perfect.. By the way.. I won't respond to messages if you don't have a picture. Or if you do have a picture, but you're not wearing a shirt or you're flexing or making a duck face or some other form of douche-baggery is going on. Also, while compliments can be nice, they can also be awkward, if the only thing you write is some aesthetic compliment.. that doesn't really lead to much conversation and sometimes (most times) it just makes me think the sender is creepy.I seldom initiate a message as I'm very aware most fellas aren't interested in Mommas.I swear I'm not THAT complicated and chances are, you won't even get to meet my kids... unless of course you turn out to be amazing. Something casual and friendly.. like having a cuppa tea or a drink in a quiet bar or lounge.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marcella

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Ok so about me. I am a single mom of 2 boys. My oldest is 19 and youngest s 9. They are my world and noone will ever change that! I am a very nice and sweet person who CAN'T stand to be lied to and Hates drama so if u are all about this please stop reading now. I have been on and off this site a few times and so far i have not found anyone i would consider spending my life with. I have found a few nice friends but that's about it so far, hopefully that will change soon. Family is very important to me, I am very close to mine in fact my Mom is my best friend. I am a huge music fan. Somedays i like mellow music just to relax to and then somedays i like music i can dance to. I am not fussy i love all kinds of music......... Quiet dinner

  • Ryann

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    My hobbies: Ridin back roads, listenin to loud music, shootin the breeze, bbqin, drinkin beer/girly drinks, drivin, hangin with friends, love to dance, shoot pool (even tho I'm no good at it), goin to the races, goin to the fights, chillin, kickin it...My goals and aspirations: pretty simple actually, I just want to be comfortable and happy :)What makes me unique: I'm honest, sincere, laid back, down to earth, girl next door, tomboy, and personable...and I'm not judgmental!..it's wide and varied ;)Random stuff: 2 kids at home 17 and 9, I don't plan on getting married again (it changes people), I miss taking martial arts classes, I love animals, especially reptiles, I like a man with rough hard workin hands, if you want hair, makeup, heels and hose you might as well keep on truckin, I like to fish but still can't bring myself to get the damn fish off the hook, I don't hunt, but don't mind if you do (love me some backstrap n gravy), I checked occasional smoker, but I don't smoke cigarettes, hmmm more to come...People tell me all the time that I'm crazy, maybe I am, but I enjoy as much of my life as possible. If actin a fool sometimes makes me crazy, so be it. I guess I may be a little hard to handle, a challenge if you will, but I guarantee you never met a mother(bleep) like me...

  • Margaret

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I enjoy camping, snowboarding, learning (taking classes), catching a show/movie on netflix, or maybe playing a game on the computer. I hope to find a partner that can join me in any of the above.

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