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Lanora, 40
United States, Georgia, Hiram

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I know how men think so before you focus on the "few extra pounds" description let's think about that statement. Since I've always been told that I'm built like a brick house (love that song) as a man's eyes sparkle, I have always taken that description as a good thing. I'm not skinny & I'm not fat but I've got curves where a woman should have them. It doesn't feel honest to say I'm average because by today's standards, I'm not. I will never pretend to be what I'm not just to meet a man. If you are looking for a smaller build, skinny, not a lot of curves (which is very beautiful in it's own way)...move on. If you are looking for a strong, curvaceous build with built in sass & sexiness...I'm your woman.Now, please focus on my charming quick wit ;) Here is some basic info about me: ~ I have 2 children (a 21 yr old daughter attending a University & an 11 year old son)~ I have worked my way up in the hotel business for the last 5 years & I enjoy what I do~ I know men love specifics on hobbies but I truly enjoy everything. I enjoy dressing up just as much as I love 4- I will jump on the back of a bike to cruise the roads just as quickly as I'll enjoy a night on the town going to a comedy club, a quiet dinner & movie or enjoying a jazz club. Or we can just stay in, cook dinner together & just be.~ I love all music, whatever moves me.~ I've been down the internet dating road before so I am truly looking for something to move slow, hence the "old school" title. I want to enjoy the process of getting to know someone. I may be 40 now but I'm not the type that feels they are running out of time & must latch on to anyone. I have dealt with my past & battle wounds & I am now ready to get it right.I am looking for a best friend, a lover, someone who thrives in family moments & someone to eventually spend my life with. I detest games & would rather be faced with brutal truth than sugar-coated pretenses. I love hard & I expect the same. With that being said, I want to enjoy the ride and experience of getting to know someone step by step. Every day & each moment is a blessing that I have learned to never take for granted. Alone time as a couple is just as important as the cherished family times. I am very big on balance & learning to appreciate someone for who they are, not for who I think they should be - Thank God for being older ;)I am a very confident woman who just wants to share life with a very special man Past experience has taught me that meeting for a coffee or drink first is the way to go. It's all about chemistry & great communication so if it's not there, call it a day & wish each other good luck. If it is there, make further plans

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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