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Lanora, 40

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About Me

I know how men think so before you focus on the "few extra pounds" description let's think about that statement. Since I've always been told that I'm built like a brick house (love that song) as a man's eyes sparkle, I have always taken that description as a good thing. I'm not skinny & I'm not fat but I've got curves where a woman should have them. It doesn't feel honest to say I'm average because by today's standards, I'm not. I will never pretend to be what I'm not just to meet a man. If you are looking for a smaller build, skinny, not a lot of curves (which is very beautiful in it's own way)...move on. If you are looking for a strong, curvaceous build with built in sass & sexiness...I'm your woman.Now, please focus on my charming quick wit ;) Here is some basic info about me: ~ I have 2 children (a 21 yr old daughter attending a University & an 11 year old son)~ I have worked my way up in the hotel business for the last 5 years & I enjoy what I do~ I know men love specifics on hobbies but I truly enjoy everything. I enjoy dressing up just as much as I love 4- I will jump on the back of a bike to cruise the roads just as quickly as I'll enjoy a night on the town going to a comedy club, a quiet dinner & movie or enjoying a jazz club. Or we can just stay in, cook dinner together & just be.~ I love all music, whatever moves me.~ I've been down the internet dating road before so I am truly looking for something to move slow, hence the "old school" title. I want to enjoy the process of getting to know someone. I may be 40 now but I'm not the type that feels they are running out of time & must latch on to anyone. I have dealt with my past & battle wounds & I am now ready to get it right.I am looking for a best friend, a lover, someone who thrives in family moments & someone to eventually spend my life with. I detest games & would rather be faced with brutal truth than sugar-coated pretenses. I love hard & I expect the same. With that being said, I want to enjoy the ride and experience of getting to know someone step by step. Every day & each moment is a blessing that I have learned to never take for granted. Alone time as a couple is just as important as the cherished family times. I am very big on balance & learning to appreciate someone for who they are, not for who I think they should be - Thank God for being older ;)I am a very confident woman who just wants to share life with a very special man Past experience has taught me that meeting for a coffee or drink first is the way to go. It's all about chemistry & great communication so if it's not there, call it a day & wish each other good luck. If it is there, make further plans

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    After some time on and off of Match, I have learned more about who I am and what I am seeking. It turns out it is pretty simple. I still believe in the dream. The house, the kids, the friends and family. Maybe even a picket fence. It looks different now. Likely two families have merged, there are extra people involved who I never anticipated. But the dream remains. I am seeking my person: my best friend, partner, confidant, and lover. I want the mundane beauty that glows from an intact healthy family. At the end of our workdays, after little league, homework, music lessons, and cleaning the dishes from dinner – it’s just us and the world. And we have everything. Getting to this point is a long process and it will be a while before it all truly comes together, but I believe it is worth investing the time and emotional energy. I am not sure where we live or what you do. But you are smart, kind, and I smile when I think of you. Together we laugh, we support each other in sadness. We grow. Maybe we have lots of luxuries. Maybe not. But it doesn’t matter because we are. I still believe. If you do too, and you're ready, drop me a line. ******* ******* *******A simple life of family and friends makes me happy. Whether hanging in yoga pants or rocking an evening dress, the people I am with make the experience.Live music, anything comedy, a weekend getaway, a roaring fire, and a home renovation project all make me smile. Compassion and vision I believe are essential to being well. I am driven and confident, but hold deep an empathy for others which keeps me grounded . To my relationships I am naturally loyal and committed. Through self reflection and self analysis I am always seeking to improve myself and understand what I bring to others. I am seeking someone with positive energy who reads, enjoys the arts, likes kids, and wants to have fun. Meeting up with friends is always a great time as is just being together. I have enjoyed all of the chapters of my life thus far and have no regrets. I am seeking someone to join me as I start a new beginning. Future looks bright - who's in?

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    At work I'm surrounded by women and children. Outside of work I have great friends and family who are married with kids. They all tell me how great I'd be for a good man. So I thought I'd look outside my circle.I am a fun, smiling girl who knows what she wants from life. I just ran my first 5k, slow and steady can finish a race. I am a cautious adventurer. I'm creative (photography, crafts). I can go from a dress and heels to jeans and t shirt. Laughter and sushi are some of my favorite things.Looking for a funny guy who'd like to:Try new restaurantsBike/kayak/walk/hike on Cape Cod, NH, METravel (vacations, weekends away or day trips)Movies, sports watchingEnjoy seasonal activities Basically I'd like to find a guy to share life's adventures with. Since it's the first time we are meeting, something simple to see if we click. Then we can go on a real date.

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