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Lanora, 40

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About Me

I know how men think so before you focus on the "few extra pounds" description let's think about that statement. Since I've always been told that I'm built like a brick house (love that song) as a man's eyes sparkle, I have always taken that description as a good thing. I'm not skinny & I'm not fat but I've got curves where a woman should have them. It doesn't feel honest to say I'm average because by today's standards, I'm not. I will never pretend to be what I'm not just to meet a man. If you are looking for a smaller build, skinny, not a lot of curves (which is very beautiful in it's own way)...move on. If you are looking for a strong, curvaceous build with built in sass & sexiness...I'm your woman.Now, please focus on my charming quick wit ;) Here is some basic info about me: ~ I have 2 children (a 21 yr old daughter attending a University & an 11 year old son)~ I have worked my way up in the hotel business for the last 5 years & I enjoy what I do~ I know men love specifics on hobbies but I truly enjoy everything. I enjoy dressing up just as much as I love 4- I will jump on the back of a bike to cruise the roads just as quickly as I'll enjoy a night on the town going to a comedy club, a quiet dinner & movie or enjoying a jazz club. Or we can just stay in, cook dinner together & just be.~ I love all music, whatever moves me.~ I've been down the internet dating road before so I am truly looking for something to move slow, hence the "old school" title. I want to enjoy the process of getting to know someone. I may be 40 now but I'm not the type that feels they are running out of time & must latch on to anyone. I have dealt with my past & battle wounds & I am now ready to get it right.I am looking for a best friend, a lover, someone who thrives in family moments & someone to eventually spend my life with. I detest games & would rather be faced with brutal truth than sugar-coated pretenses. I love hard & I expect the same. With that being said, I want to enjoy the ride and experience of getting to know someone step by step. Every day & each moment is a blessing that I have learned to never take for granted. Alone time as a couple is just as important as the cherished family times. I am very big on balance & learning to appreciate someone for who they are, not for who I think they should be - Thank God for being older ;)I am a very confident woman who just wants to share life with a very special man Past experience has taught me that meeting for a coffee or drink first is the way to go. It's all about chemistry & great communication so if it's not there, call it a day & wish each other good luck. If it is there, make further plans

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am independent, intelligent, and loyal. I am looking for someone who compliments my life and I theirs. I am a sucker for smart, funny and nice guys. :)I love the beach, sports, animals and reading. I like museums and art, but don't go very often. I buy the NYS empire pass every year and go to the beach every chance I get. I like my job, but it is more a means to support rather than something I love. I don't like to work overtime and try to keep a personal life. I am close with my mom, but don't have a big family. Something low key where we can meet up and see if we click.

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a very honest person, what you see is what you get. I'm definitely not perfect but my intentions are always good. I think I'm fun to be around, I like to laugh and can appreciate a good joke.... especially if it's about me. Communication is big with me, I'm the type of person that likes to talk things out. For me there is nothing worse than trying to guess what someone is feeling. It's exhausting and not a very good use of my time.I like horror movies, I like to be active when it's nice outside and workout year round. I have two cats, I love them to death and we are a package deal. I do smoke, so if that bothers you I'm sorry but if you're the type that will nag me about it every time you see me you should probably move on. Say something about it on our date and I will light one up as I'm walking out the door. :)My biggest pet peeve is people who don't have any consideration for my time. Running late is fine but at least have the common courtesy to tell me you're running late... don't make me call you. It's just rude and I will not stand for it. My time is just as important as yours... if not more :)I am very busy... in addition to working, I have taught myself shorthand on the stenograoph so any free time I have goes to working on that to build my speed up. I would, however, like to find the right person to spend time with without feeling like I'm wasting my time...Honestly, I am much better at this in person. Writing a about myself, along with patience, is not one of my strong points :) I'm looking for a friend, lover and partner.... I'm a handful, I speak my mind and expect to receive what I give in a relationship. I am comfortable being single and will not settle for anything less than what I believe I deserve... nor should you :)

  • Schuyler

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    German girl, who is creative but not nerdy. Spending much of my free time working on illustrations and drawings - ideas that come to my head. Keeps me sane as it's quite therapeutic. I like to laugh and noticed that I haven't laughed much lately. Maybe you can help?! :) Good sense of humor which I hope you'll have too. I am optimistic and a positive outlook on life. I like to go to the movies or see a show in a theatre every once in a while, bit of soul food. :) Love to travel and explore new places, cultures and cuisines. Would have loved to be an explorer ***years ago...Music is very important to me, I usually have the radio on all day (where possible) and rather listen to a good tune then watching TV. Not into chick-flicks but like action, comedy and martial arts movies.Tried out different sports over the years and stuck with swimming, cycling and squash. Love to watch all kinds of sports games live though, particularly ice-hockey. I volunteer a lot and try and raise money for a chosen charity. It's quite rewarding and you always meet amazing, like-minded people during such events. Enough about me, what about you, yes you, the one just looking at my profile! :) Anywhere, beach, tree house, rowing boat on a lake, top of a mountain...as long as it's fun and we are able to talk to each other. :)

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