Total users: 63,121,866 Online users: 227,433
Neida, 39

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Jun 2026 14:09:21

About Me

Ok gentlemen I am revamping my profile so here goes nothing........ First and foremost I am a wonderful woman and mother of ***alive, 2 deceased unfortunately for me but fortunate for heaven). The two that are still a blessing for the new generation one is over 19 the other is 17 and will always reside with me as he is autistic.So please be ok with that. They are awesome kids though... I am unique in many ways and probably the best way to describe my uniqueness is to say that I am not what the other ladies put on their profiles. Yes I can actually cook and very well, I can clean a house, take care of my family, my man, my home and still have time at night to take care of me. (during the day too its just hectic sometimes...lol).I am a very committed woman so even while dating or seeing someone that is the only one im involved with which I am looking for in the opposite sex. I love all things and especially football (GOOOO!!!! PACKERS!!!... MY TEAM.. YES IM A CHEESEHEAD IN MY HEART... not born though....) I do know hunting, fishing and some sports... I am educated and well liked by everyone (Id like to think and including my ex hubby...just didnt work out there....lol..). I love nature and animals(dont worry im not an extreme animal rights activist i just love animals) I would really like to meet someone that has goals and is inspired to reach high for the stars then when they reach that star they want they have the ability to take it to the next level and make life even better..... What I want most is that part of life where the committment of making life work with that special someone. ya know that one person you can never ever dream of being without.. Id like to find that and settle down with a wonderful man out there that has similar goals and inspirations..... Im that one that will stand next to you not behind you, i will walk holding your hand and making decisions with you that way the burden isnt all on you and I am truly that one that is very serious about lifetime committments.. I would very much like to meet a man that wants to have the joys of life that you are supposed to share with another... Id like to meet someone that is happy NO DRAMA or atleast very little drama. The last thing that i find important to say is please NO DRUGS and if you enjoy an occasional drink so be it however please dont be an an every day all the time drinker. To sum it all up..... NORMALITY.... a normal happy life...ALSO i am sorry about the essay here however i believe in total honesty.. as well if you have *** and i havent responded it is because I was in the process of moving so if your interestes please do *** and i will respond. I thank you for taking the time to read all of this and look forward to chatting with you soon... Each date should be unique.. One of your own so I really cant say what that first date should be... so surprise me... or maybe Ill surprise you.. who knows its that kind of world right??? PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME JUST TO HOOK UP TY..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Aubree

    Offline

    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am independent, intelligent, and loyal. I am looking for someone who compliments my life and I theirs. I am a sucker for smart, funny and nice guys. :)I love the beach, sports, animals and reading. I like museums and art, but don't go very often. I buy the NYS empire pass every year and go to the beach every chance I get. I like my job, but it is more a means to support rather than something I love. I don't like to work overtime and try to keep a personal life. I am close with my mom, but don't have a big family. Something low key where we can meet up and see if we click.

  • Lanora

    Offline

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I know how men think so before you focus on the "few extra pounds" description let's think about that statement. Since I've always been told that I'm built like a brick house (love that song) as a man's eyes sparkle, I have always taken that description as a good thing. I'm not skinny & I'm not fat but I've got curves where a woman should have them. It doesn't feel honest to say I'm average because by today's standards, I'm not. I will never pretend to be what I'm not just to meet a man. If you are looking for a smaller build, skinny, not a lot of curves (which is very beautiful in it's own way)...move on. If you are looking for a strong, curvaceous build with built in sass & sexiness...I'm your woman.Now, please focus on my charming quick wit ;) Here is some basic info about me: ~ I have 2 children (a 21 yr old daughter attending a University & an 11 year old son)~ I have worked my way up in the hotel business for the last 5 years & I enjoy what I do~ I know men love specifics on hobbies but I truly enjoy everything. I enjoy dressing up just as much as I love 4- I will jump on the back of a bike to cruise the roads just as quickly as I'll enjoy a night on the town going to a comedy club, a quiet dinner & movie or enjoying a jazz club. Or we can just stay in, cook dinner together & just be.~ I love all music, whatever moves me.~ I've been down the internet dating road before so I am truly looking for something to move slow, hence the "old school" title. I want to enjoy the process of getting to know someone. I may be 40 now but I'm not the type that feels they are running out of time & must latch on to anyone. I have dealt with my past & battle wounds & I am now ready to get it right.I am looking for a best friend, a lover, someone who thrives in family moments & someone to eventually spend my life with. I detest games & would rather be faced with brutal truth than sugar-coated pretenses. I love hard & I expect the same. With that being said, I want to enjoy the ride and experience of getting to know someone step by step. Every day & each moment is a blessing that I have learned to never take for granted. Alone time as a couple is just as important as the cherished family times. I am very big on balance & learning to appreciate someone for who they are, not for who I think they should be - Thank God for being older ;)I am a very confident woman who just wants to share life with a very special man Past experience has taught me that meeting for a coffee or drink first is the way to go. It's all about chemistry & great communication so if it's not there, call it a day & wish each other good luck. If it is there, make further plans

  • Lise

    Offline

    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    hi, first time on a site like this. i am 37 and have been divorced for 2 years and looking to get back in the game. i like to do many things indoors and out and have alot of interests. i am mostly into hard rock and heavy metal music, my favorite kindof movies are comedies and action. i'm not a complex person, very down to earth and straight forward. if you would like to know more feel free to talk to me.

Follow Us: