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Cythia, 38
United States, Georgia, Hartwell

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About Me

I will try and keep this short,I'm a single Mom with 2 girls. I'm doing it by myself w/ very little help from either of their dads. I have a great life, great kids, great family and a few great friends. I don't "NEED" to be in a relationship, it would be nice to start sharing this wonderful life w/someone but I don't have to. I'm very content and very independent. I'm confident and I know just what I want and I won't settle for less. I'm single because I won't just settle to have someone in my life. I want that best friend that makes me smile when I need to smile most, the one that will be by my side when I need him. A little more about me, there are 2 things I don't put up with; Lying/Liars and Laziness. I don't have the patience for either. I'm one of the most honest people you will meet. I'm the one that will say what everyone else wants to say. I take care of myself, I workout ***days a week (if you have never worked out and its obvious you have not pls do NOT send me a message) sorry but I am not attracted to couch potatoes or large men. May be blunt but I'm here to meet people not play games. With my recent move to MN i have been busy and am spending more time on my bike and with family. There's so much more I can say about me but too much to put in words and people stop reading. One last major part of my life is my family, mom, brother, sister in law, sister and I are all very close. My family has always been here for me and always will be, so the man I end up with will need to fit in comfortably. We love the outdoors and spend a lot of time outside doing anything from biking, boating, music in te park or even grilling and sitting around the fire pit.Lets move on to the guy I see myself with some day, it doesn't have to be married. I'm fine w/o all that but I'm not opposed to it either. The first thing I notice is looks, who doesn't, there HAS to be an attraction or there is nothing. Personality is extremely important, I want someone that can take a joke, that can be silly and have fun, yet serious when needed. I want to find that one that makes sparks fly, the one that eventually cares about me the same as I do them. If you are looking for a friends w/ benefits relationship or you are using this site to "get some" move along, I'm NOT interested! I will leave it *** that, I'm an open book so if you have questions just ask me. (I feel as if I need to emphasis w/ Caps since there are those out there that don't take the hints).****UPDATE****No picture odds are favorable you won't get a response! Its not so much what we do of the 1st date but w/ whom I'm with. It's nice to have someone that can speak and isn't afraid to share some personal information to show me he's interested. I can have fun doing anything so I'm up for whatever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Stephen

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    % chance he will be wearing tights) but rather someone that's going to start out as my friend.. Im emotionally ready....are you.I am not looking to buffet style date ( you know a little of everything on one plate...half of which you have no intention of touching but it looked good at one time) but rather i'd like a partner in crime to see the world with and enjoy life and each other. I am hopeless romantic.. Most importantly you have to have a good sence of humor dipped in a little bit of sarcasm. If you can make me laugh...i am yours..Intelligence is a HUGE turn on!!! I love when you know a little about everything and you want to show me the world. ..even if its usless information. Oh, and if you can kill bugs and fix things.....BONUS A few key notes: -Please ...English should be your first lanuage....or your best -I am 5'5..and i am not giving up my high heels anytime soon...so please don't be a Keebler Elf.-I really do not need to see you posing next to a huge dead fish or animal...(us girls do not like that unless its rolled up next to wasabi) -...-I am a girly girl.and i take care of myself. grooming should be a priority in your life - If the bulk of your pictures consist of you making a duck face in the mirror at the gym or in your bathroom..most likely you have a fan club..in which you may be the only member -Please have a profile picture. If you do not in the age of the smartphone I will automatically assume ...A.. you have something to hide OR....B. there is a good chance I could end up in a freezer in your basement. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PIC...YOU HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF SEEING JESUS THEN ME TALKING TO YOU....just saying-If you are looking for a "piece" you have the wrong gal! I love the beach, being outdoors, long drives to nowhere, camping, walks in the park, good wine deep conversations, stinky cheese,hand holding and spooning .. i know its random. PLEASE BE 33 AND OVER! I DO NOT TRAVEL DOWN COUGARTOWN HIGHWAY!!!!!!!I have it all together and i am just missing the right person to share it with ......is that you?.some place public. If you are as boring as watching paint dry or laundry in the dryer...move on to the next chick please.

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  • Maryrose from Hartwell | Woman | 40 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Whoa it is much harder than I thought....Looking for a fun , outgoing , confident gentleman.I'm old school born and raised in Europe , moved to the US 13 years ago /proud US citizen/... got my life in order personally and professionally .Kids are grown so it is time for me to find that special person I can be happy with. I love my job and a little bit of a workaholic , but will make time ..I work with dogs and I bring home every homeless animal and find good home for them. If you don't like animals its not going to work for me. I have class but I'm not a snob. I'm not high maintenance , I can be ready in 15 minutes or less.I'm looking for somebody who I can talk about anything ... rush home to and grow a deep bond , somebody who will put a big old smile on my face and gives me a bear hug after a hard day... someone who doesn't give up on things because they hard , takes risks and goes after his goals.I don't care what you do for a living as long as you take pride in your work... I don't care what kind of a car you drive or how much money you make...As long as you are a decent honest clean cut person I will give you a chance. I do not do drugs of any kind and can't tolerate them .I'm easy going , no drama , no baggage..but lots of energy ! I can be a handful and have bad days.. /sorry not perfect/ but nothing what a kind confident man can't handle .I have a semi sarcastic humor and a spark in my eyes and always looking for my next great adventure. I believe in the old world values , strong family ,respect , work ethic , manners , loyalty and kindness . I have many traveling plans and a long bucket list. Love to have fun , go places , experience things , meet people.I do not like to give out my phone number before we meet... please be understandingNo Games : don't lie on your profile , have a current picture , say what you mean , mean what you say ... my life is not a playground ...No Drama : usual symptom of unconfident overly sensitive people with trust issues ... can't deal with them....I don't mind if you have kids , I love kids ... but don't be a dead beat father...Its not easy to put ourselves out on the "meat market" but I'm putting serious effort to find someone...If I find someone interesting I'll delete my profile , if you just here to play around or to have options we not going to get along.I do believe man should make the first step... but I will show interest if I found your profile funny or you have a dog a car or anything interesting. Time is money so lets meet and get it out of the way .. don't really want to chat for weeks ...if we have a spark good if not we still can be friends. Bring a GOOD conversation , the place is not important.PS : If you want to talk about your ex for hours on our date please bring your check book as I will charge for the therapy session.

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  • Earleen from Hartwell | Woman | 38 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Seems like you always take a gamble on sites like this--the good is all mixed up with the bad and it's hard to tell which is which sometimes. I think it would be great if I was into hooking up with random strangers & manipulation or super superficial, but nah... I'll pass.So why am I still on here? Just call me the eternal optimist. I guess I figure there's gotta be SOMEONE decent out there--after all, I'M on this site, right? Surely there's gotta be at least one other lil' fishy trying hard not to be eaten by all the other carnivorous fishes swarming and trying to take a bite outta your tail. Didn't Noah welcome the animals into the ark two-by-two? So somewhere there must be another fish out there who swims a little differently like me.OK, all cuteness aside, let me talk straight. I am NOT here to "hook-up". If that's what your main agenda is, then click right on by. I'm still "stupid" enough to believe that a man & woman can enjoy each other's company without getting naked. I'm still hoping that I can find a true friend first, and a lover second. Someone who knows what it takes to have a successful relationship and teach me how to love and trust again.I'm far from perfect--and never will be. But I am a good person, and I have a lot to give to the man who can see the diamond through the coal and keep digging. I'm very loyal, and have never cheated in my life. I believe wholeheartedly in being honest and open--As for kids--I can't have them. And as for yours... well, I'll be honest & say I prefer you didn't have any as that means there is a "baby mama" to deal with, but I do like children and am open.Bottom line--I'd just like to find a good, honest, caring, compassionate, kind-hearted, responsible & intelligent man. Anyone out there?Oh yeah, one more thing I almost forgot: I prefer to be Vegetarian, so your tail is safe with me. :0) Creativity is always appreciated, as well as thoughtfulness. I like when people take the time and effort to find out what I enjoy or take the initiative to plan something special. But then, who doesn't. Basically, whatever gives us the opportunity to get to know a little more about each other. Second dates are more for just having fun.

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