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Cythia, 38

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About Me

I will try and keep this short,I'm a single Mom with 2 girls. I'm doing it by myself w/ very little help from either of their dads. I have a great life, great kids, great family and a few great friends. I don't "NEED" to be in a relationship, it would be nice to start sharing this wonderful life w/someone but I don't have to. I'm very content and very independent. I'm confident and I know just what I want and I won't settle for less. I'm single because I won't just settle to have someone in my life. I want that best friend that makes me smile when I need to smile most, the one that will be by my side when I need him. A little more about me, there are 2 things I don't put up with; Lying/Liars and Laziness. I don't have the patience for either. I'm one of the most honest people you will meet. I'm the one that will say what everyone else wants to say. I take care of myself, I workout ***days a week (if you have never worked out and its obvious you have not pls do NOT send me a message) sorry but I am not attracted to couch potatoes or large men. May be blunt but I'm here to meet people not play games. With my recent move to MN i have been busy and am spending more time on my bike and with family. There's so much more I can say about me but too much to put in words and people stop reading. One last major part of my life is my family, mom, brother, sister in law, sister and I are all very close. My family has always been here for me and always will be, so the man I end up with will need to fit in comfortably. We love the outdoors and spend a lot of time outside doing anything from biking, boating, music in te park or even grilling and sitting around the fire pit.Lets move on to the guy I see myself with some day, it doesn't have to be married. I'm fine w/o all that but I'm not opposed to it either. The first thing I notice is looks, who doesn't, there HAS to be an attraction or there is nothing. Personality is extremely important, I want someone that can take a joke, that can be silly and have fun, yet serious when needed. I want to find that one that makes sparks fly, the one that eventually cares about me the same as I do them. If you are looking for a friends w/ benefits relationship or you are using this site to "get some" move along, I'm NOT interested! I will leave it *** that, I'm an open book so if you have questions just ask me. (I feel as if I need to emphasis w/ Caps since there are those out there that don't take the hints).****UPDATE****No picture odds are favorable you won't get a response! Its not so much what we do of the 1st date but w/ whom I'm with. It's nice to have someone that can speak and isn't afraid to share some personal information to show me he's interested. I can have fun doing anything so I'm up for whatever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angel

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi, I'm one of those lucky people who made their hobby their profession. I am a professional artist and make my living selling my work. It's great to be my own boss and make all my own decisions, both for my business and my creative choices. I am not shy or introverted and really want/ need to meet someone with a great sense of humor. I've realized that I honestly need to be with someone who can make me laugh and vice versa. My friends describe me as beautifully quirky and honest, in touch with my feelings and very caring. Sometimes they say I'm too forgiving.I would like to travel more and perhaps learn how to do something new with someone special. I love to travel and experience new cultures and see the world. I also like scuba diving and the ocean in general. According to people I've met out west, it's a big part of who I am, although I didn't see it until it was pointed out to me!I think the things that make me unique can't be written about in a very succinct way. It's more of an energy you feel when you're around me. My friends say I have amazing energy and light up a room. People have said they're addicted to being around me and spending time with me. Don't worry, I don't let it go to my head! LOL! I just like people and consider myself to be a social person. However, I would like to meet that special person that I can share secrets with, have inside jokes with and can feel perfectly at ease with, whether we're at a black tie event or just couch surfing in sweatpants. I also need to meet a man who had a happy childhood, likes his parents and siblings and loves cats and animals in general. I have one cat. A unique and maybe even a little quirky man is a positive attribute and I do not need to be with a man as chatty or as outgoing as myself. However, they should be somewhat social. I think a relaxing, but not boring, first date would be the best way to get to know someone. However, I really do appreciate a man who puts some thought into a first date. If it's a restaurant they make reservations. They think about what I like and try to incorporate those things into the evening's events. "Let's meet at this bar and this time" is fine, but shows a total lack of effort, interest and creativity. Just sayin'! I do like the idea of trying something new or going somewhere neither one of us has gone before, even if it's just a new restaurant.

  • Quanda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hmmm... What to say here...??Well to start, I'm a pretty simple gal. I am open minded and by far NOT high maintenance. Easy to get along with, easy to talk to and a good listener. Have a great sense of humor and I love to laugh. I am an extremely honest person and expect the same in return from a partner. Nobody likes drama and I try to avoid it at all costs. I have a good job, been there almost 16 years. Own a home and have a fantastic ***year old whom I could not be more proud of. She is my everything.I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts. Who doesn't love Metallica???!!!

  • Junie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    My life is almost complete, the only thing missing is that special person to share it with.I am hoping to find my best friend one day. Someone with common interests that I can spend time with, laugh with, and have fun with. I try to stay positive and make the best of whatever I am doing. I live life to it's fullest, it is too short to be miserable and let it pass you by. KISS - keep it simple silly!!!!! Maybe meet for a coffee or a drink first

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