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Clarity, 38

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About Me

I was married for 14 years and divorced for the past 5 years. I have 3 beautiful children who are my world. I am not looking for a man to take care of me. I have a good job and my own everything. I am also not looking to take care of a man. I enjoy reading, movies, music, camping, swimming, bowling and being outdoors when it is nice out. I love spending time with my kids. I don't go out to bars or clubs. If I am not at work, I am at home. I have very good morals and values and I guess you could call me "old fashioned" when it comes to love. I believe in the little things that you do in relationships to show you care. I am very romantic and like to let who I am with know what they mean to me. I think a lot of that is lost now days with technology and the fast paced life. Society makes everything disposable these days. I don't want a disposable relationship. I want true and honest. I don't need a man to buy me everything or try to impress me with money. That usually has the opposite effect for me than what I think they are trying to obtain. I would rather be with a poor man who loves me with pure true love than be with a man who is rich and buys me everything but doesn't have that true love. That to me is a no brainer. I don't fit in with today's single women, I am finding, like I said I am old fashioned compared to what I see. I will not settle until I find that man who treats me the way I want to treat him and makes my heart flutter and give me Butterflies....until then, I am content. Go out to dinner, talk and get to know each other. I love walks......holding hands,walking and talking...oh yeah and the more romantic the better...:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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  • Annemarie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am not a woman who plays games. I never have been.And I won't settle for less than i deserve and neither should you. I have a job, a car, a house, a farm and take care of myself and what is mine, Having said that, it is important that you also have a job, your own place and a car. I have kids and they have a dad. Who is a very active father, I am not looking for someone to take their dad's place. But if you aren't interested in a woman with kids... don't *** aren't going anywhere. I am intelligent and that can be intimidating, don't be afraid. Just talk to me and you will see. I am not that scary. I am mature and don't have time for baby momma drama or any other kind of drama. I don't have any drama and won't tolerate it. There are always life issues, they can be dealt with, but making a mountain out of a mole hill is stupid. Don't just tell me I am beautiful, because my first question is what happens when my beauty fades? If I like you- you'll know it.I will make a sincere effort/ to talk to you, to get to know you, & to spend time with you.I will just flat out say, "I like you."I will hold your hand.I will kiss your face.I will do all of these things because they come from my heart.I don't have an agenda.Unless you consider wanting to have good relationships in my life an "agenda".But there are certain considerations I believe should take place between a man & a woman.I tend to be very traditional in my ideas of what is romantic.I believe my man should open the door for me- and I believe I should be reaching over to unlock his door as he's walking around the car.I believe if we're out- my man should let me order dinner first- as for most nights I'd rather be home cooking FOR him.I believe a man should tell me I'm pretty- without me having to ask. Especially in the morning when my hair is a mess and I haven't had a chance to put makeup on.I believe the first thing my man should do when he sees me is to hug me- because I'm certainly walking towards him with my arms wide open.I'm not an overly jealous person- some of my closest friends are men, so I've never asked a guy to cut the women he is friends with out of his life.I just feel that if we like one another- why would I care if you have female friends!? I'd be more inclined to think you didn't know the first thing about women if none of them cared to associate with you.I don't make a habit of being involved romantically with different men at the same time.If I'm sleeping at your house one night- I can guarantee you I'm not sleeping at anyone else's the next.I tend to joke around. A lot.As in every day. Life is too ****ing short to be unhappy.That doesn't mean I don't have bad days- it means I don't intend to dwell on that shit.I don't hold grudges. If something upsets me enough that I can't get past it- I'll just leave- as I would expect him to.I am perhaps the most open-minded, loyal, accepting woman a man could ask for.I'm not looking for someone to take care of me in any capacity- I'm looking for the right man who wants to be there so we can take care of each other.I truly feel that I have a lot to offer the man who gets my heart.I'm witty, intelligent, respectful, creative, adventurous, insightful, honest, and most of all loving.If I ever give my heart to another man- he will never want for anything.. ;-))If you have made it this far, send me a message and tell me... WHAT MAKES YOUR SOUL SMILE? Your choice. surprise meI can easily cover my tattoos. I can go from the mud hole to the Opera in 45 minutes. ;-)

  • Nova

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Learned a lesson in love .. This time i will be bullet proof. Been thru a lot and not ready for love ....! I dont like being told what to do. So dont. Im real and sometimes blunt . I hate people who play games.and drama ! I have 3 kids all growing up . i like r&b rap music ..some rock , shoot pool , dance. watching movies , looking for a someone who is real . Looking for my homie ... Blow in my ear and i'll let you take me anywhere .... ;) fire sign

  • Amada

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am wanting something real, if you are not wanting that please do not message me. I have a good life, I have awesome kids and a very good job. I don't need a man to support me, I have been doing that for 18 years. I haven't ever been married or lived with a man. I am a bigger (beautiful) woman, don't want or feel the need to change that for anybody other than myself. I know what I want and am not willing to settle for less, as you can see I haven't yet. I don't need a man, I WANT a companion, a best friend, a lover, and a partner to SHARE life with. I have many different likes and am open to new ones. Anything and everything is fun and enjoyable with that special someone. I am a laid back gal, don't like or want drama in my life. I am not for sale making me not a toy. Don't play with me and I won't play with you. I am not here for hook-ups or one nighters, I respect myself too much for that. I am looking for an HONEST, loveable, respectable, and fun guy that will compliment my life. Anything else you would like to know don't be afraid to ask, I got an A+ in the talking class. haha I like to drink a beer occasionally, so if you are recovering alcoholic, probably not a good idea. I am not into drugs, stay away if you are. If you live in your momma's basement and plan to live there until she dies, stay there but I won't be there with you. I like independent men. If you have sexual problems and are not willing to get a remedy, don't contact me. I have noticed that men that can't think women don't need what they need either. Intimacy is a huge part of a relationship. Well, I think I have said enough to scare you away, if you aren't scared please by all means contact me. Karen Coffee or dinner and lots of talking.

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