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Rachal, 38

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About Me

I'm a single mom of 3 I am a caring & compassionate person almost to a fault; some would say that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm the type of person who will put your needs above my own and far too many times which has caused me to be taken advantage of too many times in relationships. I am a simple person who enjoys the simple things in life, not high maintenance in the slightest bit. I like to have fun, joke & laugh, I'm rather sarcastic & slightly foul mouthed at times. I am an affectionate person & absolutely love to kiss and cuddle however I am also very strong independent and yes at times a little stubborn (I'm Irish/French, that's my excuse & I'm stickin to it lol). For those who see the BBW part of my info and get scared away I want to make clear that I am a smaller BBW and I carry my weight well, I am currently 204lbs and loosing :-)****IMPORTANT NEED TO KNOW INFORMATION BEFORE CONTACTING ME***********I was recently diagnosed with a Meningioma Brain Tumor. It is noncancerous however it is not just a blob in my skull that's just sitting there causing no harm to me so I'm not for the weak type. I need somebody up for the challenge to walk beside me not behind me. The road with my BT hasn't got bumpy yet but in time it will. I love music of all genres; preferably alternative, classic rock & modern rock/pop;; of course Zepplin. Movies I prefer horror/comedy/drama/suspense; favorites are The Notebook, Wizard of Oz, Seven. Favorite tv shows are The Walking Dead & Sons of Anarchy, favorite sports are WWE, Nascar, MMA (even though I don't follow it I enjoy watching it). When it comes to reading I like true crime or suspense. My kids are my everything, I'm all that they have had for a VERY long time so you must like kids! They are all teenagers & 1 is a special needs child due to ADHD/BIPOLAR/ODD so if you aren't a patient & understanding man please pass me by. I'm not a Xbox that was put on this earth to be played.........can somebody show me that sincere men aren't a myth? I have been cheated on physically & emotionally, I have been used financially as well as other ways, I have been pushed aside to see if the grass is greener on the other side and I am on the verge of giving up I can't stand to be lied to and anyone who can look you in the eyes and have no problems with their conscience at all then they would have no problems telling you a lie about anything, even cheating. I don't need that kind of bullshit. I don't expect perfection but I do want somebody who is willing to show & prove to me that he wants nobody else but me Dinner? A movie? Drinks? A walk? Coffee? It all Depends on the the person

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jonie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hmmmm... It has bn brought to my attn more thn once actually tht I should chng my profile & quit lying, tht I don't Reeeaalllyyyy want a man BLAH BLAH BLAH- So I decided to keep it exactly th way I alrdy had it bc it's TRUE : )I am a down to earth, funny, extraverted yet laidback kinda girl...I used to run from commitment, pushing relationships away & thn they broke my heart- who could blame thm. But it was me all along. It has tkn me a long time to get where I am. I wouldn't chng anything! On th same hand, I value to the very core of me, my journey & what I will & will not settle for - We're all looking for companionship in some manner. We're just built in that fashion. I miss SKIN & craving someone so badly, you get butterflies when they walk in the room. You MUST fully love yourself inside & out, otherwise you're not able to completely love me! I hate RELIGION but I do love God:) He's pretty cool... I go to school PT- I've done hair for 10 years & I'm about to go back to work *** the salon PT& I have 2 amazing boys who are 12&7 & they absolutely ROCK my world' - [props2GudSingle mothers] ## give yourself more credit by being a good parent! JS...I by all means do not "need" a man, however, I "want" a man- I'm not afraid to try new things, unless it's funky textured food, I can play any sport there is to play. I catch on pretty quick & I believe there is a PRICE for everything! I do not play games, lie, cheat nor do I create any unnecessary drama;/ those things are effortless! I like to make choices that empower & make me respect myself. Huge turn ons for me are; integrity, morals, values & I love raw, genuine, consistent people. I DO believe in PERFECT timing•I talk big & my walk is even bigger ; } This site is easily mistakened for being a "modern day whore house-call" (if you will) so if these are your intentions, please do not waste my time' I'm okay with doing pretty much anything & hanging out as long as you are cool like me lol JK:) maybe something brief like green tea or coffee & chat for a few & totally play it by ear.

  • Mikki

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    So what brings me here to the vast ocean of fish you ask? Great question. I am happily single and enjoying life to its fullest. I do miss being in the type of relationship where you cannot get enough of that one person. Where you want to share everything, well most everything with them first and hear about all their thoughts to. The quiet nights in the hot tub where no one else matters. Where you have your own brand of sarcasm that no one else seems to get. Who am I looking for? A man who follows the golden rule, enjoys children and sometimes acts like one himself, remembers to laugh, enjoys my smile, understands that relationships take work and isn't afraid to go for it. And one is not married or in a relationship already. Honesty is a necessary trait. How about you? What makes you weak in the knees from excitement? I'd love to hear. Too much?

  • Shulamit

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Actions speak louder than words. It's not the things you say that are important, it's the things you do that prove everything.....(I truly believe that). I am a hardworking single mother of one, but I enjoy letting my hair down and having a good time with good people. Life isn't all about work! I'm fortunate to have them in my life, not to mention my legion of close friends. I'm comfortable enough in my own skin to have a strong sense of self, and I'm not afraid to expose my flaws. I love to stay up late on weekends -whether it's to party, have sex or read a good book, but I always sleep in on weekends. I'm looking for a man who not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and challenge one another. Could you be him? I'm not interested in playing games. I'm ready to stand still with someone. Truth is, I'm just a nice girl (most of the time), who is looking for a nice guy to have some adventures with. I have learned these things in life...You can't sweat the small stuff, literally. Not even worth it. What is going on in your life probably won't even matter in a year. It's better to understand than be understood. I'm not perfect, please don't expect me to be, and last but not least... The 49ers will tear your heart out, but it's fun to have something outside yourself to root for together, unless your a Bengal fan, then a little friendly rivalry is always fun!Now, the most important question is... what in the world are you waiting for?? My idea of a perfect date: It doesn’t involve a chain restaurant, a roller coaster or a movie. It may involve eating, excitement or entertainment. It definitely involves me, you and a long drawn-out moment where we don’t want to say goodnight.

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