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Rachal, 38

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About Me

I'm a single mom of 3 I am a caring & compassionate person almost to a fault; some would say that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm the type of person who will put your needs above my own and far too many times which has caused me to be taken advantage of too many times in relationships. I am a simple person who enjoys the simple things in life, not high maintenance in the slightest bit. I like to have fun, joke & laugh, I'm rather sarcastic & slightly foul mouthed at times. I am an affectionate person & absolutely love to kiss and cuddle however I am also very strong independent and yes at times a little stubborn (I'm Irish/French, that's my excuse & I'm stickin to it lol). For those who see the BBW part of my info and get scared away I want to make clear that I am a smaller BBW and I carry my weight well, I am currently 204lbs and loosing :-)****IMPORTANT NEED TO KNOW INFORMATION BEFORE CONTACTING ME***********I was recently diagnosed with a Meningioma Brain Tumor. It is noncancerous however it is not just a blob in my skull that's just sitting there causing no harm to me so I'm not for the weak type. I need somebody up for the challenge to walk beside me not behind me. The road with my BT hasn't got bumpy yet but in time it will. I love music of all genres; preferably alternative, classic rock & modern rock/pop;; of course Zepplin. Movies I prefer horror/comedy/drama/suspense; favorites are The Notebook, Wizard of Oz, Seven. Favorite tv shows are The Walking Dead & Sons of Anarchy, favorite sports are WWE, Nascar, MMA (even though I don't follow it I enjoy watching it). When it comes to reading I like true crime or suspense. My kids are my everything, I'm all that they have had for a VERY long time so you must like kids! They are all teenagers & 1 is a special needs child due to ADHD/BIPOLAR/ODD so if you aren't a patient & understanding man please pass me by. I'm not a Xbox that was put on this earth to be played.........can somebody show me that sincere men aren't a myth? I have been cheated on physically & emotionally, I have been used financially as well as other ways, I have been pushed aside to see if the grass is greener on the other side and I am on the verge of giving up I can't stand to be lied to and anyone who can look you in the eyes and have no problems with their conscience at all then they would have no problems telling you a lie about anything, even cheating. I don't need that kind of bullshit. I don't expect perfection but I do want somebody who is willing to show & prove to me that he wants nobody else but me Dinner? A movie? Drinks? A walk? Coffee? It all Depends on the the person

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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