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ShalaOffline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Ultimately, what you should get out of this is that just be kind. To me, to anyone you meet in all parts of your life, whether it's in a professional or personal setting. Don't be hurtful. Keep your promises. Honor your commitments.. Don't lie. Accept rejection gracefully.I generally don't have many set requirements for my date, but you need to be over your freaking ex. I'm tired of being the rebound girl and watching you pining over the girl that dumped you months ago... if you're just separated, and I don't care for how long, please don't waste our time. Please also have time to date. That's awesome that your work keeps you busy, but if dates are once every two or three weeks, no. You don't have time to date. I can be pretty patient but that's a bit much. Also - communication is awesome. Turns out you can't read someone else's mind and lack of it happens to kill relationships.What I've gathered from most of the profiles out there: You're down to earth, you want the same in a chick, you love life and live it to the fullest, you're active and want someone the same (read: no fat chicks... or even average... because, you know, you're perfect), you want someone without drama. And somehow you all have midwestern values. WTF is that, really? Decent guys come from everywhere. :) You're sarcastic, you love hiking, you are all chivalrous (uh, opening the door is just good manners, whether it's for a girl or anyone else), and you think you're the best thing since sliced bread but no one gives you a chance or a second look. You're honest and you don't play games (HA!!); you work hard to play hard, you love to travel, you're not here for a hookup.I tell it like it is but I won't be hurtful (intentionally). Sarcasm is my buddy. If I say "wow look at that! I wish I had one!" That is in no way a hint that I think you should get it for me. Apparently there are chicks that think this? Really? I'm not here for your money, I'm here for a partner to hold my hand and help me face the world. *I have a foul mouth but I can behave like a lady when necessary.*The strawberries are mine. You can move along now.*I love to bake. I would not be a good choice if you require a gluten-free diet.*Here's the cliche "I love to smile" but dammit, I really do.**;Flag". The "staff" is silent. *Hiking isn't all that bad when it isn't warmer than 80 degrees... which leaves maybe a month every year that hiking is acceptable.*I sometimes laugh too loudly*I love to wear heels but haven't had much of a chance lately.*I love cats (have three, shorthair) and dogs are pretty cool, too. I'll supply the claritin or zyrtec if need be.*I will support your causes if you support mine. I'm a great cheerleader, minus the outfit.*I am loyal*I am generous*I will do anything (legal!) for the one I love.*I rarely wear makeup*I have the worst memory*I'm politically incorrect*I've given up on stellar grammar as a requirement, now it's more or less that I'm fine with passable grammar/spelling.*I love country dancing (don't worry, I have a partner so I won't be dragging you with me)*I have two boys, ages 13 and 16. The older one lives with me, the other with his dad. There is no need for a sitter so this will not affect my ability to date.*I go to the gym ***days a week. Just started though, so I'm waiting for some results...*I am a skeptic. If you're gonna quote stats and shit, you better have the sources.*I have a lot of things in my interests sections - Just because it's there doesn't mean I'm an expert on the matter or even good at it. They're just things I enjoy.*Just because I say I like tattoos and piercings, it does not mean that you have to have any.*Religious apologists... theists... I'm sorry, but no.Oh, and - sunglasses on your forehead look dumb. Seriously, don't do it. Top of your head, fine. Literally right above your eyes, just don't even *** also find it rather lame that a lot of guys are shaving a few years ***is not a few!) off their actual age so that they can get around POF's age/contact rule. Makes you seem kinda pervy, really. DUDE. A 22 yr old chick doesn't wanna date your 50 year old ass unless you've got lots of money! In my experience, most of you don't...WOW y'all are nuts. OK OK, not all of you. But geez, if I send a "thanks but no thanks" ***, replying "Whatever" or "I wasn't interested in you anyway" isn't bowing out gracefully. These were from guys that said they're not like the others... So if you're "not like the other guys" and it turns out I'm not interested, keep it classy. One final thing: You can justify almost anything just so long as you say "for science!" Trust me. It works. I enjoy hiking, and thankfully it is finally hiking weather. Mini-golf may seem like more of a teenagers' date, but seriously. It's a heck of a lot of fun. I'm terrible. I swear at the ball. I swear at the course. I swear at my golf partner. Sometimes I even swear at myself. BUT. I don't cheat. If it takes me 14 attempts, I write down 14. Maybe in your column, but whatever... Movies, as long as there is ample time for talk afterwards, is actually just fine. I want to see my date's sense of humor. Food is always good... especially burgers, as long as they're not from some fast food joint (that's second date). Maybe even a walk in the park.
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LawannaOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Hi there!I could keep this simple or write in detail. Either way I guess I need to write something that is going to catch your attention. What could I possibly say that is going to set me apart from the many other profiles that you sit down and sift through in your free time (or perhaps when you should be working during the day but can't help yourself to look at one more profile)? Honestly, I would rather you check out my pictures- read the following basics and if there is an interest to know more then you can *** perhaps we can take it from there... :) I would rather chat with you in *** twice, talk on the phone and then go have coffee or an adult beverage! So much more fun!! Right? I have no interest in talking in *** for weeks on end. Let's just get to the point... a date, it either works or it doesn't! Simple enough... So if I had 30 seconds or less to tell you a few things about me; you know, my elevator pitch- here is what I would throw at you:I turned 39 years old this May ***. I have a son in high school and a daughter in college. I am very active, like to work out, keep a clean house, love people and I keep myself social and out and about. I am not a couch potato. I have wonderful friends, great family. I love my heels and my sneakers! I am looking for my partner in crime. I am a lot of fun and need 'that' MATCH!.. He needs to be clean cut, active, interested in his health/fitness. He has to be FUN! No couch potatoes... Yes, this girl enjoys social gala's and attends several a year. It means getting all dressed up with somewhere to go! However, up to this point I go alone and I would love to have a handsome guy at my side, holding my hand. :) Lastly, he needs to be able to adore a strong minded, independent, outgoing woman (who has a sweet, sensitive, affectionate side).Well, there you go.... a little bit to think about. :) I am up for (almost) anything. I am old fashioned and prefer you plan the date. Just give me a place and time! Simple or more, I am easy going.
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AngeliaOffline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
I am a girly girl but I'm not high maintenance.. Im a jeans and tshirt kind of girl but I can also throw on a pair of heels and a cute outfit to go with my special someone.. I tend to be a little shy at first but once I open up I'm a blast to be around.i love getting tattoos and guys with tattos..i love country music,sport specially hockey and nascar, camping and sitting around a bon fire, going to the dirt track and mud boggs,or just watching a movie and enjoying time with a special someone.. I love just packing up the car and taking a road trip .. I have a job I absolutely love and I am furthering my education so I can go work for hospice.. caring for others is my passion..I am strong and independent and not looking to jump into anything to quick and im not looking for some random hook up.. when the time is right and I find ?the ?the right person he will be a strong hard working man who's loyal and faithful with a strong moral foundation.. who respects me as a woman and who I can care for like a man should be cared for.. I want a best friend and lover I can grow old with.. I'm honest and genuine and love unconditionally and if I give you my heart you can trust that its yours.. there.is a lot more to me than a paragraph so if u want to knw just ask I'm open and honest I have nothing to hide I like the person I am flaws and all..Profile update:Okay seriously guys I'm not on here looking to come to your house and cuddle tonight or have you give me a.massage or give you one..I'm not looking for a booty call.. I'm not going to.send u naked pictures of myself and I sure don't want any of you.. if that's what your looking for then good for you I know there are girls out there down for that but its just not my style.. so please don't waste either of our time its not gonna happen.. and have enough respect for me as a person and a woman to not proposition me or ask its very offensive to me A dinner on the tailgate of a truck under the moon and stars.. or a hockey or football game and a few beers.