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Nolene, 33

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About Me

I am wanting to take things very slowly at this point. I am still pretty fresh out of a relationship and in the healing phase. I don't have a lot of free time, as I work a lot and spend a lot of time with my family, but when I get the time, I enjoy hanging out with friends, shooting pool, and singing karaoke (that's definitely not all I enjoy doing, but given the time of day that my free time usually occurs, that's what I end up doing). **A side note: you must be able to actually hold a conversation to catch my attention.I plan on adding things as they come to mind, so please bear with me...this profile is a work in progress...I want to find someone that has similar interests as me. Someone who is trustworthy. Having a job is important, because it shows responsibility. (I currently work 2 jobs...one for almost ***years, and the other for almost 8 years) I do have children, so you must be kid-friendly. I don't mind if you have a kid (or kids), but I do not/cannot have any more. If you harm my children, I WILL hurt you!Religious preference does not bother me, but please do not push your views on me...I am not quite sure what I am at this point, but I do believe in treating others as you wish to be treated.....karma can be a b*!ch if you make the wrong choices, but she can be your best friend as well...You must be musically open. I love ALL styles of music, and my mood/what happens to be on the radio tends to determine what I am listening to at any given moment. I have played piano, cello, and guitar, but no longer practice any form of music except singing due to physical ailments. But none-the-less, music has played a huge part in my life. Intelligence is important to me, as it can be boring to be with someone of an either higher or lesser intelligence-levelI'm definitely one-of-a-kind (although, aren't we all really?)....i'm a little bit country, a little bit rock-n-roll.....and a few other things tossed in for an interesting mix.I like to keep my house tidy, although that can sometimes be tough between children and work......are you bored yet? lol......I'm a single child, raised by split parentsI am not homophobic, prejudiced, or close-minded in any way, and anyone I date must share that similarity.I am completely open and honest (sometimes to a fault) when asked a question, but tend to be guarded until I trust a person. I do drink (socially, for the most part), and I smoke marijuana (I do have my medical permit), so if that is a problem, please refrain from messaging me (but just because I do, doesn't mean you have to).I recently quit smoking cigarettes on ***. So, anyone I date must also be a non-smoker. I do not wish to ever start back up again. This is all I can think of at this time...One more thing to add at this point. Communication is key to ANY kind of relationship... I don't want to go on any dates, but hanging out and singing karaoke sounds like fun to me :) ...of course, I am open to ideas....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jayme

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I\'m not the person for you if you like to be controlled or tell you what you need to do (find someone else). My partner has to be responsible, have a job/career and a car (and please no children).

  • Carlos

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I love to cook when I have people to feed, dance when I have a partner to teach me, sing when nobody can hear me and laugh, even when I don't have others to do it with.I have lived abroad and would love to again, despite being a native Californian. I love to travel and if I had to live out of a suitcase, I could.....but not forever! I have friends all over the world, literally. I'd love to fill another passport and go visit them all. I like making a house a home. I enjoy entertaining. My house often has laughter in it and it will stay that way! I have a love of laughter and a sarcastic/snarky sense of humor. I'd rather play a sport or watch it in a stadium than on TV. I can appreciate all sports, but 5 hours in front of the TV isn't really my thing. Even during the Super Bowl I need to have a distraction. I truly enjoy going to a game and the one thing I'm passionate about are good teams with a lot of heart, like the Red Sox. If you're a Yankees fan, this may be bad! I have family and friends all over SoCal, so I'm often taking mini-road-trips to LA, OC and the desert. It may be cliche, but I really am up for anything. I'll try it once! It leads to great stories. I have stories too! I pride myself on being a great conversationalist. I talk to anybody, anywhere, even if we don't speak the same language!I'd like to find someone to share my life with...the good, the bad AND the ugly. I've done life alone for quite a while, so sharing it sounds more fun :) I say, we all have our own quirks and "baggage"....I'm just looking for someone with coordinating luggage. I'm looking for someone who wants a partner. Someone with balance. If you aren't honest, loyal and confident, please don't contact me :) I am extremely loyal, I can be the best friend you never knew you had. I don't take friendship lightly and would give nearly anything for the people in my life. Also, if you have a substance abuse issue (including mary jane for those that think it's not a problem) or if you are (or "were") into men, I'm not interested. Good luck in your search! If you're still reading, here's some nitty-gritty for you: I am honest. I don't sugar-coat. I don't lie for the sake of making someone feel ok/better/unharmed. I think too many people have too thin a skin and get offended entirely too easily. Lighten up!! I won't lie to you. You may say it's brutal honesty, but when did it become "brutal" to be truthful? I should mention I abhor cats. I don't drink milk or eat sour cream. I love vegetables but couldn't live without meat. I sing in the car, but not the shower. I transform to a major goffball around kids, even when adults are looking. I think having similar political and religious views is pivotal to a solid relationship. Agreeing on every single item isn't neccessary, but a foundation of similarity is important. If you aren't, we may not mesh well. I would not call my self a Republican (I didn't vote for Obama OR McCain, but I did vote!) but I am conservative on some issues. Politically I am left of right and right of left, just not an intermediate! :) If you can't respectfully have a discussion of topics and feel it vital for your match to be a leftwing Democrat, I am not her. Best of luck in your search!

  • Stephen

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hey! I have an awesome 8 yr old daughter that lives with me most of the time. I love football (Go Broncos!!!!), I like going to movies, dinner, the theater or doing just about anything as long as I'm with someone. I work a lot during the week so I try to keep my weekends free for whatever comes up. I'm mainly looking for a considerate, personable and easy going guy. Someone that has their life together even though I realize we all have our issues or things in our past that sometimes need to be dealt with. I would love to find someone that likes to have fun but can also just relax at home on rainy days and watch movies. A non smoker is a must!!!!!I admit I'm not the most outgoing person but I'm not opposed to meeting outgoing guys. Maybe we would balance each other out. :)Send me a message if you're interested. I'll reply. Maybe. ;)I'm also a Christian and would prefer meeting someone that shares the same values as me. Dont worry, I'm far from judgemental and not narrow minded but I pride myself on having good morals and can't stand a lot of profanity or any kind of drug use. I try to go to church but I haven't found one here yet. One last thing! I like guys with a nice smile and that shower daily. Other than that I'm not too picky. :)OKAY! Apparently I need to add that I'm not looking for just a hook-up and if your message to me just says "hey," "hi," etc.....I probably won't reply. If I get messages about any of that it means you didn't read my profile so how could you tell if you were really interested anyway? K thanks! :)

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