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Marchelle, 32

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About Me

That being said...I'm a free-spirited, fun-loving girl that enjoys making people laugh. I believe that Laughter is the absolute, best medicine for any given situation. Hence the reason why I'm usually the comic relief of my group.I'm working as a Server/Bartender, and hoping to get back to school within the next year. Its been a long process, but I've almost got all my ducks in a row. Once I do, I'll be attending school to obtain my Bachelor's in Photography. I feel at home behind a camera. Definitely more at home behind the lens than in front of it. LOL! I want to be able to share beauty with the world. I want to take the ordinary, that we see every day, and translate it into something beautiful that makes people stop and take a second to reevaluate what they see when they look at it.I'm an eternal optimist. I can find the good in just about any situation. And I'm always looking for that silver lining, no matter how tattered it might be. I don't see the point in being pessimistic. Life's too short to not be able to take something good away from every encounter.I can't say that I'm necessarily looking for forever right now, but I'm not opposed to looking for a right now that could turn into forever. I just don't want to put any pressure on it to happen right away. I'm looking for someone that I can enjoy hanging out and spending time with while we get to know each other better. Working in a bar, I get to meet a lot of people, but if any of you have spent time in bars, you know that they're not really the place to go to find a "relationship". Just sayin.My match must love animals, kids, smiling, random conversations about whatever pops up, thunderstorms, roller coasters, and spontaneity. I'm usually a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl. Seems like every time I try to make plans, things go wrong or they fall through, so I've found that not making plans has a tendency to work out better.So, that's me...kinda. Its hard to put the ball of energy and light that I am into words. If you like what you've read and would like to know more, drop me a line. And one of my favorite quotes..."You have to embrace the chaos, if you do, life just might surprise you!"Disclaimer:I am a bi-sexual girl who is just looking for someone to treat me right. I've tried dating guys for the majority of my adult life and haven't found one that was truly worthwhile and worthy of me. Maybe its time that i stop looking for a man to share my life with and *** a girlfriend i can grow with. I came out to my parents at the age of 21, so my family knows and accepts it. I haven't dated a woman, but i'd like to find a friend that could end up as something amazing.I don't want any pretty lies. I'm over the games, I'm over the B.S. I offer straight-forward honesty and expect the same in return. So, if that's too much to ask, then please don't message me.If you do decide after all of this to send me a message, please be original. Send me something that's gonna set you apart from everyone else. Originality is a great thing, and deserves respect. It will be greatly appreciated from this end. :) I believe a first date is one in which you can at least hear each other talk without having to yell to be heard. Bars are great, because they're public, but if you can't hear the person you're trying to get to know, doesn't that kind of defeat the purpose? LOLSame with movies...I love going to see movies in the theater, but again, how are you supposed to get to know someone if you're sitting in a dark room where strangers will get mad if you keep talking? LOLI guess, for me, an ideal first date, would be a meal of some kind, whether its lunch, dinner, or coffee and a danish interspersed with intelligent conversation, and a joke or two...what can I say, I'm all about the laughter. Then maybe, if we hit it off we can decide together what to do after that.Like I said, I'm not really much of a planner. Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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