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Herbie, 40

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About Me

I'm a genuine bloke whose, whose been separated for 2 years and looking to meet the right person for the long term. I'm rubbish at chat up lines - but then again if is was any good at them I wouldn't be on here. Quite shy at first but get to know me and I won't shut up. I love romance, spontaneity, passion, humour, open expression, kissing, holding hands and kissing in the rain. Humour is very important to me, laughter is good for the soul.Like most people love going to gigs and listening to music. Anything from Indie, rock, house and hip hop. I like going out for drinks or meal but just as much enjoy staying in with the 'right' person to chill out with a glass of wine and a take away. If you want to find out more feel free to contact me. Coffee, drink and if it's going well maybe a meal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ben

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    Those close to me would describe me as a caring, loyal friend. I have had the same close friends in my life for over 20 years, and am very fortunate to have them in my life. I am a genuine, honest person who is not afraid to speak my mind - I expect the same in return, as I have no respect for people who placate. I am a single father with a beautiful 5 year old daughter. She is with me every weekend, and is the number one priority in my life. I hope to find someone who will enjoy sharing this amazing ride with me! I am a very active person, working out six days a week and spending a lot of my free time during the warmer months outside. I enjoy going up to Lake Tahoe and taking in its beauty. I would like to find someone who enjoys being active and spending time outdoors.The things I am looking for in a partner are honesty and kindness. I am a very optimistic person, and tend to run the other direction when drama is always present. I am attracted to a women who is independently strong but chooses to share a common middle ground with her partner.If you have made it this far, then perhaps there might be the possibility of chemistry between us. As a great quote describes, "It's not about what happened in the past, or what you think might happen in the future. It's about the ride. There is no point in going through the rigors of life, if you are not going to enjoy the ride. And you know what... when you least expect it something great might come along. Something better then you even planned for."Talk to you soon~ There are plenty of great adventures to be had on a first date. Without getting into too many details, I will say that the company is far more important than the setting!

  • Norrie

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I am a Guy who enjoys the simple things in life. I am very laid back and I expect the same from you. I enjoy weekend trips and camping. I also enjoy couch time at home. I have just recently started training for a 5k. A running partner would be great. If interested *** let's see what happens

  • Long

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    Who am I? Let's see... I'm adventurous, outgoing, and have a great sense of humor. I lean more towards the sarcastic and witty side of things. If you know anything about personality types, I'm the classic ENTP. I like fast toys, red wine, a good martini, and enjoy trying new foods. I love sushi, Indian, and Thai food. I also love to cook (seriously; it's the cleaning part that I hate). I'm open minded, honest, and I love to laugh. I think intelligence is much sexier than makeup. I'm addicted to ice cream and toy stores. I love to spend time with friends and family. I'm not a die hard health nut, but I do place a lot of value on being fit and healthy; if those are qualities that aren't very important to you, there's a good chance we're not right for each other. That also means that if you smoke, I'm not interested. I love dogs, and I recently rescued/adopted a pit bull who was stuck in a shelter for a year, and was living on the streets for a long time before that. She's the sweetest pup ever, and she melts hearts everywhere she goes. She's a huge part of my life. I also love to travel; I've been to 27 states and 9 countries so far, and counting. I've got a lot more on the list. I enjoy pretty much any type of music except country, and I enjoy getting to concerts when time permits.There's obviously a whole lot more to me than just this, so give a shout!Update: I admit that I'm selective in my replies. I'm only on here from my phone, so typing long responses doesn't really happen. I also don't need to make life long pen pals from people who can't handle a polite "no thanks" so, thanks to those people, I've stopped doing that. Apologies in advance if I don't reply to you, and best wishes in your search! To better help see if we're a match, I've listed what I like above; here are a few things that definitely won't get a reply from me. Again, apologies, but I won't reply to you if:-You don't have a picture. I also don't buy houses or cars sight unseen. Bet you don't either. Go figure.-You can't figure out how to rotate your picture(s) so I don't have to rotate my head.-All of your pictures are kissy-face-bathroom-mirror-with-a-crappy-cameraphone shots. I want someone social. Get out with some friends, and take some pics. If you don't have friends, ask a stranger or buy a homeless person a cup of coffee or something.-You don't smile. Smiles are sexy, and no one wants someone miserable. Be happy.-You live more than ***minutes away. That's just not going to work.-You missed the part where I said fitness and being healthy are important to me, both in myself and in my partner.-You live with your parents. I'm 35 with my own house; I'm not asking for your parents' permission to watch movies in their basement.-You believe the letters c, u, n, b, r, and y are actually words, and you use them as such. Same goes for numbers.-You send me a one word message. "Hi" and "hello" are nice things to say to someone in passing; put a little effort into something you send to someone you're attracted to. They'll appreciate it.-You feel the need to push your religious or political views anywhere in your profile/pics. -Your pictures are of landscapes. If you aren't in the picture, you probably shouldn't use it on a dating site. Pretty simple rule of thumb.-You don't have a sarcastic sense of humor. See all of the above ;)Thanks!:) I don't really believe in an "ideal" first date; it depends on the people. As long as it's something fun that involves good conversation, joking around, and seeing if there's chemistry, I think it's a good date. No, really. That would be amazing.Hey, it was worth a shot... ;)

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