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Ellan, 35
United States, Arkansas, El Dorado

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Let’s just cut through the bs. Honestly, do we really base much on what is written in these or more upon the photos? My vote is on the photos. Most of you probably won’t read beyond the first few sentences of this and that’s ok because you cannot possibly get to know me from anything I write on here. I could write anything to peak interest but, whether or not someone messages me will be based most likely on my picture and my eyes not my bio. But, if you’re interested to know more…read on.My favorite color is green. Not pine green or grass green, chartreuse. I love the fall, the crisp air, the beautiful colors of the trees changing, boots and sweaters, snuggling and pumpkins. I have a secret love for adrenaline. I'm addicted to nail polish. I’ve been driving the same car for over 13 years, she will likely be retired after this winter. I believe that shows my loyalty or strong reluctance to have a car payment. I'm a tomboy at heart but, I can be very girly at times. I have learned to enjoy naps. I’m a very good cook and feel at home in a kitchen. When I’m thinking, nervous or tired I play with my hair. I paint. It’s how I meditate. I’m very sensitive to other’s feelings. I recognize things that others sometimes don’t. I love the water and want to live near, on or in it. I like a lot of affection and to know that I’m wanted. I’m very sarcastic. If I pick on you it’s because I like you. I would live barefoot if I could, preferably on sand. I don’t like the holidays. The greed, rushing around and loss of meaning makes me ill to think about. I’ve always wanted to be a dancer. I have 2 tattoos and I want many more. So, that’s a bunch of useless information about me that makes up part of my character. Now, onto the good stuff…values, principles and desires.I hate lying. It’s toxic like a virus. Lies multiply and they tear apart relationships. I believe in helping those less fortunate. My work involves helping children with disabilities both physical and neurological. So, I am greatly bothered by prejudices toward those who are afflicted in any way. I am not religious but, I do have many spiritual beliefs and I strongly believe in karma. I’m not looking for someone perfect, just someone who’s honest and done playing games. I want sparks. I want to be intrigued, challenged even. I have very strong convictions and I don’t generally budge on them but I don’t get angry and I don’t like to argue, unless there’s something really good in the makeup process. I would like to be with someone who I can have discussions with about things that actually matter. There’s much more to life than the small bubbles we live in and I would like to find a man who realizes that also. I don't fantasize that I can change the world but, I do believe that we each have the ability to leave our mark in some way. Even if it's in the smallest gesture of kindness we can.We are all complex individuals with different wants, needs and desires.’s ok to let it go. I think that too often we hang on to things long after they are done because we are creatures of habit. Basically, I hope to find someone that I connect with and the connection is so strong it won't burn out. Even if it fades at times it will always remain. Mutually agreed upon.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

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