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Becka, 35

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About Me

I am very open and talkative in a social environment but enjoy the solace of my own space too. I tend to be way too sweet for my own good. I see beauty in the simple things in life but tend to drown in the more decadent side. I love exploring all the breathtaking secret places this world has. I enjoy reading, gardening, cooking, fishing & poetry. I love barbecuing with friends & family. I want to do the whole cooking dinner together and going for walks, enjoying a ride in the mountains or staying in and watching movies until we fall asleep. Doesn't matter as long as I laughed & got to know someone better.Once we're better acquainted, I love going to the farmers market & selecting some fresh ingredients and a good wine. Cooking up a mouthwatering dinner & cozying up with a great movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Twanda

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi there! Welcome to my profile~ I think that life is too short to be taken too seriously but also one should be open to finding love and a special connection, even if its online. Being a busy person I haven't had much luck trying to meet people and the dating pool is very small here, so I figured I'd give this a shot. I'm an optimist that needs to believe that my special person is out there and I need to at least meet the Universe half-way on making an effort in finding him. Please don't take it personally if I don't respond to you, I'm just super picky (and you all should be too with our millions of users, we need to narrow it down somehow!) I just know exactly the type of guy I'm looking for. I'm a pretty self-sufficient individual that loves my freedom, my many blessings in life and my family and friends whom I try never to take for granted. I am fortunate enough to have work that I love at a local hospital and I've got plans to graduate with a bachelor's degree in environmental and sustainability studies with a minor in anthropology from the U in about Spring ***. I have a few ideas what I'd like to do afterwards but we'll see what options may lie ahead when I get there. I'd also like to pursue a master's degree in a wildlife ecology conservation degree maybe about a year after this degree but I need time off to travel and get some experience in my field. This year I have taught myself how to crochet and I will be become one of the cliched 'single ladies with a cat' soon as I want to adopt a cat for my birthday present to myself this year. I have one beta fish right now as well. (We can't have dogs at my apt., but right now a dog would be too much responsibilty, down the line I'd love to have a few dogs that I can train to be therapy dogs and take to visit people in the hospital). My dream is to find my place that feels like home and accrue a small urban farm with a little collection of rescue animals and do the whole organic sustainable garden lifestyle, I'm not a full-on hippie, but I think that its a really necessary thing to be able to take care of yourself and keep connected with the Earth and nature. I'm equal parts city chick and nature lady. I've never been to Europe but I know I'll love it and want to stay a while. Maybe we can go together? Around here, I've become a complete hiking nut and go all year-round with my best friend and whomever will join us. I love music of all kinds with few exceptions (Country is just NOT in my blood thank you very much! Everyone has a soft spot for Johnny Cash though). Attending the operas every season is very important to me, you don't have to go or like it, but I can talk about the reasons why I love it for hours...you'll also find me dancing to rave/techno/trance/beats antique style music and I was pretty into punk rock/goth/rave music for much of my early 20's. Traveling, exploring and adventure are all in my blood as well. Timing for me currently is terrible to try and do much of it while I'm in school, but this summer I went on my first back-packing trip to Kaua'i's Na' Pali coast with my bestie and her two boys. Next year we're going to Australia and New Zealand to visit her Dad while he's still around (an important trip I'd say!). I've also been to a number of international locations but most of the really exotic ones were when I was younger. Time to also get my passport renewed! As much as I love traveling~ I also really love to have a place to call home and feel comfortable. I do like stability as much as the adventure. I'm really not an adrenaline junkie, in fact I'd rather stay home and watch movies or read a book than sky dive. I guess I'm kind of an oddball. Actually, really more of a nerd to be quite honest. I get really into Arthurian mythology, archaeology, science, animals...random things that most people don't really get into..and I'm totally attracted to like-minded individuals who have passions and don't care what other people think. There's just something so sexy about an intelligent guy with a sense of humor. Speaking of guys.... (If you can't show your teeth in your 'bait' photos, it makes me nervous of what's in there... I don't care if you work out every day or have a few extra places to love, I just care about your health and that you do too. If you can't find joy in some kind of physical activity (besides sex) than we might not have that much to connect over. I'm scared of bicycle riding around here so I don't (too many deaths and accidents) and I'm 'over' skiing as I did so much of it growing up, plus its expensive and I'd rather spend my time and money learning something new. I like rock climbing but haven't been able to do a ton of it (yet) and I like going to yoga when I can. I want to know about you, what you love about your life, what your goals and dreams are, if you get along with your family, if you have pets, passions, interests, strange but cool stories, have a zest for life but with a healthy measure of balance and grounding, if you are 'spiritual, but not religious' on some level, are not a litter bug or complete slob, if you care about yourself and have decent self-esteem (I can't tell you how many depressed guys I've dated, and after working so hard on myself I just need someone who's optimistic and decidedly happy in their life). If you are also finding that the thing you're missing in your life is someone to share it all with and to come home to. If things get serious, I'd be completely open to marriage and having a little family at some point, but no rush. I'm not baby crazy and there's no need to rush things, I just think I'd be really good at both if the right guy came along. I guess if you're that guy then you're into that possibility too.) sounds romantic, trecking off the beaten path to discover ancien Coffee / brunch date is the best for the very first meeting. Public spaces are good. Alcohol is not necessary to make a good impression. If you're a complete dork and we have chemistry, I'll probably like you.

  • Jestine

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    First if your looking for a one night stand keep on moving, just have to put it out there, if your offended I can only say its better to be honest. Also I am a bit of a smart ass and tease those I love:)If you snow board lets chat!! I love to laugh! Laughter is my medicine! I am looking for my best friend I want to be the couple everyone is jealous of! I want to feel that love and passion for the rest of my life with my best friend. Not too much to ask right?? lolI am very sarcastic and outgoing! However I do have a sensitive side and can be shy at times. One word that describes me is "real"! I am a horrible liar and you will always know how I feel. ( you will either love that or hate it***thing I often hear from friends and family is that I am genuine. I hope to find a man who has the same quality.I work as an American Sign Language Interpreter and have done that for the past few years. I am also a full time student at the U studying to become a special ed teacher.I have three kids. Ages 11 and boy and girl twins age 7! ..I think its important for us as parents to find ways to relax and enjoy our times with the kids. I am working on trying to enjoy the "now" and not worry so much what happens next...I like to read, play outside with my kids, swimming with the kids, movie night at home in the living room, snuggling with my sweet children, funny shows, playing games with friends and family , going to comedy clubs, a good drink SNOWBOARDING, snowshoeing. I enjoy excercsing and being outdoors...some of my favorite tv shows include The Office, The Community, and Arrested Development! ] I also LOVE to travel.I am self examining and always working at being the best I can be...What I’ I am also a full student and mom. I am stuyding to become a Special Ed teacher and will graduate in 2 years.

  • Elysia

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Pre- P.S.: Why, oh WHY would you put pics on here with you surrounded by hot women?!? Trying to make me jealous already? It's intimidating, I'll just flat at tell you that, and THAT is probably why no one is messaging you, so stop b!itching about it. I'll just put that out there for you. Carry on.I am a single mom of two adorable children (who doesn't think their own kids are the cutest ever?) and I do shared parenting with them. I work from home as a freelance artist (portraits, murals, painting). I'm unique, outspoken, honest, liberal, very logical and an agnostic and teach my children to think, ask questions, research, find answers. I listen to music almost 24 hours a day. I love to draw, I can play piano/keyboard and was actually in a rock band for a few years in my early twenties. I like to think out of the box, I desire unique and insightful conversation, I like debating on a friendly level, I can be stubborn and bullheaded at times but am never afraid to admit when I'm wrong or to apologize. I wish more people were like that. I like to have company over and drink and maybe head out to a local pub for the atmosphere of being social and around people. Family is important to me, as I and mine just became close again.I'm looking to date and meet new people. I don't do exclusivity until there's a serious connection. I need someone who can deal with my spontaneous nature or who can deal with my "I just wanna stay in the house" moods. You will need to understand a creative mind and my tendency to jump from topic to topic. If you don't talk, I'll talk your ear off so it would be nice to find someone who can interject yet not take over the entire conversation with their ego. I'm pretty awesome and truly need to find someone to match up with this level of awesome ;)P.S.I don't think you look hot in the pic with your shirt off. I don't want photos of your d!ck. I'd prefer messages with half well constructed grammar. I'm not skinny and I don't look like a model when I wake up, if you're all about looks, you take those eyes and look elsewhere. I can take care of myself and do quite well, I don't want your money or your house, I've got my own, thanks. Also, I'm not a cowgirl and country music blows chunks. It all depends on the day, the time and who you are.

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