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Shirly, 33

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About Me

I'm a fairly laid back girl :) Family is most important to me! I love watching football with family every Sunday... I run a family pool and am in a fantasy league with family... perhaps I'm a little obsessed! haha! It's so hard to decide what to say on here. It's worse than a job interview. But similar feelings... like oh is this the right thing to say? Is this impressive or does it make me look or sound like an idiot? Ok so maybe I tend to analyze things a little too much... I am a counselor by trade!! Anyway, I'm looking for someone to get to know and see what happens. Someday I want that white picket fence life... but without the white picket fence! :) Let's see, more about me... I love to travel! I love live music... outdoor concerts are the best! I love the beach... it can be so calming! My goals include earning my Ph.D. and becoming a college professor. I want to be that older, cool, laid back professor. I also hope to write a book someday... I worked in mental health for 8 years and am now a Guidance Counselor at an alternative school... I've got lots of crazy stories! And since I mentioned a few things I love... here's a few I hate... the Patriots, mean people and tomatoes!! I guess that's enough about me for now! :) Something simple and relaxed for a first meeting... meet for a drink and go from there...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Estefana

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Love being a mom. I'm very easy going for the most part. Pretty good at making the best out of a crappy situation. Just a few pet peeves: No liars, has to be trustworthy, please have a job, I consider myself ride or die, hoping for the same. Up for just about anything, with limits of course:)

  • Hyun

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    First and foremost, I am a single mom of wonderful little boy that is almost 3. He is the joy of my life and he comes first. In order to get anywhere with me you need to want kids, love kids and be able to accept him as your own and not think of him as baggage. What I am looking for: I am looking for someone with a good sense of humor, not too sarcastic, can have fun but be serious when the time comes. Someone that is honest, loving, caring, good with kids, romantic and sensible. I would also like it if my match was already done with college and settled in a career, such as myself. Would like someone that takes care of themselves, is fit and not over weight. I would hope that you would want that in exchange. I enjoy being active and would like someone that also enjoys getting out and doing things. Being home is nice and relaxing but you can't do that ***. Would love it if my guy could cook. I can cook but I am no chef and every now and then, I like to take the night off =) I love to travel and love cruises. I am in to sports: love my Buckeyes, Lions, Tigers and Indians!About me:I am a down to earth girl with simple tastes and is pretty easy to please. I have been in the education field since ***. Only been in NC for 2yrs now and am still pretty knew to what's out there. I have many interests and alot of those are listed under interests for you to check out. As mentioned already, I am a mom and that is the most rewarding job. I am honest and will tell you how it is. I am trustworthy and faithful. I am a lover not a fighter, however, I will protect my family and if you hurt them or me, watch out. I am a romantic at heart but am looking to find someone who knows what that word means. I am tired of being the one in the relationship that is the romantic only. It should be a two way street!I don't want to write a book and have you pass by me cause it's too much to read, so contact me if you want to know more!Hope to hear from you soon! =)***** Please DONT contact me if you are: still legally married, are not looking for something serious, DONT WANT KIDS, DONT LIKE KIDS, don't like a women who can be brutally honest, have no ambition or goals in life or are looking for me to support you ***** First Dates are hard to describe what you would want because it really depends on the person and the time and season as well. I actually like dinner and a movie dates because you get to sit down and get to know each other over dinner and then some quiet time to reflect over the movie. I am down for about anything though.. concert, park, ball game, outdoors activity, etc...

  • Charlene

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm very spontaneous and enjoy being out of the house. I am definitely not a home body! I have the most fun when I'm out doing stuff with my kids. We take lots of road trips wit no destination. Random camping trips to where ever we can find a place to put our tent. Hiking on rocks over the river and through the woods.I want to find my best friend, a partner in crime, someone that "just gets me"I try to stay positive all the time because positive thoughts lead to positive outcomes. I will try anything twice because everyone and everything needs a second chance at a first impression.If you don't have kids you probably won't understand what it's like to be a single parent. If you aren't willing to understand it then don't waste my time and i won't waste yours.P.s. I'm actually 33...i can't change my birthday... Something different...dinner is cool but if you want to keep my attention you need to be a bit more creative...

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