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Lillia, 55
United States, Alabama, Oneonta

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About Me

They say life begins at 50! Well my first 50 years were great so, "THE BEST IS YET TO COME"... I'm not into the "bar/club" scene and the caliber of men I've been meeting at the Singles Dances in the area have shall we say, "been less to be desired". I figured Hey! why not dust off my old fishing pole and see if my bait is still good enough to land me the "Catch of the Day"...... As my mother always told me there are Plenty of Fish in the sea so I guess I'm in the right place.HOLD THE PRESSES!!! BIG NEWS STORY!!! Joanie has decided she needs a new look for the New Year..... I no longer have the big head of hair, the Dolly Parton look. Hopefully you'll like it too, now you can run your fingers through my hair while you're passionately kissing me. LOLWhat is she looking for you might be thinking... I think it might be easier to describe what I'm positively NOT looking for. Here goes. I'm not looking for a one night stand (do they still call it that?) a hook-up, an intimate relationship, a sex buddy, a married man's mistress. What I am looking for is this: If your a great guy with a kind, gentle heart please respond!! I know your out there somewhere, a truly genuine nice guy, laid back, easy going, no drugs, non-smoker, employed, knows how to treat and respect a real lady, great sense of humor, shares my interests,loves to live each day to it's fullest. He knows like I do that the most successful relationships began with a solid foundation of friendship.I'd like him to be between the ages of 55 to 65. I want to take things SLOW and EASY taking the time to really get to know each other. I want someone I can confide in and know that he is there for me no matter what. I love to kiss and cuddle and treat my man good. I give my partner lots of respect and expect the same in return. It's also important that he has a happy, positive outlook and attitude as I do about life. When life deals me lemons, I make lemonade. Give some thought to these wonderful words to live by:"SING LIKE NOBODY'S LISTENING" - "LIVE LIKE IT'S HEAVEN ON EARTH" - "WORK LIKE YOU DON'T NEED MONEY" - "LOVE LIKE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN HURT" - and "DANCE LIKE NO-ONE'S WATCHING"..... And always remember "Happiness is a Journey not a Destination"......I'm an attractive 5'8" blonde with a fuller figure, but curvy body. If you're looking for a thin, slim Barbie doll type, then I'm NOT the woman for you. I wear a size 16, and I do have meat on my bones. But it is USDA Prime Choice not chopped liver. LOL....If you want to feel a REAL woman in your arms then you will love me. Don't be afraid, I'm not obese or a rolley polley, my weight is evenly distributed on my body. I've been told I look very sexy.............. For a first meeting, I would like to meet for drinks or coffee at a nice quiet public place for some relaxing conversation to see if we feel any connection or chemistry for each other. If we do feel a connection great! Maybe we could go for a walk and make plans for our 1st date. My ideal first date would be:We decide to take a ride up to the seacoast because I love the ocean and think it is the most romantic place to be especially at sunset. We find a nice, quiet, romantic little place to have dinner and after dinner we walk along the water's edge holding hands in the moonlight.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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