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Lani, 52

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First of all, thanks for stopping by. I'm glad that you enjoyed my picture :-)Let me first start off by saying that I am a mature woman who knows what she wants. I do not date men under 45 years old or over 53 years old. Please do not try to convince me. Please don't find this rude or mean but I don't want to waste anyone's time. Also because I am tall and I like to wear heels, I only date men that are 6'-6'3". I like to be able to look into my man's eyes so over 6'3" is too tall for me and I'm uncomfortable.For those who have criticized and yelled at me for having a very long profile, I'm sorry but I'd like you to know some things about me first. With all that being said here's a little backstory on me first.... I am a native Californian. I was adopted as a baby and grew up with the most wonderful parents. My sister that I grew up with found my birth family about six years ago. And I now have three full-blooded siblings to add to my family. I am truly blessed to have two wonderful families. I was a model and a beauty queen and I won several titles. I was also a playboy bunny at the Century City club and was a placard bearer in the ***Olympics. I have done so many interesting things in my life, people have said I should write a book. I now work in the entertainment industry as a make up artist and a producer. I am fortunate to be able to travel to different countries with my work. I enjoy what I do as my profession. But sometimes I work long and unpredictable hours, making it sometimes difficult to plan a coffee date. I am usually working with beautiful sexy women so it's hard to meet any eligible men, so that is why I am on this dating site.I enjoy going to antique auctions and car shows. I've had several different classic cars. An ex-boyfriend and I would buy a classic car then fix it up and sell it. It was a lot of fun because I used to drive it around while it was for sale. I've learned a lot about construction and how to repair things.I love to go roller skating. At one point in time I was an excellent skater. I was in several skating movies including roller boogie and skate town. I'm totally into the alien conspiracy theories. I enjoy going to MUFON meetings. I actually held the star child skull, which was amazing! I love to look at the stars and wonder when the mother ship is coming back. LOLI am into holistic medicine and natural products. I am interested in all the New Age type of things. I am a tree hugger at heart. I am a vegetarian/vegan and have been a vegetarian for over 30 years. I will not date a hunter and I am against fishing. But if you're a meat eater I can deal with that but would prefer someone with a healthier lifestyle. The majority of my ex boyfriends and my good friends eat meat so I do not preach. (It's your karma! lol). I love going to the theater, seeing live music, comedy shows, movies, certain lectures and conventions. I consider myself a never ending student of life and everything it has to offer. I love talking with people whom are interesting and have experienced a lot of life situations.I am honest, loyal, kind, faithful, health-conscious, respectful, likes people, has a good sense of humor, spiritual, loves animals, somewhat intelligent :-), spontaneous -yet grounded, easy--spirited, self-sufficient, strong, old soul type, motivated, helpful, good morals, positive and upbeat, resourceful, clean, nonjudgmental, not into games or drama and I want someone with those same qualities. :-) I do know that no one is perfect and it is a daily job for me to remember to be some of those things too. I would love to find a man who has the above qualities and wants to go on walks or hiking to get physically fit with me. I used to be a dancer so I was in great physical shape but now that I've gotten older I keep forgetting that I have to actually work out to retain a nice body! I also want someone who is wanting to travel to see different countries with me. I love to see the culture and architecture.I’d love to find my best friend and a lover all mixed into one man. Is that too much to ask for. :-) Please not try to convince me that you are an old soul at 27 or a young hip 63 year old. I'm sure that you are, but I'm just not interested. :-) And if you don't have a profile picture, most women will not open your *** would have never written your *** first place had you not seen our profile picture, so it's only fair! And please don't message me if you are a jealous type or that is into games, negative, Immature and Insecure. And I don't want to hear about you bashing your ex wife/girlfriend. I don't have time to be a therapist lolWith all that being said, I hope that everyone finds that special person that they are searching for. :-) For a first meeting type of date, I am open to suggestions. But I do love frozen yogurt. I am not a coffee drinker but I love a good cup of tea. Lunch, brunch or dinner would be nice too but I am a picky eater so I am just forewarning you. :-) I am a vegetarian who is allergic to gluten so I know certain places that I absolutely love to eat at! For a possible second date, Disneyland sounds fun. I haven't been there in many many years. Or a movie at my three dollar theater lol :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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