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Affricah, 55

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About Me

At this rate, I think I have better odds of winning the lottery than to actually find a loving, compatible mate. lol I know they have to be out there, but whether they will be on meetville, well your guess is as good as mine *smile*I recently changed my profile from 'long term' to 'dating' because I want to take time getting to know the special man I meet, rather than jumping into a committed relationship from the first moment we met. I think we need to physically be together, date, enjoy our alone time to allow our love to grow ~ If the long term love is there, we will both know and commit then. *smile*My friends and those I've dated have said I am creative, caring, devoted, love to laugh, kind-hearted, loving, good kisser, loyal...etc. *grin* At this point in my life, I'm looking for enjoyment, friends and possibly that true love! Ideally, I'm looking for a man who isn't intimidated by sharing inner thoughts, secrets, dreams, and hopes because he knows, as I do, being attentive and putting effort into a loving relationship with one special person who will not judge or ridicule, but simply love and accept you even if you're different then their beliefs creates such a peaceful, amazing, lifelong bond. When you also add attraction, humor, joy, passion, connective similarities in morals and respect, plus shared pleasures and pure fun...NOW that is a relationship to treasure a lifetime.I am looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman with respect as well as friendship and love. But more so, he should know that loving, romantic words over coffee in the morning; sweet, thoughtful texts during the day, plus gentle touches and playful nibbles on my neck while making dinner together could lead to a wonderful passionate night. ** Ideally, I hope to find a man who will be my very best friend, life partner, one-and-only lover, co-cook, even random travel companion. Someone who enjoys my humor and playfulness as our lives mesh well together in all areas. He has to be a special man who also believes in honesty, loyalty, trust, communication, love, happiness, pure fun and monogamy, as I do. And even though he will know me so well he could finish my sentences, he won't because he wants to hear my opinion and vice-versa. I'd prefer a non-tobacco user (chew, cigarettes, cigars, pipe...etc) Also, no one who drinks excessively or uses illegal drugs of any sort, please...just too complicated and I want the joy in life. *grin*I'm open to new things that we both truly enjoy. I enjoy walking or light hiking; love traveling (short trips or longer vacations - both can be fun with the right person and attitude); passionate kisses, touching, and affection; spending time with the one I love, witty banter and conversation; family & friends; playing cards, games or puzzles; quiet evenings at home curled up together reading and playing; household projects; watching tv or movies. I also like going out just not every evening because I like private time with my love more. **Unfortunately, I must make it clear, I'm not on here for a 'booty call', or web-cam sex, or even to talk/text naughty to you - definitely not my style. So if these are the qualities you are after, please keep looking, and best of luck. It's important to me that we become best of friends and enjoy each others company to the fullest (did I mention I love humor and side-splitting laughter?) along with feeling that amazing 'spark' of attraction. I do long to be romanced and so much in love that I just can't help but smile throughout the day whenever I think of the you. I'm the type who jots little love notes you may find in unexpected places or text loving thoughts throughout your day...when you least expect them and you'll smile and think of me too. All-in-all, I'm pretty happy plus rather low key...and fairly easy to please. ** I'm more content in jeans but can dress it up a notch when necessary.; morals which are reflected in the respect and love I show those I care about. My family is extremely large, loyal, loud and lovable - with an abundance of intelligence and humor to spare. We enjoy staying in contact - treating all family and loved ones as a priority in life. Please be kind and include a CURRENT photo of yourself, with your face clearly showing, as I have. I update these photos periodically too. I think it's important for us both to know who we are ***, corresponding with, getting to know and falling in love with. Our appearance is not all what we are about, but I also feel I have nothing to hide and I want to be upfront on who I am. Besides, yours may be a face I will be looking at, and eyes I will be gazing into for a long time to come. If you're interested in getting to know me, send me a message rather than simply a meet. *smile*Note: Any *** individuals DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile information, content, or pictures posted on Plentyoffish, in any form or forum, both current and future. meeting for coffee, tea or drinks but conversation is really what is the important part of a 'meet' date. I prefer to go 'Dutch' on a meet-date and even meet ***way is acceptable by me. But we will know after we meet, if there is a friendship and/or a romantic interest within a short time; we will have already *** bit and spoken in length on the phone too just to be sure *smile*

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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